DARVO was coined by Dr. Jennifer Freyd in the 1990s and stands for “Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender.” DARVO is a common defense strategy by perpetrators, narcissists, and offenders of both criminal and noncriminal harm when they wish to deflect accountability for their actions.
Despite how common DARVO is both individually in relationships as well as on a larger scale (e.g., corporate and government level), it isn’t talked about very often. DARVO is highly effective at silencing victims. But I’m hopeful that by sharing knowledge of how DARVO operates, we can empower ourselves and our society to combat it.
In this episode, we discuss the dynamics of DARVO, as well as the ways it can suppress whistleblowers and negatively impact their wellbeing.
I know it’s a weighty topic for this episode, but it feels highly useful for all of us to have this knowledge handy, whether to advocate for ourselves or to better support our clients in identifying DARVO and successfully holding others accountable.
You can find the shorter, less in-depth version of this episode here:
https://youtu.be/zhAZfcin3YY
National Domestic Violence Hotline:
https://www.thehotline.org/
Crisis Text Line:
https://www.crisistextline.org/
"How to Handle the DARVO Method"
https://sentientcounselling.co.uk/2023/03/21/how-to-handle-the-darvo-method/
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"Processing Personal Challenges While Still Being a Therapist"
https://youtu.be/KoLn9XeUZ9Y
Choosing Therapy Article: "DARVO: Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim & Offender”
https://www.choosingtherapy.com/darvo/
Dr. Jennifer Freyd: “What is DARVO?”
https://www.jjfreyd.com/darvo
CNN Article: "What others knew: Culture of denial protected Nassar for years”
https://www.cnn.com/2018/01/23/us/nassar-sexual-abuse-who-knew/index.html
Office of the Whistleblower Website:
https://whistleblower.house.gov/
“Whistleblowing and Mental Health” Government Document:
https://whistleblower.house.gov/sites/evo-subsites/whistleblower.house.gov/files/evo-media-document/Whistleblowing_and_Mental_Health.pdf
Resources for Whistleblowers:
https://whistleblower.house.gov/resources/resources-whistleblowers
"The Whistleblower’s Dilemma: Do the Risks Outweigh the Benefits?”
https://knowledge.wharton.upenn.edu/article/whistleblowers-in-business/
Whistleblower Protections (in the U.S.)
https://www.dol.gov/general/topics/whistleblower
Article: "What Makes Whistleblowers So Threatening?”
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4676977/
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