No Small Talk- Conversation Starters for Introverts

By Ebony Anuforo & Shereefat BalogunSociety & Culture Relationships

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April 08, 2020 20. What is the Most Important thing in Your Life? | Conversation Starters for any Situation
Today's episode we ask "What is the Most Important Thing in Your Life"? This question is a great way to find out what someone prioritizes in life. Is it Family? Money? Work? Travel? Listen in and find out how COVID-19 and social distancing helped reinforce what's important to us.
Our conversation starters are designed to create more interesting and memorable social interactions. The great thing about our conversation starters is that they start off with one basic question, but will prompt a back-and-forth exchange of ideas and lead to other interesting topics. Use them and watch your relationships grow stronger as you share your answers and listen to others.
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No Small Talk is produced and hosted by Ebony Anuforo and Shereefat Balogun; edited by Wale "Breath Easy" Balogun
19 min
March 25, 202019. How to Unlock Human Connection | TEDx Talk by Dan Foxx
Covid-19 has all of us at home, social distancing and missing human interaction and connection. Who would have ever thought that we’d be limited in how we interact with one another, when we interact with them and where we interact with them. Although us introverts value me time, we also value and are inspired by meaningful am inspiring interactions that leads to deep connection.
In today’s episode we share a special TEDx Talk by Dan Foxx. In his TEDx Talk, Dan says that the key to unlocking human connection is found in our ability let go of our ego and authentically care for others. As introverts that enjoy meaningful connections, it is important for us to get out of our heads and stop worrying about our insecurities, fears and anxieties around speaking to people. Stop focusing on how we sound or what we should be talking about, and focus on the person we’re speaking to, what they’re interested in, what they’re motivated by and simply connect with them.
Here's what to expect:
The hidden truth about human interaction

The key to unlocking human connection
Links and Resources Mentioned in this Episode:
The Hidden Truth About Human Connection | Dan Foxx | TEDxTalks
Social Media:
NO SMALL TALK PODCAST INSTAGRAM- @nosmalltalkpodcast
NO SMALL TALK PODCAST TWITTER- @nosmalltalkpod1
#nosmalltalk
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24 min
March 18, 202018. What Are You Doing to Manage Stress? | Conversation Starters for any Situation
It looks like everywhere you turn every one is talking about what they do, their job titles, who they report to, yada yada yada. And on top of what we do, we're working moms, wives, taking care of parents and side hustling. And while there's some temporary pleasure and satisfaction that comes with the humble brag and painting this rosy, peachy perfect picture of our lives, if we're honest with ourselves (and each other), we're stressed out. But that's the part we don't like to show on the gram or let people know. We avoid talking about the fact that we are feeling stressed, overwhelmed and burnt out.
Well in today's episode, we break the silence, admit that we are hella stressed and share how we've learned to reduce to stress and overwhelm in our lives. This is such a great, honest and useful conversation to have anywhere and with anyone because it's a valid feeling that most people have and most are trying to manage.
In Episode 18 of No Small Talk, we talk about:
the networking event that inspired this conversation...the discussion from "what do you do", to talking about Nacho Cheese Doritos, to "how are you managing your stress"

Ebony and Sherry's personal eating habits and personal snack of choice

the value of exercise, prayer and meditation

Setting boundaries and saying NO!

Seeking help and counsel from family, friends and counseling
Links and Resources Mentioned in this Episode:
How You Recharge Can Completely Transform the Way You Work, Sleep, and Focus, by Arianna Huffington (Thrive)

Homeweeks Diffusers, Colorful Essential Oil Diffuser

Jo Malone Lime Basil and Mandarin Diffuser

Bath and Body Mahogany Teakwood High Intensity 3-Wick Candle
Social Media:
No Small Talk Podcast- @nosmalltalkpodcast
#nosmalltalk
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29 min
March 12, 202017. Icebreaker | Conversation Starters for any Situation
In today's episode, we have some fun using the "Icebreaker" card deck from Best Self. These are great for starting a conversation with one-on-one or group situations. Use them and create more interesting and memorable experiences, and watch your relationships grow stronger as you share and listen.
In this episode, we explore the following questions:
Are you a listener or talker?

Would you rather a rewind button or pause button on your life?

Describe your worst date ever?

