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Neutrality, Wisdom & Walking in the Spirit


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In the previous episode, we were supposed to wrap up The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley. After waking up at 3 a.m. to record a full 57-minute episode, the final 17 minutes didn’t save. Rather than end abruptly, this episode finishes the discussion properly.

We conclude our book club conversation by examining two final spiritual markers of the Spirit-filled life:

  • The Word of God
  • Wisdom

We also prepare for our next book club selection: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer. We will begin in about two weeks after midterms, so go ahead and grab your copy now.

Marker #3: The Word of God

Charles Stanley outlines three key reading principles that help believers live a Spirit-filled life.

1. Look for Principles, Not Just Promises

Many believers are promise-centered, always searching for what God will do for them. But principles are more powerful for decision-making.

A principle works like an equation:

  • If you do A, expect B.
  • If you ignore A, expect C.

When you consistently study the Word, those principles become ingrained. You won’t need to pause life to search for answers. The Holy Spirit will bring truth to your mind in real time.

For Christian entrepreneurs especially, this is critical. You must be able to:

  • Make decisions quickly
  • Maintain spiritual accuracy
  • Move without paralysis

That kind of discernment only comes when the Word is already in you.

2. Read with Context — Remain Neutral

One of the most important themes of this episode is neutrality.

Do not approach Scripture trying to get something out of it. Approach it to know Him.

In an age of algorithms constantly feeding us what we already want to see, neutrality is difficult. But it is essential. Otherwise, we risk:

  • Confusing digital marketing for confirmation
  • Confusing algorithms for the Holy Spirit
  • Reading our desires into the text instead of receiving what it actually says

When you read neutrally, you allow the Word to confront you instead of you manipulating it to support what you already want.

Neutrality produces peace, clarity, sensitivity, and maturity.

If you approach Scripture asking, “How can I get God to work for me?” you will miss it.

When you approach asking, “How can I be closer to Him?” everything changes.

3. Look for General Promises

There are promises given to all believers for all time, including:

  • Jesus’ promise not to leave us as orphans (John 14:18)
  • Grace and mercy when we approach God (Hebrews 4:16)
  • Strength for the weary (Isaiah 40:31)

While God still speaks, He has already spoken extensively through Scripture. Personal revelation should always be filtered through biblical truth.

Approaching the Word strictly from a mystical or subjective lens is dangerous. Spiritual maturity requires emotional maturity, restraint, and accountability.

Marker #4: Wisdom

The final spiritual marker of a Spirit-filled life is wisdom.

The defining question:

What is the wise thing for me to do?

Wisdom exposes hidden motives. It shines light on greed, selfishness, pride, and lust.

Wisdom goes beyond right and wrong.

Something may not be sinful — but it may still not be wise.

The Holy Spirit does not merely pull us away from sin. He keeps us far from the edge.

Walking in Wisdom

Examples discussed in this episode include:

  • Disengaging instead of escalating when triggered
  • Avoiding environments that may not be sinful but are not wise
  • Listening to internal promptings before temptation escalates
  • Leaving a social setting when wisdom says it is time to go

The Spirit-filled life is not about seeing how close you can get to the line without crossing it. It is about walking wisely and staying far from the brink.

The Three-Dimensional Wisdom Question

When making decisions, ask:

  1. What is the wise thing to do in light of my past experience?
  2. What is the wise thing to do in light of my present situation?
  3. What is the wise thing to do in light of my future hopes and calling?

The Holy Spirit takes into account your history, your vulnerabilities, and your destiny. When He prompts you, it is for protection.

Ignoring wisdom can have lasting consequences.

Final Charge

If you are not reading your Bible daily, start now.

Buy a translation you understand. Read a little every day.

Through daily reading, you give the Holy Spirit access to your mind and heart — access necessary for transformation.


Next Book Club Pick

The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry – John Mark Comer

We will begin in approximately two weeks. Grab your copy and begin reading so you are ready when we start.


Additional Bible Study Resources Recommended by Charles Stanley
  1. 30 Days to Understanding the Bible – Max Anders
  2. How to Read the Bible for All Its Worth – Gordon D. Fee & Douglas Stewart
  3. How to Study the Bible – James Braga
  4. How to Understand Your Bible – T. Norton Sterrick
  5. Talk Through the Bible – Bruce Wilkinson & Kenneth Boa
  6. Living by the Book: The Art and Science of Reading the Bible – Howard Hendricks & William Hendricks




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