We're getting real about the struggles many couples face on Valentine's Day. I've been married for almost 25 years, so I know firsthand the challenges this holiday can bring, especially if your relationship is on shaky ground. I'm sharing five down-to-earth tips to help you navigate this tough time, from injecting some laughter into your day to confronting issues head-on and shaking things up a bit. So, join me as I dish out actionable advice & strategies to turn a tricky Valentine's Day into a memorable and meaningful one for you and your spouse/partner.

Timestamps (times are approximate): 

[5:00] How celebrating holidays like Valentine's Day creates connection 

[8:46] How humor helps lighten the load in marriage 

[11:32] Loving others who have supported your marriage 

[21:35] Shock your marriage by doing something new 

[24:05] How to love anyway 

 

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Join our Thrive Wives group coaching - launching Feb. 19th!

Episode 96: I'm Married and Bored to Death - Pt. 1

Episode 97: Quick Tips on Fixing Your Boring Marriage - Pt. 2

 

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What happens when suffering comes? Often, we feel that God is against us or that we’ve done something wrong. In this episode, we explore conventional perspectives on suffering from the principles in the Book of Job in the Bible and other relevant scriptures. Understanding the purpose behind suffering and how faith can be a guiding light in our darkest times will help us to endure the suffering seasons when they come. 

I offer a comforting prayer toward the end of the podcast for those facing suffering, acknowledging that God's plans are always good. We are taught the importance of trusting God even when the reasons for our pain remain unclear. As we surrender our will to God's will, we can find solace in the assurance that God is working all things together for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28).

 

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Find the story of Job in Job 1-42.

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Working on your marriage where your husband appears disinterested in investing effort can be a frustrating and disheartening experience. In this episode, my hubby, Shaun, and I discuss practical strategies to address this common concern among wives and how both spouses can work together to alleviate their marriage problems by putting in the necessary energy and effort. 

Before delving into solutions, it's crucial to understand the heart of the matter. Shaun suggests wives take a moment to reflect on when they first noticed the change in their husband's engagement. Identify potential triggers or stressors that might have contributed to his disinterest. This understanding will help wives to tailor their approach to rebuilding the connection.

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Episode 210: 5 Prayers to Pray for Your Husband

To Be a Man song by Dax featuring Darius Rucker 

 

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Most women crave the prayers of their husbands. Most Christian wives strongly desire their husbands to lead spiritually, but at the very least, as a husband, you can pray for your wife. Inspired by my previous episode where the wives were given five prayers to pray for their husbands, I am now highlighting the five essential prayers that husbands can pray for their wives. These prayers delve into the core aspects of a woman’s life—mind, purpose, emotions, body, and even the husband himself. Now, let’s uncover these simple yet powerful prayers that every husband can offer for their wives.

Get the full list and show notes at https://realrelationshiptalk.com/212. 

 

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Have you heard about our Thrive Wives Group Coaching?

Episode 210 - 5 Prayers to Pray Over Your Husband

 

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Married couples often find themselves in the midst of conversations with friends that touch upon intimate topics such as sex. Learn to have authentic not awkward conversations with the one you love. While sharing experiences and seeking advice from friends can be beneficial, it's crucial to navigate these discussions with sensitivity and respect. In this episode  Dan and Emily Purcell of the Get Your Marriage On! Podcast join me and my hubby, Shaun, as we explore the importance of setting boundaries in conversations about sex, a “no-churchy” Christian perspective on discussing intimate matters with friends, and the significance of openness and authenticity between spouses. 

The Sextimacy Challenge Invitation:

Dan shared about the genesis of the Intimately Us app, a tool designed to help couples intentionally build intimacy. Acknowledging the discomfort some couples feel when broaching these conversations, the app provides a platform for guided challenges, making it easier for couples to initiate discussions about their desires, needs, and preferences.

The Sextimacy Challenge— is an exciting opportunity for couples to focus on strengthening their relationships for 14 days. Couples can sync their apps, complete daily challenges, and earn points for a chance to win prizes, including a grand prize of airfare for two to anywhere in the country this Valentine’s, 2024!

