No Small Talk- Conversation Starters for Introverts

Today our friend Ashley Beach- Reid join us in a conversation about how to talk with kids about race in a way that's age appropriate. In light of recent events of police brutality and the realities that structural and systemic racism still exists, parents are feeling the need to start having these conversations in order to teach and prepare them for what they may witness growing up as a black child in America.  Though the conversations about race, racism, and discrimination will look differently for each family, the conversation is a much needed one that requires intentionality and consciousness.  

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Have you ever been perceived as shy, withdrawn, or quiet? Or maybe you've been called a recluse? 

If you're an introvert, you've likely been called all of these and more, and are just generally misunderstood and sometimes overshadowed by our more extroverted friends which can sometimes leave us feeling less than, not good enough, and not seen or heard.  In today's episode, we discuss the tell-tale signs that you're a fellow introvert and the common misconceptions people have about us. 

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No Small Talk is produced and hosted by Ebony Anuforo and Shereefat Balogun; edited by Wale "Breathe Easy" Balogun

Do you struggle as an introvert on how to get involved in social activism? ⁣

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No Small Talk is produced and hosted by Ebony Anuforo and Shereefat Balogun; edited by Wale "Breathe Easy" Balogun

On today’s episode we discuss the recent killings of George floyd, Breanna Taylor and Ahmaud Arbery, and the systemic racism and injustices that have allowed police brutality, hate and white supremacy to endure against Black people in America.  We discuss our feelings, frustrations and explore next steps towards change. 

We typically offer conversation starters that you can use anywhere, and have stayed away from controversial topics as not being ideal "conversation starters."  However, given recent incidents of racial injustice and the killings of black men and women by law enforcement and white nationalists, and the national reactions to these events, we can all agree that some conversations are necessary and required, no matter how uncomfortable. Politics and race relations are certainly controversial and sensitive topics that can ignite intense feelings and emotions and even disagreement. However, the fear of offending someone cannot be the reason why we remain silent and not lend our voice to the issues, if we want to bring about meaningful change. Despite our quiet and more reserved demeanors, introverts are bold and reflective, and highly empathic. Many of us are willing to step outside of our comfort zones to speak on the most controversial issues that touch on the soul of people. And we encourage you to do so, especially now.

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On today’s episode we discuss the recent remarks made by Democratic Presidential candidate Joe Biden on the Breakfast Club with Charlamagne tha God; specifically his comment that "If you have a problem figuring out whether you're for me or for Trump, then you aint black", and what seemed to some to be a Democrat's entitlement to the black vote.

We typically offer conversation starters that you can use anywhere, and have stayed away from controversial topics as not being ideal "conversation starters."  However, given recent incidents of racial injustice and the killings of black men and women by law enforcement and white nationalists, and the national reactions to these events, we can all agree that some conversations are necessary and required, no matter how uncomfortable. Politics and race relations are certainly controversial and sensitive topics that can ignite intense feelings and emotions and even disagreement. However, the fear of offending someone cannot be the reason why we remain silent and not lend our voice to the issues, if we want to bring about meaningful change. Despite our quiet and more reserved demeanors, introverts are bold and reflective, and highly empathic. Many of us are willing to step outside of our comfort zones to speak on the most controversial issues that touch on the soul of people. And we encourage you to do so, especially now. 

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No Small Talk is produced and hosted by Ebony Anuforo and Shereefat Balogun; edited by Wale "Breath Easy" Balogun

The question for today's episode asks about the first thing on a person's mind when they wake up in the morning.  And while you may assume that the discussion would center around morning routines, nah- not necessarily! 

This question can elicit truths about a person's priorities, fears, frustrations or.... actual routine! The point is it's unpredictable! And while we answered the question, it wasn't what most may have expected, since it didn't involve alarm clocks and snooze buttons! For instance, Sherry shared some very personal information about her fears and anxiety concerning being single. And Ebony discussed getting herself and her children into a routine in light of COVID-19.  

