Here are some things we are actively doing to stop our downward spiral before it gets out of control. Hopefully it encourages you and gives you an idea or two!

Sometimes we get in a rut of “being married” but not growing in our marriage. And sometimes I like it that way. When marriage is smooth sailing, we often want to avoid digging below the surface because a difficult topic will inevitably get stirred up. But Elisha and I have also found that consistently digging …

At first I thought I didn’t hear him correctly. BE your dream home? Didn’t Elisha mean, “create your dream home? Make your dream home? Have your dream home?” Turns out, he meant all those things, and I love this vision he painted for me of BEING our dream home. I hope it encourages you in …

We have never felt a lack of community. However, that doesn’t mean Elisha and I have always been apart of rich, healthy, community. Today we’re talking about practical ways we created community growing up, how we found community outside of our family circles as newly weds, and how we’re currently cultivating community in our new …

Today we’re diving into two main reasons why husbands can be emotionally distant, how to encourage them to open up emotionally, and some practical ways a man can be emotionally present for his wife! With a lot of personal stories, and some good laughs, this is one of our favorite podcasts so far!

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032: How To Grow Your Confidence In Any Area Of Life

031: Five Changes We’ve Made Since Having Our Third Child

030: How To Encourage Your Husband In Spiritual Leadership // Why Men Feel Inadequate to Lead

Does God want wives to be doormats? Today we’re talking about Ephesians 5:23 and what God-honoring submission does and does NOT look like in a marriage. In the twenty-first century, submission can be a sticky topic, but we believe the danger of this passage is because it has been twisted by culture, the devil, or …