September 03, 2025

One Size Fits All?

1 hour 32 minutes

One Size Fits All?

Navigating Lifestyle Events, House Parties, Clubs & Takeovers – with Wanderlust Swinger's own Cate!

Description: Welcome to Season 6, Episode 5 of the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this candid and entertaining episode, hosts Mickey and Mallory are joined by the ever-popular Wanderlust Cate for a deep dive into the world of lifestyle events. Whether you’re a seasoned swinger or new to the scene, this episode is packed with real talk, hilarious stories, and practical advice on navigating everything from meet & greets and house parties to clubs, hotel takeovers, and full-blown resort events.

We break down the pros and cons of each event type, discuss the importance of setting expectations, and share personal experiences—both the wild and the awkward. Learn how to find the right event for your vibe, what red flags to watch for, and how to make the most of your lifestyle journey. Plus, get the inside scoop on Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, and how to connect with the community year-round.

Keywords: Swinger podcast, lifestyle events, house parties, swingers clubs, hotel takeovers, resort takeovers, Wanderlust Cate, Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, lifestyle community, swinging advice, adult podcast, open relationships, event etiquette, lifestyle travel

Episode Highlights:

[00:00] Intro & Warnings: Mickey and Mallory welcome listeners and introduce special guest Wanderlust Cate.

[03:00] House Party Recap: Behind-the-scenes of their epic three-day house party, including hilarious mishaps and lessons learned.

[10:00] Community & Connection: The value of year-round lifestyle communities like Casual Connect and Libertine Connect.

[15:00] Booking Casual Swinger Week: Updates, booking tips, and why it’s not sold out!

[20:00] Meet & Greets: What to expect, etiquette, and how to spot red flags.

[30:00] House Parties: The difference between social and DTF (down to fun) parties, setting boundaries, and the importance of clear communication.

[40:00] Swingers Clubs: Club culture in the US vs. Europe, pros and cons, and how to find your fit.

[55:00] Hotel & Resort Takeovers: Investment, expectations, and how to choose the right event for you.

[1:10:00] Age, Vibe & Finding Your People: Why “average age” questions matter, and how to connect with like-minded folks.

[1:20:00] Final Thoughts & Resources: How to research events, ask the right questions, and set yourself up for success.

Special Guest:

Wanderlust Cate – Host of Wanderlust Swingers Podcast and founder of Libertine Events. Find her at wanderlustswingers.com and libertineevents.com.

Resources & Links:

Casual Swinger Community: casualswinger.com

Casual Swinger Week: casualswingerweek.com

Libertine Events: libertineevents.com

Connect with Us: Instagram, YouTube, X (Twitter), SLS, SDC, Kasidie

Contact:

Email: [email protected]

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By Mickey & Mallory

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