Paul tells us how he came to faith as a teenager, and how a combination of clear teaching and sharing with good friends has helped him navigate same-sex attraction and stay faithful to Jesus. Paul also shares how he unexpectedly fell in love with his now wife, and his advice for any same-sex attracted Christians considering an opposite-sex marriage.

We also chat about how we respond to our desires. Is it harmful to deny ourselves things we desire? How do we know which desires are good to act on and which aren’t? What are the different lenses we might look at those questions through and how do they influence our approach? 

Resources mentioned and related

• Strong Desires and Deep Desires Andrew Bunt
• What Are Your Desires Telling You? Amy Riordan
• You Are Being Lied To Andrew Bunt
• Handling Sexual Urges (Part 1) Jo Johnson