The Imperfects

Mary Fowler - Forgiving Yourself-Harm


Listen Later

We’re nervous. We’re excited. We’re nervous and excited. Because it’s Mary freaking Fowler day.

🎟️ Our live show Together Again is on sale now! Tickets here - https://bit.ly/4mEK9Ep

Joining us in the Vulnerabilitea House, all the way from Manchester, Mary answers the question ‘what do you worry about the most?’

With wisdom far beyond her 22 years, Mary explains to Hugh, Ryan and Josh the impossible task of being the ‘perfect’ role model, especially when you are still growing up yourself.

And then, in a conversation that will help many, and maybe even save the life of a few, Mary graciously shares her experiences with self-harm, and why she thinks it is so important to have the heavy conversations, even with the risk of saying the wrong thing.

Mary talks about her journey with pressure and forgiveness that lead her to rediscover ‘Little Mary’, her wall of things that make her feel loved, and how she has been able to reframe her darkest times to find more empathy for others.

Mary, it was an absolute dream come true to speak with you.

0:00 – The 2023 Fairy tale
6:52 – What do you worry about most?
23:00 – Giving and taking power
34:01 – Appreciating the little things
41:01 – Saying the hard thing
56:22 – Beauty after pain
1:04:29 – Am I supposed to be here?
1:09:16 – Looking after Little Mary

if you would like to watch this full video on YouTube, follow this link: https://youtu.be/O_9Wf0WSfMM 

📖Things to read;

  • Bloom, by Mary Fowler - https://bit.ly/443cWw3

🚨If you, or someone you know, is thinking about suicide or self-harm, Lifeline on 13 11 14 is a great place to start. In an emergency, please call 000.

🩷To host your own Vulnerabilitea House, (with the new cards!) purchase here - http://bit.ly/4lyuuWz

🩵To purchase our journal (or your novel) My Imperfect Life, click here - http://bit.ly/4lyuuWz

💌Join 3,000+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments from this episode in our weekly newsletter - http://bit.ly/45NyQDy

🩵To join our patreon community, A Little More Imperfects, follow this link - http://bit.ly/4mqunxu

🩷 AND you can subscribe to A Little More Imperfects through Apple Podcasts too, here - http://bit.ly/4mq5BO5

The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

The ImperfectsBy Hugh van Cuylenburg, Ryan Shelton & Josh van Cuylenburg

  • 4.7
  • 4.7
  • 4.7
  • 4.7
  • 4.7

4.7

46 ratings


More shows like The Imperfects

View all
No Filter by Mamamia Podcasts

No Filter

585 Listeners

Conversations by ABC

Conversations

844 Listeners

All In The Mind by ABC

All In The Mind

776 Listeners

Mamamia Out Loud by Mamamia Podcasts

Mamamia Out Loud

623 Listeners

Chat 10 Looks 3 by Chat 10 Looks 3

Chat 10 Looks 3

211 Listeners

Ladies, We Need To Talk by ABC

Ladies, We Need To Talk

317 Listeners

The Quicky by Mamamia Podcasts

The Quicky

114 Listeners

KICPOD by LiSTNR

KICPOD

167 Listeners

Life Uncut by Brittany Hockley and Laura Byrne

Life Uncut

279 Listeners

Something To Talk About by Stellar

Something To Talk About

103 Listeners

The Jess Rowe Big Talk Show by A Crap Housewife Production

The Jess Rowe Big Talk Show

63 Listeners

But Are You Happy? by Mamamia Podcasts

But Are You Happy?

43 Listeners

Pop Culture Parenting by Dr Billy Garvey, Nick McCormack

Pop Culture Parenting

39 Listeners

MID by Mamamia Podcasts

MID

70 Listeners

Inherited by Shameless Media

Inherited

66 Listeners