Are you tired of feeling frustrated because your partner doesn't seem to know what you want in your relationship? What if I told you that you have the power to change this dynamic and get more of what you desire?

Communication and collaboration are the cornerstones of any successful relationship. But what does effective communication look like? But how do you go from feeling unheard to creating a culture where both you and your partner are getting more of what you desire?

In this episode, I'll walk you through my 3-step framework for how you can get your partner's attention, make a specific and behavioral request, and encourage their progress, transforming your relationship in the process. We'll explore the secrets to getting more of what you want in your relationship.

To go even deeper into these strategies, I'm hosting the Become the Hero Challenge and the Wise Wife Challenge starting on Monday, December 5th. Register for these challenges and join us for FREE.

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Ever struggle to get out of your cozy, warm bed on a cold morning? Trust me, I've been there too. But, what if I taught you a super simple hack to add to gratitude that will not only make it bearable but also transform your personal life and relationships? This is what we're exploring today!

Through personal stories, I'll share how this simple change has made an impact in my own life.

As we approach Thanksgiving, it's the perfect time to reflect on the profound effects of gratitude. The simple act of giving thanks can have a ripple effect on our lives and relationships. From gym routines to supporting friends and family, I'll share practical tips on how gratitude can become a natural part of our day to day lives. Let's embark on this journey together, and uncover the power of supercharging your gratitude with this little trick!

We also have an exciting announcement: the Wise Wives Challenge and Become the Hero Husband Challenge are coming up on December 4th, promising to activate your partner's hero genes and bring more attention, affection, and appreciation into your relationship.

Don't miss out on this opportunity to join us for these 2 FREE Live Challenges.

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Picture this: you're sailing through the holiday season, fully present, stress-free, and basking in joy. Sounds dreamy, doesn't it?

I'm here to tell you it's achievable! This episode is jam-packed with practical, actionable strategies for enjoying a truly joyful holiday season, instead of being lost in overwhelm. We talk about setting an intention for the season, being present, planning ahead, and filtering activities to engage in only those that are truly meaningful. Sounds good?

I'm sharing how to maximize holiday traditions while reducing stress. Navigating the often chaotic holiday schedules and finances can be daunting, but with the right approach, they can serve us rather than drain us.

To sum it all I'm, I'm giving you 3 tangible tools to feel more peaceful and connected no matter what is actually happening around you this holiday season.

If you haven't already, be sure to take my FREE 3-minute intimacy level quiz to find out what level of intimacy you have in your marriage right now and what you can do to improve it --> https://monicatanner.com/quiz

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Ready to shake up the way we teach our kids about money? Join me as I sit down with Scott Donnell, best-selling author and host of the Smart Money Parenting podcast, putting the spotlight on financial literacy for the younger generation. Scott is on a mission to empower 50 million children and parents with financial competence through Gravy Stack, a gamified bank account for kids and teens. We're not just talking piggy banks and pocket money here; we're breaking down the poverty mindset and taking responsibility for our kids' financial education.

It's time to rethink the way we approach teaching financial skills to our children. For the past decade, Scott has been leading the charge, using platforms like business fairs and Grapestack to impart financial literacy basics to families. We dive into the mechanics of his home economy system, built around the three E’s: expectations, expenses, and extra pay. This isn't just about counting coins; it's about teaching children to make sound financial decisions, managing their money, and understanding the value of work.

We also touch upon the pressing need to build a generation of deeply connected, confident, and capable individuals. We're talking about equipping them with the skills they need to navigate the world.  So how do we do this? We're sharing insights on setting up a home money system that supports your children's financial education and prepares them for a secure future. So join us, learn, and start the conversation about money with your own families.

And if you liked this episode and want some further training from Scott, be sure to register for this FREE webclass we're hosting --> https://monicatanner.com/moneykids

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What if your relationship could be the secret to a booming business? In a fascinating chat with the sensational duo, Jen Gottlieb and Chris Winfield, I'm uncovering the secret to BE SEEN. This extraordinary couple, not only share a beautiful love story but also a multiple eight-figure business. Their journey, marked by challenges and victories, is a testimony to what a supportive partnership can achieve. This episode is a special one as it also features the launch of Jen's new book, BE SEEN, a must-read for anyone seeking to enhance their visibility in business and relationships.

Our conversation goes beyond business success and delves into the dynamic personal life of Jen and Chris. We talk communication, accountability, vulnerability, and juggling the demands of work and play. As mentors, they have made a significant impact on many entrepreneurs' lives, and their approach provides a unique roadmap for those seeking harmony in their relationships. Discover how they maintain their energy levels while remaining constantly in the spotlight and learn the importance of supporting one another’s goals in a partnership.

We wrap up this episode with an enlightening discussion on personal branding, decision-making, and maintaining fulfilling relationships. Jen and Chris offer invaluable strategies on how to consistently show up in business and relationships, how to sail through life's challenges using the mantra 'this too shall pass', and how to harness the power of AI and storytelling to make an impact.  So get ready for a riveting conversation that promises to redefine how you perceive intimate relationships and entrepreneurship.

