Dr Lucy Burns and Dr Mary Barson open up about why diets don’t work - and why being “perfectly thin” isn’t the goal. They share their own real-life struggles with weight and health, bust common myths from diet culture, and explain why being healthy on the inside matters far more than looking a certain way. You’ll also learn simple, science-backed strategies to break free from the all-or-nothing mindset, manage emotional eating, and stay on track with your health - without guilt, shame, or restriction.

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Join Dr Mary Barson and Dr Lucy Burns as they celebrate five years of podcasting and share what they've learned along the way. Discover why low-carb diets aren't the only answer, how diet culture has kept women trapped in guilt and shame, and why being thin doesn't equal being healthy. Learn about the surprising role that trauma plays in weight gain and why the old "eat less, move more" advice sets people up to fail. If you've been struggling with weight loss or trying to understand what really works for your health, this episode will help you see through the marketing hype and give you a more balanced, realistic approach to becoming healthy on the inside. Plus, hear why these two doctors changed their minds about so many things and why that's actually a good sign. 

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Dr Lucy Burns talks with money mindset expert Denise Duffield-Thomas about ADHD, perimenopause, and how women can change their relationship with money. Discover how ADHD often goes undiagnosed in women until perimenopause hits, why getting a diagnosis can be life-changing, and practical ways to stop self-sabotaging behaviours around money. Learn why women's work is often undervalued, how to break free from guilt about charging what you're worth, and why it's okay to use medication, technology, and help instead of trying to do everything the hard way. This conversation will help you recognise the stories holding you back and give you permission to stop making life harder than it needs to be.

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Dr Mary Barson and Dr Lucy Burns cut through the confusion around fasting, protein, and what really works for women. You'll learn how to balance intermittent fasting with your protein needs, why you shouldn't worry about hitting protein targets on fasting days but must prioritise them on eating days, and discover common fasting mistakes like going "too fast and furious" before your body is ready. The doctors explain how to build up your fasting practice gradually, what to drink during a fast, when fasting might not suit you (including during different phases of your menstrual cycle), and why more fasting isn't always better. If you've been told that women shouldn't fast or you're confused about how to make fasting work with your goals, this episode gives you practical, flexible strategies you can actually use. 

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Wondering how much protein you really need each day? In this episode, Dr Lucy Burns and Dr Mary Barson clear up the confusion around protein intake and explain why hitting your protein target matters for your health. You'll learn a simple rule of thumb for calculating your daily protein needs, discover why protein is essential for controlling hunger, managing blood sugar, and preventing muscle loss as you age. The doctors share practical tips for getting 30 grams of protein at each meal using everyday foods like eggs, meat, fish, and dairy, plus their honest take on whether protein powders are worth your money. If you're struggling to feel satisfied after meals or want to boost your metabolic health, this episode gives you straightforward, no-nonsense advice you can put into practice straight away. 

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This episode tackles a sneaky trap that keeps many people stuck in the dieting cycle: all-or-nothing perfectionism. Dr Mary Barson and Dr Lucy Burns explain why waiting for the perfect time to start or expecting yourself to be perfect is sabotaging your health goals. Listeners will learn how to break free from the mindset that says you're either doing it perfectly or you're a failure, discover why small slips don't have to derail your progress, and get practical tools for managing cravings and emotional eating without punishment or restriction. The doctors share their personal struggles with perfectionism and reveal how self-compassion and learning from mistakes—not perfection—are the real keys to lasting health changes.

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Dr Mary Barson and Dr Lucy Burns tackle the tricky "holiday mindset" that can sabotage health goals when people go away. Discover why having more time doesn't automatically mean eating better and learn practical strategies to enjoy holidays without throwing your health plans out the window. The doctors share real examples of intentional food choices whilst travelling, from pints of Guinness in Dublin to chocolate tart in Paris, showing how you can still have special moments without going completely off track. You'll gain simple tools like the "half-assing holidays" approach and protein-focused breakfast strategies that let you enjoy your break from cooking and meal prep whilst staying aligned with your goals. Perfect for anyone who struggles with the all-or-nothing mentality around food during holidays and wants to return home feeling refreshed rather than regretful.

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Dr Mary Barson and Dr Lucy Burns tackle the deep-rooted belief that you must "clean your plate" because children are starving elsewhere. Discover why this childhood message creates guilt, shame, and disconnects you from hunger signals, plus learn the powerful mantra "my body is not the bin". Get practical strategies like using smaller plates, saving leftovers for later, and changing "I can't eat that" to "I don't eat that" for better results. Understand how marketing tricks exploit your fear of missing out with "limited time" offers and seasonal treats that are actually available year-round. Break free from "last supper" eating by saying "not for the moment" instead of "never again", and discover why eating food just to get rid of it creates more problems than throwing it away. Leave with simple mindset shifts that help you eat to true hunger, reduce food guilt, and build lasting healthy habits without the mental battle. 

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Have you ever wondered why you make some choices? It feels like you sabotage all your good efforts.  Many people know what they need to do for long-lasting health and weight management, but implementing that knowledge can feel impossible. This is where the mind management comes in.  Dr Mary and Dr Lucy talk about how to handle difficult moments and big feelings without emotional eating. They explain what mindset really means-it’s not about being tough or disciplined, but about learning to manage your thoughts and feelings so you can make better choices for yourself. The doctors share real life stories, including times they felt let down, upset, or ashamed, and show how they dealt with those feelings in a useful way.

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Struggling to stick with healthy habits? In this episode, Dr Mary and Dr Lucy talk about real life barriers that get in the way of better health, from busy schedules to perfectionism and tiredness. Learn smart, simple ways to keep going, even when it feels tough. You’ll get practical tips for making changes that actually fit your life, plus easy ideas for food and movement. Listen in to find out how to stop waiting for the “perfect” time and just get started today. 

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