What story do you tell yourself after a setback?

• That you're not disciplined enough?
• That you're lacking confidence?
• Or will power?

The truth is we simply lack commitment.

Get the full show notes here:

https://recoveredman.com/209

PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:

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Following up on episode 207, Pain Not Transformed is Transmitted, I answer the specific question of how our pain is transformed.

"We are born in relationship, we are wounded in relationship, and we can be healed in relationship. Indeed, we cannot be fully healed outside of a relationship."

— Harville Hendrix, Getting The Love You Want

Get the full show notes here:

https://recoveredman.com/208

PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:

Porn Free This Year (Free video course)

http://recoveredman.com/thisyear

Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz

http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group

http://recoveredman.com/rev

1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz

https://recoveredman.com/coaching

"If we do not transform our pain," Richard Rohr writes. "We will most assuredly transmit it." On today's show, I talk about how we avoid pain with porn and how the work of recovery is about transforming pain.

Get the full show notes here:

https://recoveredman.com/207

PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:

Porn Free This Year (Free video course)

http://recoveredman.com/thisyear

Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz

http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group

http://recoveredman.com/rev

1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz

https://recoveredman.com/coaching

Our culture would have us believe that all we can't fully enjoy life if we choose recovery.

But the opposite is true.

When we put the proper boundary on porn and our addictions, we get access to the rest of life.

In this virtually coaching session, we talk about how you can begin to design a kick-ass life.

Get the full show notes here:

https://recoveredman.com/206

PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:

Porn Free This Year (Free video course)

http://recoveredman.com/thisyear

Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz

http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group

http://recoveredman.com/rev

1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz

https://recoveredman.com/coaching

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Do you have an idea of some actions you should take in recovery?

Or is there a behavior that you know you need to eliminate?

What's stopping you?

In this virtual coaching session, I explain how our excuses reveal our beliefs.

Get the full show notes here:

https://recoveredman.com/205

PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:

Porn Free This Year (Free video course)

http://recoveredman.com/thisyear

Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz

http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group

http://recoveredman.com/rev

1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz

https://recoveredman.com/coaching

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I have a stack of emails today and I'm answering your questions...

What's the best way to tell my girlfriend about a relapse? Is a realistic goal to abstain from masturbation when there is no relationship in sight? Should I tell my accountability about the massage parlor? Can you help me understand my horrific, porn withdrawal experience?

AND MORE...

1-on-1 Coaching Interested in having a custom coaching experience with me? Send an email to [email protected] with the subject "Coaching."

Get the full show notes here:

https://recoveredman.com/204

PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:

Porn Free This Year (Free video course)

http://recoveredman.com/thisyear

Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz

http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group

http://recoveredman.com/rev

1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz

https://recoveredman.com/coaching

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Recently I was dealt a crushing blow. Because of a flight cancelation, I went from having a first class ticket to a middle seat in the back of the plane.

On this episode, we talk about dealing with disappointment and why we feel what we focus on.

Get the full show notes here:

https://recoveredman.com/203

PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:

Porn Free This Year (Free video course)

http://recoveredman.com/thisyear

Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz

http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group

http://recoveredman.com/rev

1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz

https://recoveredman.com/coaching

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My interview with Jay Stringer, author of Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing.

Get the full show notes here:

https://recoveredman.com/202

PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:

Porn Free This Year (Free video course)

http://recoveredman.com/thisyear

Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz

http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group

http://recoveredman.com/rev

1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz

https://recoveredman.com/coaching

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Today's episode is about being kind to yourself, having compassion, and finding self-care.

Get the full show notes here:

https://recoveredman.com/201

PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:

Porn Free This Year (Free video course)

http://recoveredman.com/thisyear

Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz

http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group

http://recoveredman.com/rev

1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz

https://recoveredman.com/coaching

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Superfan, Jon Jones, interviews Matt in a special show to celebrate 200 episodes of Porn Free Radio.

Get the full show notes here:

https://recoveredman.com/200

PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:

Porn Free This Year (Free video course)

http://recoveredman.com/thisyear

Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz

http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group

http://recoveredman.com/rev

1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz

https://recoveredman.com/coaching

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