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You know those moments when your heart is pulsing, your palms are sweaty, and your thoughts are racing a hundred miles a minute? That's emotion at its rawest and most powerful, and today, we're turning the tables on how we view these intense feelings. Instead of seeing them as destructive forces, we're chatting with life coach Jill Freestone about how to harness these big emotions to strengthen family bonds and deepen our relationships. 

Jill helps us explore the concept of emotional safety in our relationships - that crucial foundation that enables true vulnerability and connection. She shares a poignant family example, shedding light on how unchecked emotions can lead to a disconnect. We talk about strategies for establishing emotional safety, from learning to communicate effectively to being fully present for intimate conversations. We also discuss self-regulation, and how managing our own emotional states can create a nurturing environment for connection.

Jill addresses how to teach emotional intelligence to kids and manage big emotions in teenagers. She shares insightful tips on creating safe spaces for children to express their feelings and demonstrates how to effectively self-regulate. We also touch upon the controversial topic of screen time and its impact on emotions and parent-child communication. 

Wrapping up, we dive into practical advice from Jill on managing big emotions and their resultant behavior changes. It's a great episode that's going to change how you relate to your emotions, making them your allies rather than adversaries.

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Picture this. You’re in your 40s, married to the love of your life, and one day you decide to help an orphanage in Kenya. This is where we find our guests, Celeste and Don Mergens, founders of Days for Girls, a global award-winning organization championing women's health and menstrual equity. But how does one go from charity work in Africa to transforming lives in over 145 countries? This episode is all about that journey, their 40-year long marriage, and how the two are intertwined.

Have you ever wondered how long-lasting relationships survive the test of time? Hear Celeste and Don's heartwarming love story as they share glimpses of their vibrant life together, full of surprises, acts of kindness, and a shared mission that fuels their bond. The Mergens' secret? A shared faith and commitment to their mission. Their inspiring journey resonates with the essence of a successful partnership, often likened to a team sport that requires risk, reward, and mutual understanding.

Join us as we travel through Celeste's challenging yet triumphant voyages which led to the creation of Days for Girls. From creating washable pads in just three weeks to their unexpected expansion to India and beyond. The Power of Days, Celeste's new book, encapsulates their mission and the thrilling adventure. Not only will you be moved by the Mergens' beautiful story of love and resilience, but you'll also learn how you can get involved with Days for Girls and contribute to creating a positive global impact. 

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Are you ready to unlock the power of sexual intimacy to bond you together?

This episode is filled with personal stories, hard-learned lessons, and practical advice drawn from my own experiences. Discover how vulnerability can actually be the most authentic expression of love and connection. We'll also discuss how practicing sexual intimacy can have a profound ripple effect, blessing your children and family for generations to come.

Being tired should never be an excuse to put off intimacy! I'm challenging this mindset and emphasizing the need to make time for your relationship, even when exhaustion hits.  As a gift for listening to this episode, I'm offering you a FREE download called 13 Alternate Times to Make Love When You're Not Exhausted Right Before Bed --> https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/13timestoconnect

If your connection isn't as strong as you'd like it to be, don't procrastinate seeking help any longer. Find ways to work with me at: https://monicatanner.com.

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What if in just a few days time, you could unlock the power of intimacy and connection in your marriage?

In this week's episode, I'm thrilled to have Tony and Alisa DeLorenzo from ONE Extraordinary Marriage, sharing their wisdom and experiences. They've spent over a decade running a podcast, learning invaluable lessons, and using those insights to save their marriage and thousands of others from the brink of divorce. We're discussing their six pillars of intimacy and how these can serve as a roadmap for couples looking to refocus, take action, and experience success in their relationships.

We're also talking about our newest project - the Unlock the Power of Intimacy Summit. We're bringing together an incredible group of experts, each with a unique skill set and a shared passion for enriching marriages. This summit is designed to equip couples with knowledge and action steps to foster stronger, more intimate relationships.  Join us on this journey, and let's create a marriage manual that will transform your relationship into something truly extraordinary!

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Are you ready to unlock the secrets of a fulfilling marriage? Do you want to experience the kind of intimacy that brings joy, connection, and passion into all your relationships? My own journey towards building this intimacy was filled with challenges, hard times, and mistakes. Yet, with understanding, commitment, effort, resilience, and stamina, I discovered the essence of a truly intimate relationship.

In this episode, I'm talking about some of my personal breakthrough moments and the secret project I promised to share with you this week! Are you ready your own breakthrough moment?

Drumroll, please.... it's called the Unlock the Power of Intimacy Summit, where I called 30+ of my favorite authors, speakers, coaches and therapists to collaborate on an incredible event for the purpose of strengthening marriages intimately.

Prepare to be swept off your feet as we share our personal experiences, valuable insights, and help you create your very own, personalized marriage manual. Check out the full line-up of speakers at:  https://powerofintimacysummit.com.

Let's embark on this journey towards happily ever after together.

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