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May 04, 2023 75. "HELP ME FIND A HUSBAND" FT. LOU LOU GONZALEZ (EP. 75)
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EP. 75) “HELP ME FIND A HUSBAND W/ LOU LOU GONZALEZ”

We had Actress and comedian Lou Lou Gonzalez on this week! A successful woman that seems to have trouble finding that perfect mate! Fellas, let’s see what we can do for her!

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April 27, 2023 74. “ACCOUNTABLE WOMEN ARE RARE” (EP. 74)
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(EP. 74) “CONTEXT IS EVERYTHING”

In this episode we’re talking about the work that is behind the context of our statements and the points that we make on Nice & Neat. Within this episode our goal is simple, we want to get women to ask themselves, “what do I need to do to get my man or a man to be whatever I need him to be for me?” Take this episode with love ladies.

It’s so important to know that their has to be a realization on both parties, the only way that you can get to a point of men fully being in their masculine and women fully operating in her feminine is both individuals have to cultivate those safe spaces for each other to exist, otherwise you’ll always be looking to someone else as your example as Duke said.

This episode was one for the ages that we ALL can take something from, enjoy!

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April 20, 202373. "COMMUNICATION IS UNCOMFORTABLE" (EP. 73)
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EP. 73) “COMMUNICATION IS UNCOMFORTABLE”

We dove deep in this episode about developing healthy and effective communication with your partner!

A question we have for you is, have you had the discussion on how to communicate and what works best for you and your partner?

In this episode we talked about our personal development with communication. We’ve learned how important listening is in respecting your partner during the communication process. Most situations turn negative from misunderstandings and misinterpreted information. Remember, you’re learning to merge two worlds within every conversation. Important to know it’s not you against me, or me against you but it’s US against the problem. You have a way that you do things and your partner has a way that they do things but adopting the mentality of “this is how we do things” is what can ultimately help you bridge the gap within communication!

Note:

Poor communication habits:
Interrupt
Act in passive aggressive ways
Hold grudges
Tip-toe around each other
Guess or assume their partner’s feelings
Sweep problems under the rug rather than hash them out
Argue repeatedly over the same subject
Call their partner names
Make threats
Raise their voice
Good communication habits:
Pay attention and listen while their partner speaks
Listen to understand, rather than listen to respond
Validate their partner’s thoughts and feelings (often by acknowledging and repeating back some of what was said)
Ask questions
Understand, even when their partner has different perspectives and opinions
Don’t raise their voice

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April 17, 2023 72. “ARE LOVE LANGUAGES EVEN REAL?” (EP. 72)
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EP. 72) “ARE LOVE LANGUAGES EVEN REAL?”

We got an episode for the fellas! We talking love languages: quality time, physical touch, words of affirmation, gifts, and finally acts of service. We all agreed that our top love language was acts of service and broke down why.

It took us some time to be in tune with our love languages and operate on that emotional level. Learning our love languages was complete self discovery through our own experiences of each love language and how it impacted us. Omar read the book “5 Love Languages“ which led him to his self discovery.

Knowing your love language will help you vocalize your feelings when things have a positive or negative effect on you emotionally. It will also better help you express those emotions and how to come to a resolve.

A big question we had was “Can someone adjust their love language based on their partners ability to give them what they need?

Leave your answers in the comments!

Also, we’d love to hear what your love languages are and why?

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April 13, 2023 71. “POLYGAMY IS A RICH MAN’S GAME” (EP. 71)
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EP. 71) “POLYGAMY IS A RICH MAN’S GAME”

Within this current landscape of dating polygamy has become a hot topic and truly an option for many. We wanted to talk about the overall impact that polygamy is having on society and the mindset behind it through your own observations. Polygamy is the practice or custom of having more than one wife or husband at the same time. One thing we often see if people are more so operating in a polyamorous lifestyle which is the act of having intimate relationships with more than one person at the same time. A polyamorous person might have or might be open to having multiple romantic partners. Polygamy, on the other hand, involves being married to multiple partners. We were left with some questions to consider. Is polygamy a cop out for cheating? Do you think women in polygamous relationships are genuinely happy? Can everyone be equally satisfied emotionally and physically in a polygamist relationship? Is polygamy a rich man's sport?

Just to name a few!

Make sure to comment and let us know some of your dating experiences and has polygamy ever been an option for you?

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March 22, 2023 70: “I CAN’T BE A SUPER HERO ALL OF THE TIME” EP. 70
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EP. 70) “I CAN’T BE A SUPER HERO ALL OF THE TIME”

As men, we desire to provide. Provide security for our households, physical security, emotional security, financial security and any other way that we can provide that security. Always showing up in these ways is championed and becomes a drug, so much so, that in the times we may not be able to come through like we have in the past or like we want to, we still say “I got it” or “I’m good”. We do this because we are the “Superhero’s” of our households the one that saves the day. But at times it’s necessary to take off the cape!

In this episode we talk in detail on the vulnerability it requires to take that cape off and how to unlock new levels of intimacy in doing so! Fellas, we know it’s not easy! We’ve learned that there is growth in vulnerability and just by simply expressing why you won’t be able to do something rather than shouldering the burden of your own “I got it” knowing that you don’t.

Again, happy Women’s month to all the women out there, you’re valued and you’re appreciated!

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March 20, 2023 69: “MY WOMAN MAKES ME FEEL APPRECIATED” EP. 69
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EP. 69) “MY WOMAN MAKES ME FEEL APPRECIATED.”

This episode was long overdue for us. We are all in serious committed relationships and not only do we appreciate our women we also feel extremely appreciated by our women. Talking about how we got here was important for us and for our audience there’s plenty to take away from this episode.

We also talked about asking very intentional questions to our partners … including, “Do you trust my leadership.” One hell of a question to ask your partner without assuming, we discovered this was a great check in question and can help create some much needed dialogue within your relationship.

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February 25, 2023 68: #DEMTHERULES WHAT DO YOU LOVE ABOUT BEING BLACK?

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February 22, 2023 67: BHM MOVIE REVIEW: DO THE RIGHT THING - DID ANYONE?
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EP. 67) “BHM MOVIE REVIEW: DO THE RIGHT THING - DID ANYONE?” We’ll be discussing the Spike Lee-directed classic Do The Right Thing, and asking the question – did anyone do the right Thing?

Do The Right Thing put the racial tensions and the complexities of multiculturalism and communication on front street! One of the earliest films of our generation that we can recall doing so.

The film expertly tackles nuanced, touchy topics like police brutality, racial profiling, and black power in a manner that feels real and relevant. It’s no surprise then that it has stood the test of time and made a lasting impression on audiences since its release in 1989.

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So now, let’s tackle our question – did anyone do the right thing? Omar feels the Mayor was the lone character in the film that did but some could find his flaws as well. Each character had different and often conflicting motivations, making it impossible to answer this question definitively. What we all can agree on is that nobody in the film is without fault. We can observe how each character’s decisions – no matter how good their intentions – escalate the already tense situation.

Do The Right Thing is an excellent example of how difficult conversations about race can be, but also how important it is to engage in them. Its message remains as relevant today as it was 30 years ago, and we invite you to join us in discussing the complex issues raised by this classic film.

Thank you for watching, remember to like and subscribe, and share your thoughts with us in the comments below!

This concludes our Black History Month films, thanks for rocking with us, hope you enjoyed them all!

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February 18, 2023 66: #DEMTHERULES HOW MANY TIMES DOES YOUR GIRL NEED TO CHECK IN ON VACATION?

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