A raw and honest unpacking of what “deconstruction” really is—and isn’t—in today's church. Mike Erre and Tim Stafford take time to explore the complexities behind this often-used and often-misunderstood buzzword. Drawing from philosophy, theology, psychology, and their personal experiences, they break down the six distinct processes many people go through under the umbrella of deconstruction—ranging from doubt and disillusionment to discipleship and deconversion. This thoughtful and pastoral conversation serves as both a reflection and a guide for those navigating questions about their faith, the church, and the culture they grew up in.

This Exile Series episode aims to reorient our understanding of spiritual unraveling—not as a rebellion against God, but as a potentially vital movement toward deeper faithfulness to Jesus.

Key Takeaways: • Understanding Six D's of Deconstruction – Disillusionment, Discipleship, Deconversion, Redefinition, Doubt, and Disorientation—and why not all are harmful. • What’s Being Deconstructed? – The critical distinction between dismantling American evangelical subculture vs. historic Orthodox Christianity. • Pastoral Engagement – Why labeling someone’s faith shift as “sexy deconstruction” misses the heart of the issue and causes more harm than healing. • New Metaphors for Faith – From national parks to marriage, creative imagery helps reframe how we live into the reality of the Kingdom of God. • The Role of the Church – How communities can provide presence, permission, and patience as people redefine their relationship with faith.

Resources Mentioned: • Walter Brueggemann's Typology of the Psalms – Orientation, Disorientation, and Reorientation • Paul Ricoeur – Philosophical roots of deconstruction • Tim Gombis – Alternative metaphors for deconstruction (national parks, identity) • Sermon on the Mount & Lord’s Prayer – as spiritual “handholds” • Jude 1:22 – “Be merciful to those who doubt”

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