Not As We Planned

By Tash Gershfield & Carly HarrisSociety & Culture Relationships Parenting Kids & Family

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October 08, 2025 Legally Nik: Answering Your Questions About Coparenting, Dealing With Narcissist's & A 50/50 Split | Not As We Planned Podcast
A very eye-opening episode which will give you an insightful understanding into the coparenting world, how to manage the legal battle with your children’s parent and growing through the trauma.
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56 min
October 01, 2025 Sending A Nude Into The School Group Chat!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
We share the most embarrassing moments when you text the wrong person, Tash shares a mortifying experience, finding out you're the home wrecker only after the relationship ends and when your husband leaves you for a man
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September 24, 2025 I Got Eaten Alive!! The Dating Episode You Don't Want To Miss! | Not As We Planned Podcast
We get an update on Carly's dating drama after being ghosted, how she joined dating app Wisp https://wisp.global/ (ad) which bans ghosters, the most graphic sexual encounter by a male listener, the 5ft7 liar, and dating a criminal!
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41 min
September 17, 2025 Should You Date Multiple Men At The Same Time?? | Not As We Planned Podcast
We discuss whether it’s a good idea to date multiple men at once, swapping stories with the other woman, planning another baby with your ex and how to meet the love of your life and a lovely email to give is all hope!
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43 min
September 11, 2025 The hack to find deleted messages on your phone!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Carly gives us a big life update, we have a little scroll on ‘are we dating the same guy’, realising you’ve outgrown your partner and don’t know if you should end it, and should you give your cheating partner one more chance?
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43 min
September 03, 2025 We’re Back in Our BRAND NEW Studio! Breakups, Divorce & Dating Real Talk | Not As We Planned Podcast
Welcome to a brand-new era of Not As We Planned - and our very first episode in the NEW studio! 💖 It’s a total pinch-me moment, and we’re so excited to share it with you. Same raw honesty and bestie vibes, but with a fresh new space and energy.

In this opener, we dive deep into the realities of love, heartbreak, and fresh starts. You’ll hear the jaw-dropping story of a woman who stayed in a toxic relationship for 30 years before finally breaking free, an empowering reminder that it’s never too late to put yourself first. We also answer listener questions about cheating, red flags, and “should I have stayed?” moments. Plus, catch up with us as we share the highs and lows of single life, dating apps, co-parenting, and everything in between.

If you’re ready for real talk, belly laughs, and conversations that feel like therapy with your best friends, you’re in the right place.

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43 min
July 30, 2025 100. Unfortunately Men Like This Exist…
We discuss the difficulties of splitting your time with the kids over the holidays, someone who needs some serious tough love from us, a clear comparison with how your life could look when leaving or staying and the man who was sleeping with 9 women!!!

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July 23, 2025 99. He Did Cheat.. But it Was My Fault
We have an honest conversation about the financial pressures of being a single mum, when you catfish your partner by pretending to be the other woman, and a hard story of emotional abuse whilst managing to break the trauma bond

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50 min
July 16, 2025 98. I Was The Other Woman But Didn’t Know!!!
Mr British airways by who took so many women for a ride, when the man you’ve been dating lied about EVERYTHING… even his name! And when you compare notes with the other woman to find that he shat on both your beds!!

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Producer: @TristanHehir

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38 min
July 09, 2025 97. He Told Me He Was a Vampire
You guys share your most embarrassing date scenarios, when your partner informs you that he wants to watch you sleep with other men, when his memory of you is taken away and a thanks for the podcast making you not feel alone through your divorce.

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43 min