Do we continue to transform with each new loss? Tom Zuba thinks so, and wants to share the profound lessons he learned grieving the loss, first of his 18 month old daughter, then years later his wife, and years after that one of his remaining two children. What was at first an unlit and terrifying landscape through which he had no idea how to travel, slowly illuminated, showing him the way through his grief, noticing everything along the path. Dedicating his life to helping other people navigate their losses, the pain of his grief gave way to the beauty of his new life. Teaching through sharing his experience, Tom embodies the service which comes, sometimes, out of our deepest and most difficult times.