Private Parts Unknown: Sex & Love Around the World

For the 93rd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes body paint artist Paul Roustan for a conversation about how he got started, the importance of separating sex from nudity, what his wife and kids think about his work, how he used his body paint art as a launch pad to becoming an NTF creator, what it's like to have groupies in the metaverse, and more.

For more Roustan:

• Check out Roustan's website bodypainter.com
• Check out Roustan's YouTube channel youtube.com/roustanbodypaint
• Follow Roustan on Twitter @RoustanNTF
• Follow Roustan on Instagram @roustan

Courtney and Roustan's body paint collabs:

1. Body Painting Courtney 4K: https://youtu.be/7eo_8benGj0
2. Body Painting Courtney Again!: https://youtu.be/m4nM6j8lSnA
3. Naked at the Beach and Pool with Body Paint: https://youtu.be/3EZ8Z4zQjHU
4. New Year's Pre-Party Body Painting: https://youtu.be/mph_sVS60Mc
5. Body Painting Courtney: https://youtu.be/PrRofOFi0F8

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For the 92nd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes research psychologist, psychotherapist, and media commentator Dr. Frieda Birnbaum, Ph.D., for a primer on toxic relationships, how to avoid them, and how to rewire abusive patterns that might be lurking around from your upbringing.

But first, we talk about what it's like to be an older parent because, notably, Dr. Frieda is the oldest woman in America to give birth to twins at age 60! With her unique perspective on parenting, we also get into kids vs. career and whether or not to have kids if you don't feel particularly passionate about it.

For more Dr. Frieda Birnbaum:

• Check out Dr. Frieda's website friedabirnbaum.wixsite.come/drfrieda
• Read Dr. Frieda's book Life Begins at 60: A New View of Motherhood, Marriage, and Reinventing Ourselves

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Unfortunately, a couple of weeks ago, the U.S. Supreme Court overturned Roe v Wade in a devastating rollback of rights. So for the 91st episode of Private Parts Unknown, we are countering a common misconception that people who are already moms don't get abortions or aren't pro-abortion. But that's not true: According to 2019 CDC statistics, 60% of people who get abortions are already mothers. So today, host Courtney Kocak speaks with reporter, abortion activist, AND mom Robin Marty, in addition to writer, speaker, and mom activist Christine Michel Carter about why abortion access is necessary, even for people who WANT to be pregnant, how to talk to your kids about abortion, and more.

Robin Marty is the author of Handbook for a Post-Racial America and the updated New Handbook for a Post-Roe America, in addition to several other books, and she's currently the director of operations for the West Alabama Women's Center. Christine Michel Carter is the author of MOM AF and Can Mommy Go To Work?

For more from today's guests:

• Follow Robin Marty on Twitter @robinmarty
• Follow Christine Michel Carter on Instagram @cmichelcarter
• Follow Christine Michel Carter on Twitter @cmichelcarter
• Check out Christine Michel Carter's website christinemichelcarter.com

Here's a playlist of our previous abortion-related episodes, including the "Men Have Abortions Too" series: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4BFDkcQYzdfq5YEV5buzzO?si=19a1d68b109845dd

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In a very grim turn of events, Roe v. Wade was overturned by SCOTUS last week. For the 90th episode of Private Parts Unknown, we're going to hold space for that grieving process — and also hear directly from the people litigating the case and an organization at the forefront of the pro-choice movement about what this means, how we got here, and what's to come. Host Courtney Kocak gives her reaction to Friday news and shares her personal experience with abortion. Then we talk through the biggest takeaways from Friday's press conference, where the Center for Reproductive Rights and Mississippi Center for Justice discussed the devastating ruling in the U.S. Supreme Court case Dobbs v. Jackson Women’s Health Organization, with clips from the following speakers:

• Nancy Northup, President and CEO of the Center for Reproductive Rights
• Julie Rikelman, Senior Director of U.S. Litigation at the Center for Reproductive Rights
• Hillary Schneller, Senior Staff Attorney at the Center for Reproductive Rights
• Robert McDuff, Mississippi Center for Justice

For more from The Center for Reproductive Rights:

• Follow them on Instagram @reprorights
• Follow them on Twitter @ReproRights
• Check out their website reproductiverights.org

Here's a playlist of our previous abortion-related episodes, including the "Men Have Abortions Too" series: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4BFDkcQYzdfq5YEV5buzzO?si=19a1d68b109845dd

Background:

On Friday, June 24th, the U.S. Supreme Court upheld a Mississippi law that bans abortion after 15 weeks of pregnancy, overturning the constitutional right to an abortion as protected under Roe v. Wade, which determined that every person has the right to end a pregnancy before viability—typically around 23-24 weeks. As a result of this ruling, about half the states in the country are expected to take immediate action to ban or severely restrict abortion.

