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Hey everyone, I'm Lindsay Lyman. After almost 12 years at Amazon, I've seen countless brilliant and successful overachievers burn out and leave their jobs because of stress and anxiety. But here's the good news: having a successful career doesn't have to come at the expense of your mental sanity and personal time. There's an easier way, and I can show you how. Let's dive in!

Celebrating 200 Episodes!

We're celebrating our 200th episode today! Thank you for being here and for all your support. Over the years, I've coached thousands of people and noticed recurring themes that we all struggle with, both in our careers and personal lives. Today, I want to talk about one of the most common issues: figuring out what to do when you're not motivated and fulfilled by your job anymore.

It's important to understand that it's not your job's job to make you feel motivated and fulfilled. That responsibility falls on us. We need challenges, a sense of purpose, and the feeling that what we do matters. But how do we achieve that?

Think of your job as if it were a person you're in a relationship with. How would you describe your relationship? Are you in the honeymoon phase, a healthy routine, or do you need couples counseling? How do you talk about your job when it's not around? Are you investing in this relationship?

Your job responds to how you treat it. If you're bored or stressed, it will reflect that. Decide what kind of relationship you want with your job and take steps to make it happen. If you need help, I'm here for you. Go to lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat and sign up for a coffee chat.

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In this episode, Lindsay Lyman, who spent nearly 12 years at Amazon, shares valuable insights on how to navigate the promotion process and avoid common pitfalls. If you're feeling stuck, unappreciated, or unsure how to advance in your career, this episode is for you. Lindsay discusses the importance of taking control of your career narrative, understanding and showcasing your contributions, and using data to back up your achievements. She also emphasizes the significance of highlighting your growth and learning from mistakes to make a compelling case for your promotion.

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Hey there! It's Lindsay Lyman, and I'm back with another episode to help you navigate your career without losing your sanity. After almost 12 years at Amazon, I've seen countless brilliant, successful overachievers burn out and leave their jobs because of stress and anxiety. But guess what? You don't have to sacrifice your mental health for your career. There's an easier way, and I'm here to show you how.

Today, I want to remind you that if you're feeling stuck, unmotivated, and constantly worried about your job, there are solutions out there. I've helped many people in your situation, and I genuinely believe that with more confidence and self-assurance, things will get better. We need emotionally intelligent leaders like you out there, making a positive impact.

So, if you're struggling and want to feel in control of your career, handle difficult people, and stop working so much, I can help. The first step? Let's have a coffee chat. It's a free, no-obligation call where we dive into what's going on with you and come up with actionable steps to get you on the right track. Head over to lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat or click the link in the show notes to book your spot.

In this episode, we're diving into a topic that came up during a fun discussion in my coaching program: red flags that your manager may not be trustworthy. We'll talk about some not-so-obvious signs, potential yellow flags, and even some green flags to look for in a good manager. Trust me, these insights are going to be game-changers.

Here are a few key points we'll cover:

- Red flags like inconsistent one-on-ones, managers who don't bring their own team members, and leaders who gossip or dominate meetings.

- Yellow flags that might indicate potential issues, such as managers who never turn on their cameras or always go first in group discussions.

- Green flags that signal a great leader, like caring about you as a person, taking feedback seriously, and being transparent about changes.

As you listen, think about how these flags apply to your situation and how you can use this knowledge to ask better questions during interviews. And remember, you're not alone. You don't have to navigate this on your own. There are solutions, and I'm here to help you find them.

If you're finding value in this podcast, let's take it a step further. Book a coffee chat with me, and we'll talk one-on-one about your specific challenges and come up with a plan to get you unstuck. These chats are free but limited, so grab your spot now. Click the link in the show notes or go to lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat to sign up.

You got this. Let's make your career work for you, not the other way around. Talk soon!