What do you think is the secret to a good life?

If you knew you could not fail, what would you do?

If you had to wear a T-shirt with one word on it for one year, which word would you choose?
Links and Resources Mentioned in this Episode:
Icebreaker Card Deck
Social Media:
No Small Talk Podcast- @nosmalltalkpodcast
#nosmalltalk
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No Small Talk is produced and hosted by Ebony Anuforo and Shereefat Balogun; edited by Wale "Breathe Easy" Balogun.
27 min
March 04, 202016. What Worked, What Didn't Work and What's Next? (2019 Year In Review)
#2020Vision. We cannot believe we’re already three months into 2020. Wait, what?! How?!
And how are we with our new years resolution and goal setting plans? You know, the one to lose 20 pounds? To do 2 speaking engagements? To save an extra $40k? Do you even have one? Lots of us start the year with individual goals we’d like to achieve. And often times, these goals start with a reflection of what we accomplished last year and what we could have done better.
Today, we walk down 2019 memory lane and recap on what worked and what didn’t work, and lay out our plans for 2020. As we speak about the podcast, we realize that there are parallels with our personal lives and many of the lessons learned could be applied in our day to day to make us more productive, and bring us closer to manifesting our individual vision for 2020.
In Episode 16 of No Small Talk, we talk about:
Investing in ourselves in order to gain expertise and core skills

Setting boundaries in order to be more efficient, productive and valuable

Asking for help

Why done is better than perfect

Coming up with and sticking to a plan and routine
Links and Resources Mentioned in this Episode:
Side Hustle Pro

Goal Diggers

Amy Porterfield

Episode 13: Recognizing Abundance and Saying Thank You at Home and at Work
Social Media:
No Small Talk Podcast- @nosmalltalkpodcast
#nosmalltalk
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35 min
December 18, 201915. Icebreaker | Conversation Starters for any Situation
In today's episode, we have some fun using the "Icebreaker" card deck from Best Self. These are great for starting a conversation with someone new or a friend you're trying to build a deeper relationship with, and are more interesting and memorable than the standard “Where are you from?” and “What do you do?”. The deck can be used for one-on-one or group discussions.
In this episode, we explore the following questions:
If you had a superpower, what would it be?

What mistake do you keep making in life?

What is the last thing that you bought under $50 that you love and use often?

Would you rather have more money or more time?

What were the 3 biggest turning points in your life?

What was the first music you bought?
Links and Resources Mentioned in this Episode:
Icebreaker Card Deck
Social Media:
No Small Talk Podcast- @nosmalltalkpodcast
#nosmalltalk
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No Small Talk is produced and hosted by Ebony Anuforo and Shereefat Balogun; edited by Wale "Breath Easy" Balogun
26 min
December 11, 201914. How to Have Good Conversation |TEDx Talk by Celeste Headlee
One of the most googled questions is "How to have a good conversation". If you're like us, you enjoy great conversations where you walk away feeling engaged and inspired, like you've made a real deep connection with the person you're talking to. But if you're like us, you also sometimes struggle with having those awesome conversations.
In today's episode, we share 10 tips from Celeste Headlee on how to have a good conversation.
Celeste has worked in public radio since 1999, as a reporter, host, and correspondent and approaches regular conversations the same way she would interviews- listening and believing that everyone has something interesting and amazing about them.
Here's what to expect:
How to be more interested

Why you should listen more than talk

How to have conversations with people you like, people you don't like, and people you fundamentally disagree with
Links and Resources Mentioned in this Episode:
How to Have a Good Conversation | Celeste Headlee | Tedx

Pew Study Finds More Polarized Americans Increasingly Resistant to Political Compromise

The Atlantic, My Students Don't Know How to Have a Conversation by Paul Barnwell
Social Media:
Celeste Headlee- @ceesteheadlee
No Small Talk Podcast- @nosmalltalkpodcast
#nosmalltalk

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No Small Talk is produced and hosted by Ebony Anuforo and Shereefat Balogun; edited by Wale "Breath Easy" Balogun
16 min
November 27, 201913. What Are You Grateful For?
#grateful. We're seeing this on IG, pinterest boards and everywhere else on social media. And although it's cute, the practice of gratitude goes beyond a hashtag. As we reflect on the year, and all that we're grateful for, we want to take a deep dive on the practice of gratitude.
In today's season finale, we talk all things gratitude: why gratitude is important, how and why to incorporate gratitude in our relationships, and practices to show appreciation at home and at work. Here's what to expect:
Ebony shares how gratitude has been helping her cope with a rough 2019

