Man Within Podcast

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The overabundance of mental illness diagnoses could be one of the defining issues of our day. Diagnoses should inform us, but they shouldn't define us. I share a personal story about my experience with this issue, and talk about how identifying with our diagnoses could be keeping us from truly living out our God-given identities.

In this episode, I discuss:

0:44 Get my book for free (The Last Relapse)

2:20 Western medicine and what happens when a diagnosis becomes an identity

5:30 Diagnosis rarely discusses the cause of the issue

7:46 Why we don't like labeling ourselves or clients as "porn addicts"

8:32 Let diagnoses inform you, not define you

Resources:

The Last Relapse

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Paul Louis Cole is a husband, father, grandfather, President of the Christian Men’s Network Worldwide, and Founding Pastor of C3 Church in Dallas, Texas. 

With an extensive network and experience around the world speaking into mens' lives, he brings a deep wisdom to the conversation about discipling men, cross-cultural communication, trauma, and how to find peace in an age of noise.

In this episode, we discuss:

3:30 1 million men discipled in Indonesia alone

6:07 The full discipleship process, "shoulder to shoulder"

10:03 Jesus didn't pick disciples who were just "hanging out"...they were all busy working, doing, building

16:42 Appealing to men all over the world through the universal character and temptation to sin of men

22:58 Why trauma informs our addictions and what we do to escape from pain

29:45 What men are hung up on today

35:04 The noise of the industrial age and how to find peace and quiet

40:10 How to slow down

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Christian Men's Network

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Very few things are more important these days for a man than being confident. But from my personal experience, and the experience of many of our clients, I know that pornography addictions CRUSHES confidence. You might think it's no big deal, that pornography addiction doesn't actually hurt you or anyone around you...but when you count the wasted potential? It's enormous.

Confidence is truly developed from the habitual demonstration of courage...so I encourage you today to stay clean and do the right, hard things necessary to build courage across all areas of your life!

In this episode, I discuss:

1:19 Answering your questions! How to submit for upcoming episodes

2:12 Our new program...what next?

3:01 How porn crushes confidence

4:30 Taking more risks for greater rewards

6:10 Confidence comes from the habitual demonstration of courage

8:06 What Halo 2 teaches about confidence

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Join Sathiya and DeepClean Head Coach Shawn Bonneateau on today's Q&A episode, where they answer listener-submitted questions!

Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link.

They start off with some life updates including a discussion on sleep training (which actually relates to attachment theory and emotional regulation, which are very important topics in recovery), then answer questions related to next steps after taking huge action for recovery accountability, as it relates to dating, and how to actually find the underlying cause of your porn usage.

In this episode, we discuss:

0:35 Life updates from Sathiya and Shawn

4:58 Sleep training for babies (including attachment and emotional regulation)

10:24 The cancel culture in Canada, breakups, and Covid craziness

19:07 Question 1: How do I deal with my struggle with pornography in my dating relationship?

28:17 Question 2: How to find out what the underlying cause of my porn use is?

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Resources Mentioned

Matt Cline, Restored Ministries

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We're often quick to blame the enemy's spiritual warfare on why we are continually stuck in our addictions. Of course, Satan is often at work. But there's a much more fundamental opposition that we have to deal with if we are to finally break free, especially if we've been trying to operate on our own strength, alone. Let's dive into the Scriptures today and clear away the opposition you face in your journey to freedom!

In this episode, I discuss:

1:04 Watch the case study and book a call (link above)

2:11 Why would you need a program to quit porn, instead of just praying, casting out demons, and building your relationship with God?

3:46 The other force working against you getting clean

7:56 The answer to the opposition you're facing

9:17 Get this step down first, THEN worry about spiritual warfare

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Get $25 off a Wisephone II as part of your efforts to become FREE from pornography addiction

Go to https://techless.com/deepclean and use discount code DEEPCLEAN to get $25 off your Wisephone.

Techless will NEVER allow access to pornography on their phones, not to mention you'll also get the huge benefits of taking control of your time and attention with more intentional technology.

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Chris Kaspar, founder of Techless, joins us today to talk about creating and managing an intentional relationship with tech, including the theology of technology, practical ways to control your phone usage instead of it controlling you, how they're trying to disrupt the market by giving consumers back their time and attention, and what to expect with technology over the coming decades.