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In this episode, Lindsay Lyman, a former Amazon employee with nearly 12 years of experience, discusses the misconception that taking big vacations or extended breaks can solve burnout. Lindsay shares insights from her coaching practice, emphasizing that while breaks are important, they don't address the root causes of stress and burnout. Instead, she highlights the need for daily self-care and incremental changes to build a sustainable and emotionally healthy life.

Additional Resources:

Free Coffee Chats: Lindsay offers free coffee chats to connect one-on-one and discuss your specific challenges. You'll leave the call feeling more hopeful and motivated, with practical tips to try immediately. Spaces are limited, so sign up today!

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In this episode, Lindsay Lyman shares insights into the three essential phases of mastering a skill. Drawing from her extensive experience at Amazon and personal endeavors, Lindsay delves into how individuals can navigate these phases to achieve excellence in their careers and personal pursuits.

Tune in to gain valuable insights into mastering skills and unlocking your full potential in various aspects of life.

*Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are solely those of the speaker and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of any organization.*

In this episode, Lindsay Lyman explores a new approach to achieving work-life balance. Drawing from her 12 years at Amazon, Lindsay discusses the common pitfalls of "play work" and the importance of incorporating true play into your daily routine to rejuvenate and energize yourself.

• Identify and Stop "Play Work": Recognize and eliminate tasks that are not truly productive.
• Incorporate True Play: Integrate small, enjoyable activities into your daily routine to boost your energy and motivation.
• Experiment with Play: Try different activities to discover what re-energizes you and helps you stay focused.

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Episode Summary:

In this episode, Lindsay Lyman, a seasoned coach and former Amazon employee with nearly 12 years of experience, shares a high-level framework to help you get promoted even if you have a bad manager. She dives into the most common barrier people face when pursuing a promotion—the dreaded initial conversation with their manager. Lindsay provides actionable steps to navigate this challenging discussion, ensuring you can present your case effectively and respectfully, making it difficult for your manager to say no.

Key Takeaways:

• Common Barriers: The primary reason people hesitate to pursue promotions is the fear of having a vulnerable conversation with a potentially unsupportive manager.

• Avoid Yes/No Questions: When discussing promotions or any significant changes, avoid yes/no questions to prevent an easy rejection. Instead, focus on open-ended questions that invite conversation and collaboration.

• Start the Conversation Right: Begin by asking if your manager is open to discussing a possible path for promotion, setting a clear goal, and acknowledging any potential awkwardness upfront.

• Stay Curious and Confused: To avoid frustration and defensiveness, stay in a mindset of curiosity or confusion. This keeps you and your manager on the same side, working together towards a solution.

• Prepare with a Script: Lindsay has created a helpful cheat sheet that provides a script tailored to your situation, making it easier to present your case confidently and clearly.

Actionable Steps:

1 Download the Cheat Sheet: Get your free copy at lindsaylymancoaching.com/ask to help you prepare for your promotion conversation.

2 Set Up the Meeting: Ask your manager if they are open to discussing your promotion, setting the stage for a constructive dialogue.

3 Frame the Discussion: Focus on the path to promotion and the specific areas you need to improve, rather than immediately asking for a yes or no answer.

4 Maintain Curiosity: Approach the conversation with genuine curiosity and an open mind to stay aligned with your manager, avoiding unnecessary conflict.

Resources Mentioned:

• Promotion Conversation Cheat Sheet

• Lindsay Lyman Coaching: lindsaylymancoaching.com

• Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat

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• Website: lindsaylymancoaching.com

• LinkedIn: Lindsay Lyman

• Instagram: @lindsaylymancoaching

Episode Transcript:

Available at https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/how-to-bring-up-getting-a-promotion-to-your-bad-manager/

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Note: Don't miss out on the cheat sheet to help you create the perfect talking script for your promotion conversation. It's a game-changer! Download it for free at lindsaylymancoaching.com/ask.

This episode explores the recurring cycle of excitement, learning, overwhelm, and frustration that many people experience in their careers. Lindsay Lyman, the host, sheds light on how to identify these phases and offers tips to break free from the stuck and frustrated stage.

