This week, Charna interviews Brett Chamberlin, the founder and executive director of OPEN, the Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Nonmonogamy. Brett opens by sharing his journey of transitioning from environmental activism to the advocacy for more awareness and legal rights for non-monogamists. This includes anyone who subscribes to relationship designs outside the norm of one man and one woman, including single people.

He also discusses the cultural implications of nonmonogamy, the impact of societal norms, the progressing nonmonogamy movement, and the importance of community, consent, and cooperative living in practicing non-monogamy.

When it comes to having a successful non-monogamous relationship, Brett emphasizes the relevance of developing effective communication skills, having a clear understanding of personal desires, and the establishment of healthier relationships. He calls for the questioning and challenging of the supremacy of monogamous relationships in society and how dismantling this norm will lead to a more inclusive, loving society.

Charna ends the episode by sharing resources for people looking to explore the world of non-monogamy, as well as, an exercise designed to help you focus in on the characteristics and nuances you’re looking for in a partner when choosing a potential mate. 

Show Notes

00:04 Introduction of Brett Chamberlin and OPEN

01:09 Brett Chamberlin's Journey to Polyamory Advocacy

03:31 The Birth of OPEN: Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Nonmonogamy

04:09 The Challenges and Privileges of Advocacy

05:38 OPEN's Theory of Change and Advocacy Strategies

11:07 The Reality of Nonmonogamy in America

13:23 The Importance of Visibility and Acceptance

17:22 The Legal Challenges Faced by Nonmonogamous People

28:31 The Role of Polyamory in Broader Human Liberation

35:42 The Liberatory Potential of Non-Monogamy

35:51 The Social and Environmental Impact of Extractive Systems

36:31 The Rise of Social Issues and the Role of Non-Monogamy

38:08 The History and Evolution of Monogamy

38:58 The Impact of Industrial Revolution on Relationship Structures

40:55 The Importance of Relationship Education

50:07 The Role of Media in Normalizing Non-Monogamy

54:43 The Impact of Pandemic on Non-Monogamous Relationships

59:41 The Importance of Self-Acceptance and Authenticity in Relationships

01:00:58 Understanding and Navigating the Complexities of Relationships

01:03:57 Conclusion: The Power of Open Conversations and Community