Mind Over Matter: Podcast

Episode 736 - If your relationships keep ending the same way, it’s not coincidence — it’s a pattern.

In this podcast, I break down the two most important shifts you need to get unstuck in dating and relationships:

Understanding your patterns, beliefs, and self-worth — and how they influence who you’re attracted to

Defining your values and non-negotiables so you stop overlooking red and yellow flags

You’ll learn:

-Why you keep attracting the same type of partner

-How your emotional baseline shapes your choices

-The difference between chemistry and compatibility

-Why early warning signs get ignored

-How to set and enforce standards that actually protect your time and energy

If you want different results in your relationships, you have to change the pattern — not just the person.

MY PRODUCTS AND COACHING:

💪🏻 Life Assessment: https://www.heatherhakes.com/life-assessment 

💯 1:1 Coaching: https://heatherhakes.com/ 

📝 Mindset + Manifesting Course: https://www.heatherhakes.com/

📚 Read my book: https://www.heatherhakes.com/ 

CONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL: 

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Episode 735 - If you’ve been trying to change your life but keep falling back into the same patterns, the issue isn’t motivation — it’s your subconscious programming.

Your subconscious mind was formed through repetition, emotional experiences, and early conditioning. It now drives your identity, habits, and results.

In this podcast, I break down:

-How your subconscious was programmed

-How it shapes your identity and reality

-What the theta brain state is and why it matters

-Why most people struggle to rewire their thinking

-A practical process to begin reprogramming your mind

Rewiring your mindset isn’t about forcing change.

It’s about accessing the right state and installing new patterns consistently.

MY PRODUCTS AND COACHING:

💪🏻 Life Assessment: https://www.heatherhakes.com/life-assessment 

💯 1:1 Coaching: https://heatherhakes.com/ 

📝 Mindset + Manifesting Course: https://www.heatherhakes.com/

📚 Read my book: https://www.heatherhakes.com/ 

CONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL: 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HeatherAHakes

Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/heather.hakes 

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mind-over-matter-podcast/id1329255871 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heather-hakes-64ba0914/

Episode 734: Most people think getting what they want in life comes down to setting better goals or working harder.

But goals don’t create results — systems do.

In this video, I break down:

• Why goals alone don’t lead to lasting change
• The internal system that actually drives results (thoughts, emotions, habits, identity)
• The neuroscience behind mental rehearsal and identity shifts
• How your brain encodes repeated thoughts and emotions as memory
• What it really means to “live in the end” without relying on hype

When you align your internal system, you remove resistance, reduce doubt, and naturally move toward the outcomes you want.

This isn’t magic. It’s mechanics.

MY PRODUCTS AND COACHING:

💪🏻 Life Assessment: https://www.heatherhakes.com/life-assessment 

💯 1:1 Coaching: https://heatherhakes.com/ 

📝 Mindset + Manifesting Course: https://www.heatherhakes.com/

📚 Read my book: https://www.heatherhakes.com/ 

CONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL: 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HeatherAHakes

Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/heather.hakes 

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mind-over-matter-podcast/id1329255871 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heather-hakes-64ba0914/

Episode 733 - If you want to change your life, you have to change who you are being.

Your current results are not random - they are a reflection of your patterns of thought, your emotional baseline, and your daily habits.

In this podcast, I break down:

-Why your brain and body are wired to repeat familiar patterns

-How your nervous system and emotional state shape your results

-The identity loop that keeps you stuck

-What it actually means to become “Version 2.0”

-And how to start shifting your identity to create new outcomes

Reinvention isn’t about becoming someone else.

It’s about consciously choosing and installing a new identity.

When you change who you are being, your health, wealth, relationships, and success begin to follow.

MY PRODUCTS AND COACHING:

💪🏻 Life Assessment: https://www.heatherhakes.com/life-assessment 

💯 1:1 Coaching: https://heatherhakes.com/ 

📝 Mindset + Manifesting Course: https://www.heatherhakes.com/

📚 Read my book: https://www.heatherhakes.com/ 

CONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL: 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HeatherAHakes

Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/heather.hakes 

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mind-over-matter-podcast/id1329255871 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heather-hakes-64ba0914/

Episode 732 - Your current results are not your future — they are feedback from your past.In this podcast, I break down the Mirror Principle and how your external reality reflects your internal identity. Most people stay stuck because they react to what they see instead of consciously creating what they want.You’ll learn:Why your current life is “old news”How the mirror principle works (and how it keeps you stuck)The connection between identity, state, and resultsWhy reacting to circumstances reinforces the same outcomesHow to shift into Be → Do → Have to create intentional changeIf you want different results in your health, finances, or relationships, you must stop taking instructions from your current reality and start aligning with your desired identity.Ready to Get Unstuck? Apply for 1:1 coaching here: https://www.heatherhakes.comMY PRODUCTS AND COACHING:💪🏻 Life Assessment: https://www.heatherhakes.com/life-assessment 💯 1:1 Coaching: https://heatherhakes.com/ 📝 Mindset + Manifesting Course: https://www.heatherhakes.com/📚 Read my book: https://www.heatherhakes.com/ CONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HeatherAHakesInstagram: http://www.instagram.com/heather.hakes Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mind-over-matter-podcast/id1329255871 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heather-hakes-64ba0914/