This case was first filed in March 2018 by the Center for Reproductive Rights on behalf of Jackson Women’s Health Organization, the last remaining abortion clinic in Mississippi. The lawsuit aimed to block the state’s ban on abortion after 15 weeks of pregnancy. The ban was struck down by a federal district court and the Fifth Circuit Court of Appeals. The state of Mississippi then asked the Supreme Court to hear the case, and arguments were held in December 2021.

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For the 89th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak introduces you to her OTHER podcast, The Bleeders, a new show about book writing and publishing. BUT DON'T WORRY, today's episode still manages to be very queer!

The first guest for The Bleeders was the second ever guest for Private Parts Unknown — Samantha Allen, author of Real Queer America: LGBT Stories From Red States and the upcoming novel Patricia Wants to Cuddle (pub date June 28th). She shares so many nuggets of wisdom for writers. We talked shop about writing and publishing start to finish, book advances, audiobooks and her Audible Original (M to (WT)F: Twenty-Six of the Funniest Moments from My Transgender Journey), her foray from nonfiction to fiction, and the very trans sci-fi she used to devour pre-transition.

Happy Pride, everyone! Hope you like this podcast (if you do, check out the links below for more), and we'll be back next with a brand new episode of Private Parts Unknown.

CHECK OUT THE BLEEDERS FEED FOR MORE EPISODES (AND TO SUBSCRIBE!): https://pod.link/1628014529

• The Bleeders on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-bleeders/id1628014529?uo=4
• The Bleeders on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1AfDMWxmLeMTu4mhibTMHI
• The Bleeders on Substack: https://thebleeders.substack.com/welcome

For more Samantha Allen:

• Follow Samantha on Twitter @SLAwrites
• Check out Samantha's website samanthaleighallen.com

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Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by:

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For the 88th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Dr. Amir Marashi, aka "The Vagina Whisperer" (@nycgyno on Instagram), for a fun and informative episode that spans from orgasms to endometriosis and Freud to Fear of Flying.

We also discuss misconceptions about the clitoris and how that even affects doctors, different treatment options for post-menopausal women and others who need a boost (including Cliovana and "the love treatment"), his natural lube recommendation from your kitchen cupboard, and his sexual health tips for vagina-havers of all ages.

For more Dr. Amir Marashi:

• Follow Dr. Marashi on Instagram @nycgyno
• Check out Dr. Marashi's website nycgyno.com

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Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by:

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For the 87th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts, Courtney Kocak and Sofiya Alexandra, welcome Nova Scotia-based married couple and co-hosts of the Turn Me On podcast — Jeremie Saunders and Bryde MacLean — for a fascinating episode about their journey opening up their relationship and becoming polyamorous.

We dig into how living with a life-shortening illness has impacted their trajectory, how they forged the relationship dynamic they truly wanted without having a model, relationship contracts, how their new partners fit into their daily lives, having different money values, separating finances, how their parents feel about the lifestyle, poly jealousies not being what you’d think, WHETHER OR NOT THEY STILL F*CK, and more.

For more Jeremie Saunders and Bryde MacLean:

• Listen to the Turn Me On podcast
• Follow Turn Me On on Instagram @turnmeonpodcast
• Follow Jeremie on Instagram @jeremiesaunders
• Follow Bryde on Instagram @brydemaclean

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Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by:

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For the 86th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak and Sofiya Alexandra revisit one of our most popular episodes: a deep dive into why women cheat.

First, we speak to an Ashley Madison member going by the alias of “Nikki,” then Ashley Madison’s Chief Strategy Officer, Paul Keable, and finally, their Communications Director, Isabella Mise, who co-authored "The Good Wife Study" on female infidelity. You're gonna want to check your presumptions at the door for this one!

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Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by:

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For the 85th episode of Private Parts Unknown, hosts Courtney Kocak and Sofiya Alexandra welcome author Chloe Caldwell for a deep dive into her latest book, The Red Zone, about her experience with PMDD and how that impacted her relationships.

The Red Zone: A Love Story is a searching, galvanizing memoir about blood and love: how learning more about her period, PMS, PMDD, and the effects of hormones on moods transformed her relationships — to a new partner, to family, to non-blood kin, and to her own body — from the beloved essayist and author of Women.

We discuss how PMDD is different from regular ol’ PMS, Chloe’s journey to regain control over her symptoms, what worked and what didn’t, and how being a stepparent is kind of like being queer.

For more from today's guest:

• Follow Chloe on Instagram @chloeeeecaldwell
• Check out Chloe’s website chloesimonne.com
• Buy Chloe’s latest book The Red Zone

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For the 84th episode of Private Parts Unknown, hosts Courtney Kocak and Sofiya Alexandra welcome Original Boner Gel founder Manuel Deran to bust some Dick Myths!

Sofiya is the host, and Courtney and Manuel go head to head to see who’s more of a penis expert in this fun and informative game.

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