If success as a mom isn’t about perfect grades, college acceptances, or constant hugs and thank-yous, then what is it really about?

In this episode, I dig deep into the emotional and mindset shift so many of us face as we move through parenting teens and into the empty nest years. I share personal stories—of gummy baby smiles, late-night curfews, and running out of gas—as I reflect on the expectations I’ve held for my kids and myself.

We talk about:

Why your vision of success as a mom might be outdated or unrealistic

How letting go of control (and guilt) opens the door to connection

The difference between authority and control—and why that matters now more than ever

What corporate strategy can teach us about setting realistic goals and shifting mindset as moms

Whether you're feeling anxious, overthinking your parenting decisions, or just wondering if you're doing enough, this episode will help you uncover your true parenting values—and give you the freedom to rewrite what success looks like in this messy, beautiful season of motherhood.

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This empowering podcast offers life coaching for moms and parenting support for midlife mothers raising teens as they approach the empty nest, teaching them how to let go of control, stop overthinking, and shift their mindset, while also helping them set boundaries, improve communication, reduce anxiety, release mom guilt, and find purpose in the evolving journey of parenting teens and motherhood.