Feedback is at the heart of mentorship, and this episode dives into embracing constructive criticism, learning from mistakes, and understanding the power of “tough love.” It’s about turning feedback into actionable steps for personal and professional growth—even when it’s not easy to hear.

• Feedback Feels Personal: Feedback often feels like a critique of our identity, not just our work—especially as young professionals still finding their footing.
• Mindset Matters: Shifting from seeing feedback as "positive" or "negative" to viewing it as an opportunity for growth creates a healthier, more collaborative approach.
• Delivery is Key: Poorly delivered feedback can derail progress, while thoughtful critique builds trust and inspires improvement.
• Ask for Clarity: Confidence grows when you ask for clarity instead of assuming, ensuring feedback is actionable and meaningful.
• Delegation and Growth: Letting go of tasks isn’t about giving up control—it’s about creating space for team growth and focusing on higher priorities.

Why Does Feedback Feel So Personal? 
Feedback can feel like a gut punch, especially early in your career when you're still establishing your identity in the professional world. Erin explains that feedback often feels more personal than it is because young professionals tend to conflate their work with their self-worth. Shelby emphasizes the need for a mindset shift, seeing feedback not as a critique of your person but as a tool for improvement. Together, they explore how balancing ambition with openness to critique helps build resilience.

Is There a Right Way to Give and Receive Feedback? 
Feedback isn’t just about the content; it’s about the delivery. Erin highlights the importance of learning how to give feedback in a way that resonates, using techniques like the “compliment sandwich” to keep morale high. Shelby praises thoughtful feedback that’s constructive rather than critical, emphasizing the power of collaboration. By fostering a team environment where feedback feels like a partnership, it becomes less about judgment and more about mutual growth.

What If We Stopped Labeling Feedback as Positive or Negative? 
Erin introduces the concept of removing labels from feedback entirely, treating it as neutral data for growth. When we label feedback, we often let emotions dictate how we process it, which can hinder progress. Shelby adds that collaboration thrives when feedback is stripped of emotional labels, leading to better solutions and shared success. This subtle but impactful mental shift can make feedback feel like an empowering opportunity rather than a dreaded critique.

How Can Feedback Improve Team Dynamics? 
Shelby and Erin share personal stories about how feedback has shaped their growth. Shelby recalls her early days writing blog posts for Enrollify, initially overwhelmed by critique but eventually transforming her skills with practice and guidance. Erin talks about learning to delegate, a lesson in trust that helped her grow as a leader. Both agree that thoughtful feedback creates space for team members to shine and grow, strengthening team dynamics.

What’s the Key to Maintaining Confidence Amid Critique? 
Maintaining confidence in the face of tough feedback is a balancing act. Shelby stresses the importance of stepping back, reminding yourself that everyone—at all levels—receives feedback. Erin advises focusing on clarity by asking questions to ensure you truly understand the critique. By treating feedback as actionable advice rather than a judgment of worth, you can build resilience and confidence over time.

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