Episode 731 - Many people feel stuck in life, but the real issue often isn’t motivation, discipline, or intelligence. The real block is operating in survival mode.When your nervous system is stuck in stress, fear, doubt, and constant worry, your brain prioritizes safety instead of growth. This keeps you replaying old patterns, overthinking decisions, and focusing on problems instead of possibilities.In this podcast I break down:What survival mode actually looks like in everyday lifeWhy stress, fear, and worry keep you repeating the same resultsHow dwelling on the past and worrying about the future traps your attentionPractical steps to regulate your nervous system and shift from surviving to thrivingOnce you learn how to shift your internal state, you can start creating the life you actually want instead of reacting to circumstances.MY PRODUCTS AND COACHING:💪🏻 Life Assessment: https://www.heatherhakes.com/life-assessment 💯 1:1 Coaching: https://heatherhakes.com/ 📝 Mindset + Manifesting Course: https://www.heatherhakes.com/📚 Read my book: https://www.heatherhakes.com/ CONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HeatherAHakesInstagram: http://www.instagram.com/heather.hakes Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mind-over-matter-podcast/id1329255871 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heather-hakes-64ba0914/

Episode 730 - If you’ve been trying to change your life through motivation, discipline, or affirmations — and nothing sticks — you'll learn in this podcast why.

Your brain is wired through repetition and emotional familiarity.

If you don’t understand how neural pathways are formed and reinforced, you will keep repeating old patterns on autopilot.

In this episode, I break down:

How neuroplasticity actually works

Why stress reinforces old identity patterns

The connection between nervous system regulation and behavior

Why “trying harder” backfires

The mechanical process of rewiring your brain for lasting change

This isn’t about hacks.

It’s about understanding the biology behind identity and transformation.

When you change the wiring, the results follow.

MY PRODUCTS AND COACHING:

💪🏻 Life Assessment: https://www.heatherhakes.com/life-assessment

💯 1:1 Coaching: https://heatherhakes.com/

📝 Mindset + Manifesting Course: https://www.heatherhakes.com/

📚 Read my book: https://www.heatherhakes.com/

CONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HeatherAHakesInstagram: http://www.instagram.com/heather.hakes Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mind-over-matter-podcast/id1329255871 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heather-hakes-64ba0914/

Episode 729 - If you feel stuck, it’s not because you lack discipline, clarity, or ambition. It’s because you’re looping.In this podcast, I break down:What a stress loop actually isThe difference between survival mode and creation modeWhy trying harder reinforces the same resultsHow state shapes identityAnd how to interrupt the cycle at the rootYou don’t need more effort. You need a new baseline.When you regulate your state, your identity shifts.When your identity shifts, your results follow.

Ready to Get Unstuck? Apply for 1:1 coaching here: https://www.heatherhakes.com

MY PRODUCTS AND COACHING:

💪🏻 Life Assessment: https://www.heatherhakes.com/life-assessment 

💯 1:1 Coaching: https://heatherhakes.com/ 

📝 Mindset + Manifesting Course: https://www.heatherhakes.com/

📚 Read my book: https://www.heatherhakes.com/

CONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL: 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HeatherAHakes

Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/heather.hakes 

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mind-over-matter-podcast/id1329255871 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heather-hakes-64ba0914/ 

 ✅ 🤯 Free video training to help reprogram your subconscious mind  ➡ www.heatherhakes.com 

Episode 728 - If you feel stuck, it’s not because you lack discipline, clarity, or ambition. It’s because you’re looping.In this podcast, I break down:What a stress loop actually isThe difference between survival mode and creation modeWhy trying harder reinforces the same resultsHow state shapes identityAnd how to interrupt the cycle at the rootYou don’t need more effort. You need a new baseline.When you regulate your state, your identity shifts.When your identity shifts, your results follow. Ready to Get Unstuck? Apply for 1:1 coaching here: https://www.heatherhakes.comMY PRODUCTS AND COACHING:💪🏻 Life Assessment: https://www.heatherhakes.com/life-assessment 💯 1:1 Coaching: https://heatherhakes.com/ 📝 Mindset + Manifesting Course: https://www.heatherhakes.com/📚 Read my book: https://www.heatherhakes.com/ CONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HeatherAHakesInstagram: http://www.instagram.com/heather.hakes Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mind-over-matter-podcast/id1329255871 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heather-hakes-64ba0914/ ✅ 🤯 Free video training to help reprogram your subconscious mind ➡ www.heatherhakes.com

Episode 727 - If you've ever tried to create new habits but fall back into old ways - you're not broken, you just didn't get to the root cause driving the behavior.

In this podcast, I break down STEADY, my 7 Identity Alignment Habits designed to help you get out of autopilot and create consistency without forcing motivation.

STEADY is not a morning routine or productivity hack.

It’s a state-first, identity-based framework that aligns your nervous system, body, mind, environment, values, and direction — so follow-through becomes natural.

If you feel stuck, burned out, inconsistent, or like you keep reverting to an old version of yourself, this framework will show you why — and what to do instead.

STEADY stands for:

State (stillness & meditation)

Train the body (movement)

Emotional discipline (mood does not dictate behavior)

Audit inputs (ruthlessly filter consumption)

Define values (live in alignment)

Your aim (clear direction across life buckets)

Fun is the byproduct of alignment — not something you have to chase.

Ready to Get Unstuck? Apply for 1:1 coaching here: https://www.heatherhakes.comMY PRODUCTS AND COACHING:💪🏻 Life Assessment: https://www.heatherhakes.com/life-assessment 💯 1:1 Coaching: https://heatherhakes.com/ 📝 Mindset + Manifesting Course: https://www.heatherhakes.com/📚 Read my book: https://www.heatherhakes.com/ CONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HeatherAHakesInstagram: http://www.instagram.com/heather.hakes Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mind-over-matter-podcast/id1329255871 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heather-hakes-64ba0914/ ✅ 🤯 Free video training to help reprogram your subconscious mind ➡ www.heatherhakes.com