Sherry discusses her top 3 tips to accessing gratitude in difficult and inconvenient times

how practicing gratitude can strengthen and deepen personal and professional relationships
Child, we know that 2019 may not have been easy but we hope that after listening tot his episode, you've gained perspective and are encouraged and inspired. No matter what, you are aligned with abundance and lack nothing.
Links and Resources Mentioned in this Episode:
Toward a Meaningful Life, by Simon Jacobson

The Simple Abundance Journal of Gratitude, by Sarah Ban Breathnach

Super Soul Conversations- Episode 97: Sarah Ban Breathnach, Surviving the Fall

M.Sarah Designs By Doyin
Social Media:
No Small Talk Podcast- @nosmalltalkpodcast
#nosmalltalk
M. Sarah Designs By Doyin- @m_sarahdesigns
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No Small Talk is produced and hosted by Ebony Anuforo and Shereefat Balogun; edited by Wale "Breath Easy" Balogun
41 min
November 21, 201912. Stephan Speaks "You Deserve It: Love, Happiness and Success" | No Small Talk Conversation with Ivy Gales and Shani Farmer
In today's episode, we are joined by Ivy Gales and Shani Farmer and we discuss our experience at Stephan Speaks "You Deserve It: Love, Happiness and Success" tour. We touch on the highlights of the conference, what we liked, what we didn't like so much, and our general thoughts on the pressure single women feel to be more desirable and approachable by men. Here's what to expect:
Shani shares her own relationship journey, how she introduced the idea of celibacy to her now husband, and how she had to learn to tap into her feminine power to allow him to lead the direction of the relationship.

Ivy explains how witnessing her parents' 42-year old marriage has helped her to remain optimistic as a single woman; and her desire to be chased and led in a relationship.

Sherry expresses her frustration with the narrative of the single black woman who cannot get a man because she's not feminine or vulnerable enough, and that she's to blame for being single.
Child, this was a deep one. It's also a long one. But listen to the full episode for all of the gems, we promise you won't regret it. Plus, Shani and Ivy share their favorite no small talk conversations starters.
Links and Resources Mentioned in this Episode:
Episode 8: What is Your Greatest Achievement | Conversation on Identifying Your Purpose and Passion

Stephan Speaks "You Deserve It: Love, Happiness and Success" tour

Stephan Speaks, Finding love After Heartbreak

Steve Harvey, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy and Commitment

Yasir Qadhi, What Women Need to Know About Men
Social Media:
Shani Farmer- @farmerwifeedition
No Small Talk Podcast- @nosmalltalkpodcast
#nosmalltalk
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November 13, 201911. No Small Talk Conversation with Omolola Anderson | Conversation Starters for Any Situation
Young couples today are stepping outside of their comfort zone and finding love and compatibility with someone who shares the same values and interests, regardless of race or culture. In today's episode, we are joined by our friend Omolola ("Lola") Anderson as we discuss the impact of marrying someone outside of their culture. We discuss:
The three main areas that present additional challenges in intercultural relationships: communication, extended family relations, and raising children

Sherry's fear of having to teach someone her culture

Ebony's experience with marrying a fellow Nigerian from a different tribe and adjusting to different cultural practices and expectations

Lola's unwillingness to conform to societal and familial pressures to marry someone of the same culture
Plus, tune in to hear Lola's go-to conversation starter.
Social Media:
No Small Talk Podcast- @nosmalltalkpodcast
#nosmalltalk
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No Small Talk is produced and hosted by Ebony Anuforo and Shereefat Balogun; edited by Wale "Breath Easy" Balogun
37 min

About No Small Talk- Conversation Starters for Introverts

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Are you an introvert who avoids social events because you're drained by small talk? Are you inspired by meaningful conversations, but struggle with initiating them? The No Small Talk podcast is a lively space for introverts looking to build connections and level up in their personal and professional lives. Through our conversation starters, interviews and discussions, we help introverts connect with others naturally and confidently without the small talk.