Key Points:

• The Career Life Cycle:
• New and Exciting: Learning a lot, enthusiastic about new challenges.
• Learning and Growing: Facing challenges, but still making progress.
• Overwhelm: Feeling overloaded with work and problems.
• Frustrated and Stuck: Demotivated, unchallenged, and unsure of the next step.
• Escaping the Stuck Phase:
• Recognize where you are in the cycle.
• Identify what excites and interests you.
• Seek new challenges:
• Change the scope or complexity of your current work.
• Learn a new skill.
• Change jobs, industries, or fields entirely.
• Pursue a passion project outside of work.

Next Step

• Visit http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat to sign up for a free, one-on-one consultation to discuss overcoming career roadblocks.

Additional resources:

• Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat
• 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager

This episode breaks down the promotion process into three phases, with a particular focus on the third phase, where most people get stuck.

Phase 1: Get Clear on Your Goals

• Define what you want out of a promotion (title change, money, scope of work, etc.)
• Identify your reasons for wanting a promotion (strong reasons will help you persevere through challenges)

Phase 2: Play the Game

• Learn the rules and expectations for promotions at your company
• Gather feedback to identify your strengths and weaknesses
• Develop a plan to address your weaknesses and position yourself for success
• Talk to your manager about your desire for a promotion and how they can support you (use strategic language to avoid dead ends)

Phase 3: Massive Action (Especially When Things Get Hard)

• Take consistent action, but avoid burnout
• When challenges arise, view them as opportunities to showcase your leadership skills
• Focus on showing up confidently, strategically, and with a willingness to make mistakes
• Embrace adaptability and problem-solving - be the calm in the storm
• Build your confidence in your ability to navigate challenges, not just in achieving specific outcomes

Additional Tips

• Schedule a free coffee chat with Lindsay to discuss your specific situation at http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat

Key Takeaways

• Promotions are not guaranteed, but taking massive action and developing the right mindset can significantly increase your chances of success.
• Your ability to navigate challenges and setbacks is a crucial leadership skill.
• Focus on who you are being throughout the process, not just the end goal.

Call to Action

• Visit http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat to sign up for a free coffee chat.

Additional resources:

• Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat
• 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager
• One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense

Building Trust with Yourself

This episode builds on the idea that trust is built through transparency, empathy, and consistency. Here, Lindsay Lyman dives deeper into how to apply these concepts to trusting yourself.

Key Points:

• Transparency: Be honest with yourself about your goals, challenges, and emotions. Don't sugarcoat your reality.
• Empathy: Understand why you're feeling a certain way. Acknowledge your emotions without judgment.
• Consistency: Show up for yourself by following through on commitments, taking care of yourself, and setting boundaries (saying no).

Examples:

• Transparency: Recognizing limitations and prioritizing tasks accordingly, instead of feeling pressured to achieve unrealistic health goals right now.
• Empathy: Acknowledging feelings of disappointment or frustration after a failed launch instead of suppressing them.
• Consistency: Regularly scheduling self-care activities like walks, even when you don't feel like it, because you know the benefits.

Call to Action:

• Reflect on your own level of transparency, empathy, and consistency with yourself.
• Consider areas where you can improve your self-trust by incorporating these practices.
• Check out Lindsay's course, "How to Get More Done Without Needing to Work Nights and Weekends," for time management strategies.
• Sign up for a free coffee chat with Lindsay to discuss your personal challenges and receive actionable advice.

Bonus:

• Sign up for a free one-on-one coaching session with Lindsay Lyman to discuss building trust in your specific situation. http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat

Additional resources:

· Schedule a coffee chat: http://lindsaylymancoaching.com/chat

· 3 steps to deal with a bad manager workshop: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/badmanager

· One pager to ask your company to pay for your coaching: https://lindsaylymancoaching.com/expense