In this powerful Part 2 episode of Your Neurodiverse Relationship Podcast (Season 5), neurodiverse relationship expert Jodi Carlton continues her candid conversation with married couple Luke and Lauren Smallcomb.

Together, they open up about: - Navigating ADHD and demand avoidance in marriage - Overcoming anxious and avoidant attachment styles - What happens when one partner is an overfunctioner - Burnout, masking, and learning to communicate better - The difference between acceptance and accommodation - Red flags vs. recoverable challenges in neurodiverse relationships.

👉 Here's Part 1 in case you missed it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LVdE9-xbzKI 

🔹 Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction to Season Five

00:57 – Welcome to Part 2 with Luke & Lauren

01:11 – Challenges and Realizations in Marriage

01:42 – Understanding ADHD and Attachment Styles

03:54 – The Role of Communication

06:55 – Personality Differences and the Enneagram

11:41 – Shifting Roles and Responsibilities

14:47 – Facing Trauma Together

18:36 – Balancing Support and Independence

22:50 – Navigating Demand Avoidance in Relationships

24:07 – Understanding Overfunctioning and Burnout

26:27 – Addressing Imbalance in Effort and Insight

28:09 – Recognizing Abusive Patterns and Seeking Help

32:02 – The Importance of Acceptance and Safety

37:39 – Final Thoughts and Relationship Advice

44:42 – Conclusion and Neurodiversity Resources

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I AM NEURODIVERGENT: I discovered as an adult that I am #ADHD, and I was married to an autistic man for 19 years. I also had other neurodiverse romantic relationships and have an autistic daughter and an ADHD son. Through the years, I have realized that my entire extended family is neurodivergent. My relationships with neurodiverse family and friends have been my personal training ground for understanding and helping partners and couples in their own relationships.

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