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We dive into two "Am I The Asshole" stories that showcase relationship boundaries being tested and communication breaking down in fascinating ways.

• A host of dinner parties deals with a friend who repeatedly takes all the leftovers despite being asked not to
• After multiple warnings and clear boundary-setting, the host finally stops inviting the friend to parties
• The leftover-taker gets upset when not invited, despite having multiple chances to respect the boundary
• A young couple gets into a heated argument when discussing protein intake leads to weight estimations
• The boyfriend attempts to guess his girlfriend's weight after she makes potentially self-deprecating comments about being heavier than she appears
• Self-deprecating humor about weight can backfire dramatically when taken literally
• Weight discussions are rarely necessary outside medical contexts and often lead to hurt feelings
• Both stories highlight how important clear communication and respect for boundaries are in relationships
• Setting and enforcing boundaries is difficult but necessary for healthy relationships

Respect people's boundaries around their possessions and their bodies. Don't guess people's weights, and if someone asks you not to take their leftovers, just don't do it!

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