Are you an extrovert in the swinger lifestyle—or partnered with one? In this episode, Matt and Bianca unpack the dynamics between introverts and extroverts in the lifestyle, exploring how energy levels, social comfort, and communication impact relationships.Matt shares his experience as an “extroverted extrovert”, while Bianca offers insight into how introverts can feel isolated or drained in high-energy lifestyle events. Together, they introduce the Marble Theory, a simple way to understand how couples recharge differently and find balance between connection and downtime.Whether you’re the social butterfly of the playroom or the quiet observer who needs space to recharge, this candid conversation helps couples better understand each other’s needs—so you can connect deeper, play happier, and thrive in the lifestyle together.

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🍍🍍🍍Key Takeaways:Extroverts gain energy from social interactionsIntroverts often feel drained and need quiet timeThe Marble Theory explains how we recharge differentlyCommunication keeps relationships balanced and happyCheck in with each other before and after social eventsEncourage but never pressure your partner to engageRelationship harmony comes from mutual understandingKeywords: swinger lifestyle, lifestyle podcast, introverts and extroverts, swinging tips, open relationships, communication in relationships, relationship advice, Marble Theory, lifestyle dynamics, Matt and Bianca, Club Sapphire, lifestyle couples, swinger adviceHashtags:#SwingerLifestyle #IntrovertVsExtrovert #OpenRelationships #MattAndBianca #ClubSapphire #LifestylePodcast #RelationshipGoals #MarbleTheory #CommunicationInRelationships #SwingerTips

Matt and Bianca have taken their open relationship to a whole new level—they’ve entered into a *quad*! In this video, they share what it’s really like dating another couple, how the connection formed, and what they’ve learned about communication, boundaries, and keeping things fun (and spicy).

Join them as they laugh through the awkward moments, talk about navigating jealousy, and explain the difference between swinging, polyamory, and a true quad relationship. Whether you’re lifestyle-curious or deep into ethical non-monogamy, this is a must-watch for anyone who’s ever wondered how four people can make love and logistics work.

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• What is a quad relationship?
• How it differs from swinging or polyamory
• Building trust and connection between four partners
• Managing emotions and boundaries
• Tips for open and honest communication

If you enjoy real, funny, and educational conversations about the lifestyle, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell so you never miss a new episode from Matt and Bianca.

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Welcome back to Club Sapphire! In this sizzling second part of our Flirting 101 series, it’s Bianca’s turn to take the lead—and this time, she’s showing Matt how to flirt with women in the lifestyle. 💃💋If approaching other women has ever felt intimidating or awkward, Bianca’s got you covered. She walks Matt through the fine art of flirting with confidence, warmth, and just the right amount of sass. From reading the room to delivering compliments that actually land, she shares her go-to strategies for making meaningful—and flirty—connections with women at swinger events.Expect plenty of laughs (and a little blushing) as Bianca flips the script on Matt, putting him in the hot seat and guiding him through real-life scenarios. Let’s just say… things may get a little spicy. 🌶️💡 Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or just want to sharpen your social game, this episode is packed with flirty tips, empowering advice, and yes, more awkward (but hilarious) moments from our own adventures.🎥 Haven’t seen Part One yet? Go watch Matt’s turn as the flirt coach—it’s a must-see!💬 Join the Conversation:Ladies, what’s your favorite way to flirt with other women? Guys, what do you notice most when women flirt with each other? Drop your thoughts, tips, and cheeky stories in the comments below!👉 Support the Channel:Love what we’re doing? Tap like, hit subscribe, and ring that bell so you never miss an episode. Your support keeps the flirty fun going!🍍🍍🍍Club Sapphire: https://clubsapphire.com🍍Join Matt & Bianca on a swinger vacation: https://spicyvacations.com🍍Take a pole class with Bianca: https://biancaboom.com🍍Bianca's OF and Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsbiancaboom🍍For Collaborations/Media Inquiries: [email protected]🍍🍍🍍

Welcome back to Club Sapphire! In this exciting first part of our two-part Flirting 101 series, Matt steps up to teach Bianca the art of flirting with male swingers. If you’ve ever found yourself a little tongue-tied or unsure how to break the ice at lifestyle events, this episode is packed with tips and tricks to help you feel confident and connected.Matt walks Bianca through the essentials—how to spot the right moment, read body language, and strike up engaging conversations that leave a lasting impression. From playful banter to knowing when to take things to the next level, this episode is your guide to mastering the subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) cues that make flirting fun and effortless.We also share some hilarious real-life stories from our adventures at lifestyle clubs and swinger events—because let’s be honest, sometimes things don’t go exactly as planned! But that’s half the fun, right? 😂🔥 Coming Soon: Part Two! Bianca will take the reins and show Matt how to flirt with women in the lifestyle. You won’t want to miss it!💬 Join the Conversation:What’s your secret to successful flirting? Do you lean more towards cheeky humor, flirty eye contact, or playful teasing? Share your tips and stories in the comments—we’d love to hear from you!👉 Support the Channel:If you love our content, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe! Hit the notification bell so you never miss an episode.🍍🍍🍍Club Sapphire: https://clubsapphire.com🍍Join Matt & Bianca on a swinger vacation: https://spicyvacations.com🍍Take a pole class with Bianca: https://biancaboom.com🍍Bianca's OF and Instagram:   / itsbiancaboom  🍍For Collaborations/Media Inquiries: [email protected]🍍🍍🍍#Flirting101 #SwingerTips #ClubSapphire #MattAndBianca #LifestyleCouple #Swingers #OpenRelationships #FlirtingWithConfidence #LifestyleAdvice #SwingerCommunity #ClubLife