Find the full show notes at https://realrelationshiptalk.com/211

Resources and Links

1. Join Our Thrive Wives Community!
2. Intimately Us App
3. Dan’s Podcast- Get Your Marriage On Podcast

 

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Prayer is essential to a healthy, Christian marriage. It fortifies the bond between husband and wife like nothing else. As a loving wife, lifting your husband up in prayer can be very impactful on his life and your marriage. Knowing what to pray for, however, can sometimes be challenging, especially if your husband doesn’t readily share his innermost thoughts and struggles.  In this episode we share five heartfelt prayers you can incorporate into your daily routine to cover your husband in God's grace and support him in various aspects of his life.

Get the full list and show notes at https://realrelationshiptalk.com/210. 

 

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Thrive Wives Group Coaching

 

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Marriage comes with its fair share of ups and downs. And finding a support system . . . a tribe, like Thrive Wives, is essential. I believe every wife needs a tribe. Mine is called Thrive Wives. In this episode, I talk about the profound impact of wife tribes – a network of supportive women who share their experiences, insights, and encouragement. We uncover the transformative power of wife tribes, including the importance of embracing vulnerability, breaking free from isolation, and fostering intentional connections for personal and relational growth.

Just like a healthy marriage, a cornerstone of any successful wife tribe is vulnerability. Opening up to others about our struggles can be intimidating. Fear of judgment or others’ expectations often leads many wives to keep their marriage problems hidden. In Thrive Wives, women are encouraged to embrace vulnerability and share their experiences within a trusted community. This not only brings solutions and healing but also forges beautiful, meaningful friendships.

Thrive Wives is accepting applications now. Learn more at https://danache.com/thrivewives. 

 

Get the full show notes at https://realrelationshiptalk.com/209.

Resources and Links Mentioned in this Episode

1. Thrive Wives Group
2. Conversation Starters Download

 

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In the healthiest of families, disagreements surface, and the church, as a spiritual family, is no exception. Join us in this edition of Faith Friday as we draw inspiration from the word of God to help us navigate the path toward healing church hurt.

Is It Church Hurt or Offense?

Church hurt involves intentional or unintentional actions that cause pain, such as abuse, slander, or betrayal within the church community. On the other hand, offense is a perceived insult, a feeling of being disregarded or left out.

Understanding this is important. Knowing the difference lays the foundation for the healing process. It helps individuals discern whether they actually need healing from hurt or if they need to learn how to live unoffendably. 

Learn how to confront situations, aim for restoration, healthily leave a church, and much more in this episode!

Get the full show notes at realrelationshiptalk.com/208.

 

Resources and Links Mentioned in this Episode

Speak Life Audio Affirmations

Other Episodes in this Church Series:

How to Find a Good Church

Do I Really Need to Go to Church?

 

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Getting your heart broken hurts like heck and they can be hard to heal from. Though heartbreaks are a painful part of the human experience, you can heal a broken heart and come out stronger and more resilient because of it. Whether it's the end of a romantic relationship, the loss of a loved one, or the shattering of a deep friendship, the emotional toll can be overwhelming.

As painful as it may be, heartbreak offers an opportunity for self-reflection and personal growth. When you don’t acknowledge what was done, you can’t heal from what was done.

However, just as the heart can break, it also has an incredible capacity to heal. In this episode, I share how to mend a broken heart with practical tips that may help expedite the healing process.

Resources and Links Mentioned in this Episode:

1. Episode 13:  The Power of Forgiveness
2. Episode 163: Beyond Mistakes: Modeling Responsibility & the Steps of Forgiveness 
3. Take the Partner Quiz Here
4. Join our Christian Marriages & Relationships Facebook Community
5. Good Grief: A Companion for Every Loss by Granger Westberg 

 

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Are you in search of a new church? Starting the process of finding the right church where you belong spiritually can be daunting. It's like discovering a home for your spirit, where you can contribute, grow, and connect. The local church not only shapes our sense of belonging but also our sense of believing. In this episode, we'll look into four practical questions to ask when looking for a new church. These questions are aligned with biblical teachings that can help with finding the right church for you.

Finding a good church is not just about preferences; it's about fostering a deep sense of belonging. The call to active participation, denominational freedom, and reliance on divine wisdom will empower you to discover not just a congregation but a spiritual home where you truly belong.

 

Links and Resources Mentioned in this Episode:

Download your Speak Life Audio Affirmations

Listen to Episode 158: The Body of Christ in Motion

Listen to Episode 204: Do I Really Need to Go to Church?

 

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