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No Small Talk is produced and hosted by Ebony Anuforo and Shereefat Balogun; edited by Wale "Breathe Easy" Balogun.

On today’s episode we ask “What Childish Things Do you Still Do as an Adult?”

This question quickly had us wondering what exactly is considered childish behavior.  Is it watching cartoons or the Disney channel? Is it saying the most “basic” prayer before you eat that you’ve been saying since you were three or is it something else?⁣  During this season that we all are in, we all need laughter and some light and fun conversations. This is one conversation starter that proves that conversations and connection building don’t always have to be serious and heavy.⁣

Our conversation starters are designed to create more interesting and memorable social interactions.  The great thing about our conversation starters is that they start off with one basic question, but will prompt a back-and-forth exchange of ideas and lead to other interesting topics. Use them and watch your relationships grow stronger as you share your answers and listen to others.

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No Small Talk is produced and hosted by Ebony Anuforo and Shereefat Balogun; edited by Wale "Breath Easy" Balogun

On today’s episode we ask “If you can become an expert at something, what would it be?” Random right? But it's fun! The answer to this can be a useless talent or a very valuable skill. A random question turned into really fun girl chat and revealed some interesting and surprising things. 

Our conversation starters are designed to create more interesting and memorable social interactions.  The great thing about our conversation starters is that they start off with one basic question, but will prompt a back-and-forth exchange of ideas and lead to other interesting topics. Use them and watch your relationships grow stronger as you share your answers and listen to others.

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No Small Talk is produced and hosted by Ebony Anuforo and Shereefat Balogun; edited by Wale "Breath Easy" Balogun

Today's episode we ask "What is the Best Gift That Anyone Has Ever Given You?"  What we love about this question is that it's especially useful if you're actually trying to get the person a gift- so you no longer have to fall back on gift cards, which are SO impersonal.  The question also allows you to learn new things about a person. For instance, we discovered another thing we have in common- our love language! Funny enough, it's not gifts.

Oftentimes, we think we have to buy the largest, most expensive gift in order for it to be the best gift ever.  Sometimes it's true, sometimes it isn't. But, regardless of the cost,  a really good gift is truly priceless. It makes you feel seen, understood and loved. And that's what we all really want out of all of our relationships right?!

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Our conversation starters are designed to create more interesting and memorable social interactions.  The great thing about our conversation starters is that they start off with one basic question, but will prompt a back-and-forth exchange of ideas and lead to other interesting topics. Use them and watch your relationships grow stronger as you share your answers and listen to others.

To take the stress out of coming up with fun and interesting conversations for your next date, lunch meeting or happy hour, we've developed a list of questions you can anytime and anywhere. Click here for our "20 Easy Conversation Starters You Can Use Anytime". A freebie designed just for you!

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No Small Talk is produced and hosted by Ebony Anuforo and Shereefat Balogun; edited by Wale "Breath Easy" Balogun

Today's episode we ask "What is Something Unexpected that has Changed in the Last Few Years"?  This question requires deep introspection and is a great way to go on a person's personal life journey as they discuss how they've changed, whether physically, personally, professionally or spiritually.  This conversation can be as light or deep as you want it to be, but it will create connection as you're invited into the person's personal evolution.  Listen in as we talk about our personal changes over the years and how our change occurred irrespective of anyone's thoughts or opinions......and then how we ended up talking about hair discrimination and unconscious bias in the workplace. You never know where these conversations end up. 

Our conversation starters are designed to create more interesting and memorable social interactions.  The great thing about our conversation starters is that they start off with one basic question, but will prompt a back-and-forth exchange of ideas and lead to other interesting topics. Use them and watch your relationships grow stronger as you share your answers and listen to others.

Click here for our "20 Easy Conversation Starters You Can Use Anytime". A freebie designed just for you! 

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No Small Talk is produced and hosted by Ebony Anuforo and Shereefat Balogun; edited by Wale "Breath Easy" Balogun