June 10, 2023

Part 1: When Being Released Hurts

28 minutes

Kurt Francom is the founder and executive director of Leading Saints, manages the day-to-day efforts of Leading Saints, and is the host of the podcast. Kurt graduated from the University of Utah in 2008 with a degree in Business Marketing. He ran a web development company for five years before focusing on Leading Saints full time. Kurt currently lives in Stansbury Park, Utah with his lovely wife Alanna. They are blessed to have three children. Kurt has served as a full-time missionary (California Sacramento), as a bishop, first counselor in a stake presidency, and elders quorum president. This is Part 1 of a 2-part podcast. Listen to Part 2 HERE.

Highlights

01:00 Kurt introduces the episode’s topic of feeling hurt when released from a calling.

04:15 Sometimes getting released from a calling is an identity shift and is accompanied by feelings of loneliness or feeling lost.

07:30 Kurt shares his story and leadership journey. Being bishop and in the stake presidency then going back to being brother Francom. The sadness about not being as involved.

14:00 There is a transition period when being released from a big calling. Even years later it can still hurt.

16:20 It hurts not to be called, not to be chosen, not to be the leader.

18:45 It’s ok to hurt and struggle with the transition of not being in leadership anymore.

19:10 Episode takeaways:

Remember that closure is crucial

Reach out to others for support

Surrender your impact and things you started in the ward. The next leader is probably going to change things

23:00 Minister to the bishop who just got released. Help them through the transition. Share your own story.

24:10 Kurt reads a letter from a former bishop that got released suddenly.

Links

Part 2 of this podcast

Is Aspiring Wrong?

Finding Purpose in Your Ward After a Heavy Leadership Calling | An Interview with Rob Eaton

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