In this episode, we discuss:

0:46 Why start an "intentionally boring phone" company in this fast-paced, technology age

2:21 Mobile phones as the gateway to pornography

4:28 The difference between the Wisephone and smartphones

8:58 Fighting the war on notifications

13:28 The profound impact of setting boundaries on technology and phone usage in the family

15:57 Socializing within a relational hierarchy

19:32 Crafting your 7-day weekly rhythm to prioritize relationship

20:54 The Theology of Technology - how should we view tech as believers? 

26:48 Where technology is going and what to expect over the next few decades

35:54 The biggest changes between v1 and v2 of the Wisephone

41:45 How behaviour change happens for Wisephone users over the first 30 days, and how to make it a long-term habit just like recovery from pornography

44:45 The spiritual importance of our relationship with technology

RESOURCES

Go to https://techless.com/deepclean and use code DEEPCLEAN for $25 off your purchase of a Wisephone II.

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In my recent interview with Jim O'Day, I decided to broach the sensitive subject of celibacy in Catholic priests. I asked him if he thought celibacy was leading to the abuses we have seen in the church, and to my surprise, he said it was likely. In this episode, I discuss why and how to celebrate our God-given sexuality in a healthy way, and consider how to navigate these tricky topics faithfully.

 In this episode, I discuss:

0:50 Help us grow the podcast (and help us keep the show ad-free)

1:42 Does celibacy lead to abuse?

4:14 Why context matters, and the closet metaphor

6:26 Why we have to see sex for what it truly is (and how to surrender our desires to the Lord)

8:00 Sexuality is meant to be celebrated

RESOURCES

Jim O'Day Episode

The Ultimate Recovery Guide

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Welcome to our fourth Q&A episode! If you're loving this style, please listen, share, and send me a message to let me know. We're going to be looking at the analytics closely, so if you love it, share it, and we'll see higher downloads, and if you hate it...well, don't listen or share and we'll stop!

Our head coach, Shawn and I talk about the role of the church in porn viewership, the dynamics of living with extended family, stewarding generational wealth, how to manage high standards without getting stressed out about them, and how to go from ALMOST free to COMPLETE freedom.

In this episode, we discuss:

1:01 Porn viewership would plummet if the local church did a better job talking about the subject

13:30 Navigating the dynamics of living with extended family

19:45 Stewarding generational wealth

25:37 Question 1: How do you manage having and setting high standards without getting stressed or anxious?

35:57 Question 2: How do you move from ALMOST free (a few relapses/year) to COMPLETE freedom?

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Resources Mentioned

The Gap and the Gain by Dan Sullivan

Finish by John Acuff

Changes That Heal by Dr. Henry Cloud

Unwanted by Jay Stringer

Doug Carpenter Podcast Interview

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 Journaling is an absolute game-changer for men in recovery, but you probably can't guess the reason behind it's potency. In this episode, I dive into journaling, including why and how to do it. Not only is journaling the single tool I'd give everyone in recovery if I could, but it ended up being part of the secret to getting our clients repeatable successful results.

In this episode, I discuss:

1:12 Podcast updates, including how to submit your questions

2:42 The ONE tool I'd give everyone in recovery

4:10 The secret to finally getting repeatable results for our clients in our recovery process

6:42 What journaling does and why it's invaluable in recovery

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Man's Secret Weapon Episode

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Scott Donnell joins us today, fresh off of his experience presenting with Tony Robbins, and he absolutely blows the doors off of anything you thought you knew about money, generational wealth, and financial literacy for you and your kids.

From generosity being the most important money mindset, to leaving a heritage not just an inheritance, to some insanely practical and rarely talked about ways to build your kids and family into financial titans, this is a must listen episode for anyone looking to increase their wealth and stewardship abilities.

In this episode, I discuss:

3:35 Why money is so important to us...even if we say it's not

5:40 How to strike the balance between caring about money and not serving it as a master

7:27 Why generosity is the single most important mindset to have around money

11:53 Why kids need heritage, not just inheritance

16:12 Using stories to pass on your values and heritage

19:48 Create value first, not money

23:32 "Allowance is basically socialism"

25:37 The Home Economy System

35:23 Do parents have to get their stuff together before they teach their kids?

39:07 Do you have money trauma?

45:25 How much do generationally wealthy families pass down to their kids?

RESOURCES

Dinner Table

Gravy Stack

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Rich Dad, Poor Dad

Value Creation Kid

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