Life is full of surprises, and often, it's in the most unexpected moments that we find profound meaning and guidance. In today's conversation Christie and Lisa-Jo discuss one specific instance that arrived much later in Christie's life than might be typical and how these instances are opportunities to stay receptive and attentive to God at work in the mundane and challenging.

In today's episode we unpack:

• The significance of turning 50 and being a beginner again 
• Receiving strength from the Holy Spirit, whether we feel strong or not 
• The shift from relying on feelings to being receptive to God's invitations
• A unique church experience for Christie and how it met her in a weary season 
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In today's episode Lisa-Jo and Christie realize they have both learned how to avoid disappointment and prepare to be happy on a special day ...

• Lisa-Jo is astonished to learn this about Philadelphia
• Christie shares everything she's discovered about celebrating milestones
• These friends ask: how can we better communicate expectations and desires in relationships? With spouses? young kids? teens? with our friends?
• Plus, different communication styles and learning to "stay in the room" to unravel communication knots together
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In today's episode Lisa-Jo and Christie unwrap a Peck of Purple Peppers and share the story of a sentimental seed and the final book in a gardening trilogy.

• It's a book launch gift haul -- unwrapped on air. 
• Which of the the three Jane Austen gardening sisters in Christie's Trilogy are YOU? 
• How to name a book
• The powerful narratives that seeds and plants carry through generations.
• How our family's shape our stories 
• Bonus: Christie reads an excerpt from her new book "Seedtime and Harvest"
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START reading the first free chapters of It Wasn't Roaring, It Was Weeping here

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In today's episode Lisa-Jo and Christie celebrate a four-year project that is finally complete. What's it like to stand at the finish line?

• A conversation between friends on the creative process and completing a trilogy
• Thanks to Lisa-Jo, Christie discovers that her book is like a Jane Austen heroine
• Which of these three books with their distinct personalities should you read first?
• How writing a trilogy teaches you contentment (and how that carries over to parenting and marriage)
• Why some creative projects deplete us and some feel like play
• Why Gardening Matters To Christie (and why it should matter to you too)

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Lisa-Jo has a personal epiphany in the bathtub this week and Christie offers insights on the healing that comes from addressing our shadows.

• We're facing our demons this week -- from the safety of the bathtub!
• Lisa-Jo looks in the mirror of her past and doesn't like what she sees
• Christie points us to the cyclical nature of life that can bring order and understanding out of the darkness--especially as it relates to parenting teens.
• Lisa-Jo tells the story of confronting one of the worst shadows from her past on a stage in front of 4,000 people. 
• We want to uncover the transformative power of confronting our past and finding meaning in the pain.
• Christie recommends: Like Dew Your Youth: Growing Up with Your Teenager by Eugene H. Peterson
• Lisa-Jo's bathtub read: A Wizard of Earthsea by Ursula K. Le Guin

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Follow Emily Graffius on Instagram @emily.graffius and learn more about her work as a TBRI Practitioner, Speaker, and Parent Coach & Cultivate Connection Facilitator. Follow Lisa-Jo on Instagram @lisajobaker and Christie at @christiepurifoy and please leave a review about what you think about today's podcast!

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In today's episode, Lisa-Jo and Christie do something they've never done before ... they invite a third friend into the conversation! This special episode was recorded in person in the Black Barn!

• We are together again in the Black Barn!
• Meet our friend and special guest Emily Graffius
• Find out what it's like behind the scenes of the podcast
• We answer ALL of Emily's questions (are they your questions, too?)
• Lisa-Jo and Christie's friendship and why we WON'T be breaking up or falling out
• Insights into motherhood and how to form lasting friendships
• This one ends with a real eye-opener as Lisa-Jo discovers the true nature of her relationship with (wait for it ...) her pillow!

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Follow Emily Graffius on Instagram @emily.graffius and learn more about her work as a TBRI Practitioner, Speaker, and Parent Coach & Cultivate Connection Facilitator. Follow Lisa-Jo on Instagram @lisajobaker and Christie at @christiepurifoy and please leave a review about what you think about today's podcast!

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In today's episode, Lisa-Jo and Christie reflect on the emotional and creative journey of writing and releasing their upcoming books. They discuss the concept of impact, the pressures of going viral, and the deeper significance of friendship and service. 

• Discussion of the process of writing and releasing a book
• Personal stories behind the books
• Emotional journey of sharing your work with the world
• Our cultural obsession with making an impact 
• Reframing impact and success 
• The impact of sacrificial friendship

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We are back after a five-month hiatus, and we have so much to tell you.

About rest. About work. About creativity and parenting teenagers and the very Big Milestones coming up for us this year.

If you've been feeling overwhelmed and overcommitted, this conversation between two old friends is for you.

• The difference between stuffing vs savoring. 
• What is more exhausting -- parenting toddlers vs parenting teens--and why. 
• The thing we've hinted at is finally real and alive in the world. 
• Christie gets the closest she's ever come to setting a goal.

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Who needs rest from creating?

In the beginning, God didn't just rest from work but He rested from creating. 

After burn out,  Lisa-Jo and Christie wrap their arms around us and give us grace to pause.  Whether you're entering a season of creation or needing a break from creating we can all relate.

Sometimes a season calls for a stop. for a pause. for less. You might not need anything new but need to revisit and savor what you already have. 

"Maybe I don't need something new.  Maybe what I need is already here and I need to slow down and savor it." - Christie Purifoy

Do we lose momentum in our life if we rest? 

God is telling Christie and Lisa-Jo to pause.  Out of the Ordinary will be going on sabbatical for the remainder of 2023.

Christie and Lisa-Jo both have books coming out in the spring 2024! Out of the Ordinary podcast will return again in 2024 with new episodes!! It will be so exciting to be together again! 

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Christie mentioned these two books in the episode:
Invitation to Retreat: The Gift and Necessity of Time Away with God by Ruth Haley Barton

Keeping House: The Litany of Everyday Life by Margaret Kim Peterson

This is a story about how to make ordinary life a little bit easier.

LJ and Christie laugh, talk, and recommend equipment for ordinary living: shoes, headphones, jasmine!, and more. Also, we learn that Lisa-Jo has never heard the memorable 1980s advertising slogan: "Calgon, take me away!"

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