What Is Compersion? Jealousy, Love Languages & Relationship Growth | Swinging Lifestyle Education🎤 Hosted by Matt & Bianca | Club SapphireAre you new to the swinging lifestyle and wondering how couples manage feelings like jealousy? Or maybe you're a seasoned swinger looking to deepen your connection with your partner? In this educational and deeply personal video, Matt and Bianca from Club Sapphire take you on an honest exploration of compersion—the beautiful concept of feeling joy for your partner’s pleasure.In the swinging and ethically non-monogamous (ENM) world, compersion is often described as the opposite of jealousy. But it’s more than just a buzzword—it's a mindset shift that can transform your relationship and elevate your lifestyle journey. Matt and Bianca share their personal stories, growth moments, and real talk about the challenges and breakthroughs that come with exploring non-monogamy as a committed couple.Whether you're navigating soft swap vs full swap, discovering your love languages, or figuring out your comfort zone in the club or on a swinger cruise, this video delivers valuable insight into the emotional side of the lifestyle.💡 In this episode, you’ll learn:What is compersion, and how does it apply to swinging couples?The difference between jealousy and envy in open relationshipsHow love languages affect your play preferences and emotional needsWhy clear communication is crucial in ethical non-monogamyReal examples of working through insecurity, mismatched desires, and emotional triggersHow couples grow stronger through shared experiences—even if they’re not shared in the same wayMatt and Bianca, well-known lifestyle educators and hosts of the Club Sapphire community, bring years of relationship experience, honest storytelling, and thoughtful reflection. Their guidance is especially helpful for couples over 40 who are entering or growing within the swinging world.📚 This is a must-watch for anyone interested in:Swinging education for beginnersNavigating feelings in the lifestyleDeveloping emotional intelligence in non-monogamyCreating healthy boundaries with play partnersBuilding trust and intimacy through lifestyle exploration🗨️ Have you experienced compersion in your own journey? What helped you get there? Drop your thoughts in the comments and join the conversation.💬 Subscribe for more real talk about the lifestyle from Matt and Bianca at Club Sapphire—your go-to source for swinger education, relationship insights, and authentic advice on ethical non-monogamy.🍍🍍🍍Club Sapphire: https://clubsapphire.com🍍Join Matt & Bianca on a swinger vacation: https://spicyvacations.com🍍Take a pole class with Bianca: https://biancaboom.com🍍Bianca's OF and Instagram:   / itsbiancaboom  🍍For Collaborations/Media Inquiries: [email protected]🍍🍍🍍#SwingingLifestyle #SwingerEducation #ClubSapphire #MattAndBianca #OpenRelationships #NonMonogamy #Compersion #JealousyInSwinging #LifestyleCouples #EthicalNonMonogamy #SwingersOver40 #SwingingForBeginners #LoveLanguages #ENMEducation #SwingerAdvice #RelationshipGrowth #RealTalkSwinging #CouplesWhoSwing

In this episode, since Bianca is taking some time off, we figured it was the best time to introduce Bethanie, Matt's girlfriend. You can also watch the video on our YouTube channel.

In this episode, Matt & Bianca talk to Tom and Bunny, General Managers of Freedom Acres in Southern California. Filmed at Hedonism in Jamaica, they talk about their amazing club, running into your family, schoolmates and priests at a swingers club, and how to act around a celebrity when you meet one in this situation.

In this episode, Matt and Bianca interview Doug and Ruby, the owners of Club Sapphire in Seattle. They talk about double standards for swingers, the differences between single men and single women and how they should act in lifestyle situations. Also, a lot of great information on their club and the swinging scene in the Pacific Northwest.

In this episode recorded at Hedonism II, we interview Dave and Gina. We talk about enjoying different sexual things from different people. Also, swinging and cheating, how to properly pull hair and having a gaping hole in your urethra.

In this podcast, we review our recent trip to Hedo 2 in Jamaica. We talk about the resort, the food, the sex and the people. If you are going there or thinking about it, you definitely should listen. Please share this podcast with others that might be interested in learning about the resort. Our YouTube video of this podcast has footage from the resort as well.