Michelle Renee is a surrogate partner, professional cuddler, and full-spectrum intimacy guide for human connection, working inside the complete spectrum of intimacy, from platonic to erotic. 

In collaboration with a therapist, surrogate partners help clients who struggle with intimacy, body shame, sexual dysfunction, new gender or sexual identify, and relationships. They help their clients communicate their needs better,  teach sensate focus, and offer experiences like mirroring to become more comfortable with their bodies.  

Michelle talks about queering sex, moving away from the traditional ways of talking about or exploring sex. She even gives some great tips on how to gamify and kinkify boring household chores-perfect for ADHD minds! 

Ways to reach Michelle: 

https://www.meetmichellerenee.com/
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Dr. Rachel Allyn, is a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in relationships and and the author of the book "The Pleasure Is All Yours". She is back on my podcast for a 2nd time, this time talking about intimacy and bodyfulness through the lens of neurodiversity. 

We discussed the impact of hormones, menopause, unmasking, sensory issues, and bodyfulness on our ability to give and receive pleasure and comfort. Dr. Allyn and I share our personal stories of how menopause affected our ADHD journeys and how those challenges inspired our work. 

To follow or reach out to Dr. Allyn, visit https://www.drrachelallyn.com/ or follow her on IG @drrachelallyn

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To reach Kai, visit www.8seasons.consulting 
Youtube, IG and TikTok: @kai8seasons

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Aron Croft, MS, is a Harvard-educated coach and the owner of Hidden ADHD.  He specializes in inattentive ADHD and helps ADHD minds move beyond the struggle of motivation and willpower and tap into the power of momentum. Aron encourages us to be in alignment, work smarter not harder, and to realize what fuels us and keeps us in the flow. 

He generously shares his "3S Activation" method and the brain hacks he teaches his group coaching clients. Hint: You want to connect with people that you care about and that care about you. 

To learn about Aron and his programs:

FREE TRAINING https://academy.hiddenadhd.com/a/2147524134/acbBydRY

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Dr. Tarryn MacCarthy is a mom to 3 queer kids, an orthodontist, a happiness mindset coach, podcast host, and visionary. She eloquently and vulnerably shares her journey of raising and advocating for her queer children. 

Just in time for the holiday season, we talk about navigating coming out and conversations about sexuality and gender with extended family, teachers, therapists, friends, partners and ourselves. Encouraging open conversations about sex, sexuality, and gender, we share  tips to bringing up issues of queerness on a daily basis with curiosity, rather than shame or fear. Tarryn explores her own past subtle internalized transphobia and how her trans daughter inspired her to see the wholeness and uniqueness of every human. 

Tarryn beams with pride as she shares that her children have been her greatest teachers and that there is no one way liberation. As our children continue to bravely step into their truth, we can boldly and bravely steps into our own. 

"Let your curiosity be greater than your fear" Pema Chodron

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Coming to you from Colorado Springs in the wake of the Club Q shooting, Lou Szody of Unconditional ADHD coaching, leads with vulnerability and unconditional acceptance and explains how "when something happens to one person in our community, it happens to all of us". We discuss how imposter syndrome and trauma triggers are prevalent in the neuroqueer community and how we can advocate for ourselves better and ask for the accommodations we need.

To help families and survivors of Club Q:
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https://unconditional-coaching.com

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Dr. Matt Zakreski (who was fortunate enough to have Maya Angelou as a professor!) is a doctor of psychology, professor, speaker, and the creator of the Neurodiversity Collective. In this episode, Dr. Matt joins me for a spirited conversation about giftedness, ableism, privilege, sex/intimacy, and the unique challenges of twice and thrice exceptional kids. Students who consistently require intensive intervention (special education) and intensive enrichment (gifted education) beyond the general classroom are traditionally referred to as 2e students. Gifted education considers other learning exceptionalities to include, but not limited to autism,  ADHD, and dyslexia.  The 3e model illuminates the intersectionality of giftedness with other learning exceptionalities and marginalized social categories, including queerness , and is approached using a social, emotional, and cultural lens.  As Dr. Matt explains, "if you are working with the gifted and neurodivergent population, you better be prepared to deal with the queer population as well". 

To learn more about Dr. Matt, visit https://www.drmattzakreski.com/
https://www.facebook.com/drmattzakreski/

Please check out my new NEUROCOMMUNITY year long group coaching program, starting in 2023! https://pashamarlowe.com/

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A spontaneous and raw solo episode packed with vulnerability and courage. This is my most personal and favorite episode yet and one that I believe will speak to midlife women who are considering "burning it all down" (systems, institutions, careers, marriages) in the name of justice, authenticity, and pleasure!

If you or someone you love has gone through deep transformation over these past years and has moved through anxiety, trauma, hormonal changes, and identity changes, this episode is for you. And if you, like me, came out recently as neurodivergent (ADHD/Autism) and queer/LGBTQIA+ and are ready to finally live OUT LOUD, aligned, and integrated, get ready to feel seen and lit up! 

We ride at dawn! 

Opportunities to work with Pasha include:
1:1, couples, and group coaching-sign up at pashamarlowe.com
Live Retreat (Jan. 15, 2023 in Freeport, Maine)
Online programs/courses-coming soon! 

Pasha LOVES to connect and collaborate, so please reach out! 

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Patrick Dodson,  philosopher, coach, counsellor, author,  and Ted Talk speaker, joins me (all the way from New Zealand) to discuss diversity and differences from the lens of identity, multiple-intelligences, and compassion. He describes inside-out orientation and shares identity mind-mapping tools to help you celebrate your diversities more and improve your sense of agency. 

To learn more about Patrick, visit http://www.patrickdodson.co.nz (questionnaire you can use with family/friends) or https://www.dodsoncoaching.nz. You can also read his books "The Identity Project" and "The Kitchen Sink".

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Dylan Alter (they/them) is a queer theorist, farmer, previous lawyer, and teacher. They are also the person who introduced me to the concept of neuroqueering! Dylan explains their theory on the challenges of accessing meds, adult ADHD, masking, cultural diplomacy, and more. This episode was cut short at the end as our zoom froze, so pardon the unconventional editing. That's neuroqueering, ADHD, and embracing the mess for you!

To reach Dylan, visit neuroqueer.org (website and IG)

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GROUP COACHING starts on Nov. 7, 2022: https://pashamarlowe.com/group-coaching/

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