There are some questions that can help a marriage.  There are many thoughts that can improve your relationship.

But there is one question that will suck the life right out of a marriage.  And it is a question you don't even need to ask another person, in order to do the damage.

In fact, another person won't make a difference for this question.  It is a question lurking within you.

Oh, and did I mention that another question, similar to this question -- but very different in direction -- can help restore a relationship?

Change the question, change the frame.  Get stuck on the question, get stuck in a downward spiral.  It's up to you. . . once you know the question.

Which one are you asking?

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