We share why we chose to wait until marriage before having sex, the challenges we faced, and how it shaped our love and faith journey.In this episode of Smith’s On Demand, we open up about one of the biggest decisions in our relationship: waiting for marriage before having sex.

We get real about the spiritual convictions, personal growth, and faith journey that led Dre to make this commitment, and how we navigated living together in a tiny studio apartment while keeping boundaries in place.We also share the ups and downs of facing judgment from friends, family, and even church communities, plus how our engagement and wedding plans were impacted by the pandemic.

Finally, we reflect on what waiting taught us, the pros and cons of our choice, and how our marriage and channel have grown since.

CHAPTERS:
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:13 Why We Waited for Marriage
00:41 Dre's Perspective on Waiting
03:46 Brie's Perspective on Waiting
06:35 Moving in Together
07:36 Setting Boundaries
16:47 Judgment from Family and Friends
20:43 Family Dynamics and First Impressions
21:19 Facing Judgment and Public Scrutiny
24:19 Engagement and Proposal Story
27:07 Wedding Planning and Pandemic Challenges
31:35 Pros and Cons of Waiting for Marriage
42:28 Current Life and Future Plans
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In this episode of Smith's On Demand, we break down five key things godly women should never compromise when choosing a partner. From shared faith to respect, effort, vision, and a relationship that brings you closer to God, we explore biblical wisdom and real-life experiences to help you make wise choices in love. If you’ve ever wondered what standards matter most when it comes to finding a God-centered relationship, this conversation is for you.

CHAPTERS:
00:00 Introduction to Couch Conversations
00:19 Five Things Godly Women Should Never Settle For
00:48 1. A Man Who Doesn't Share Your Faith in Action
02:42 2. Disrespect of Any Kind
04:18 3. Inconsistent Effort and Communication
06:02 4. A Lack of Vision or Purpose
09:09 5. A Relationship That Pulls You Away from God
10:36 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
11:19 Conclusion and Call to Action

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In this episode of Smith's on Demand, we break down the 10 major red flags that reveal when your partner may not be the right long-term fit. From elusive commitment to love bombing and controlling behavior, we highlight the subtle and not-so-subtle signs of a toxic relationship. These insights will help you identify unhealthy patterns early so you can make better decisions in your love life. Whether you’re dating now or preparing for the future, this conversation is packed with wisdom to protect your heart and your peace. Make sure to also check out our related episode on how to know if you’re dating your future spouse!

CHAPTERS:
00:00 Introduction to Toxic Relationships
00:33 Sign 1: Elusive Commitment
02:54 Sign 2: Draining Time Together
04:34 Sign 3: Keeping Score and Resurfacing Issues
05:44 Sign 4: Toxic Communication
08:07 Sign 5: Walking on Eggshells
10:42 Sign 6: Controlling, Jealous, or Manipulative Behavior
12:47 Sign 7: Emotional Rollercoaster
14:05 Sign 8: Being Kept Hidden
15:23 Sign 9: Love Bombing
16:37 Sign 10: Avoiding Future Conversations
17:56 Conclusion and Next Steps

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In this episode of Couch Conversations, we break down the key signs that let you know you might already be with your future husband or wife. From our own story of meeting, moving in together, and even starting a business within our first year, we share how to spot the traits that point toward a lifelong partnership.

We cover everything from trust and accountability to shared values and enjoying each other’s company. If you’ve ever wondered, “Is this the one?” — this conversation is for you.

CHAPTERS: 
00:00 Introduction to Couch Conversations
00:11 Our Relationship Journey
00:48 Sign 1: No Games in Commitment
03:18 Sign 2: Attracted to the Essence
05:28 Sign 3: Accountability and Solutions
07:50 Sign 4: Speaking as a Team
10:20 Sign 5: Enjoying Each Other's Company
11:05 Sign 6: Complete Trust
13:24 Sign 7: Aligning Values and Goals
18:46 Conclusion 

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Navigating Challenges: How We Supported Each Other Through Two Miscarriages and First Trimester Struggles

In this episode of Smiths On Demand, we open up about our journey through two miscarriages and the lessons we've learned about supporting each other during the first trimester. We discuss the importance of communication, setting expectations, and creating a strategic plan for navigating pregnancy. We provide actionable tips for both partners and emphasize the significance of preparing for both emotional and physical changes.

This episode is a candid conversation aimed at helping other couples facing similar struggles feel less alone and more prepared for their journey.

Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:18 Coping with Miscarriages
01:04 Communication Strategies
03:09 Setting Expectations
06:20 Emotional Challenges
12:14 Research and Understanding
20:38 Seeking Professional Help
23:55 Personal Impact of Therapy
24:19 The Importance of External Support
24:59 Focusing on What You Know to Be True
29:09 The Parable of the Blind Men and the Elephant
33:07 Navigating Emotional Rollercoasters
40:10 The Mountain and Hill Analogy
46:06 Practical Tips for Coping
49:06 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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Dre & Bre Smith — Couch Conversations. In this deeply personal episode, we open up about our second miscarriage experience — from the emotional rollercoaster to the physical pain and everything in between. We share what it was like going through a D&C surgery, how this loss felt different than the first, and the ways we’ve leaned on each other to heal and grow.

We also talk about:

• How we’re coping as a couple
• Dre’s perspective as a husband during this process
• The importance of gratitude and faith
• What we’ve learned, what we’re still processing, and what we hope for the future

Whether you’ve experienced miscarriage or love someone who has, our hope is that this conversation reminds you that you’re not alone. Thank you for holding space with us. 💛

Chapters: 
00:00 Our Journey Begins: Trying for Baby Number One
00:19 A New Look: Before and After of Our Videos
00:47 Miscarriage Experience: The Emotional Rollercoaster
02:29 The D&C Surgery: A Tough Recovery
05:59 Coping Mechanisms: Finding Gratitude and Hope
09:28 Dre's Perspective: Supporting Your Partner
16:15 Seeking Answers: Medical Insights and Next Steps
22:12 Healing Together: Quality Time and Future Plans
30:50 Looking Ahead: Our Plan for the Future
32:31 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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Dre & Bre dive into how fitness has impacted our relationship and why working out together can bring couples closer. From building trust and improving communication to boosting your mood and staying healthy for the long haul, fitness isn’t just about looking good—it’s about feeling good as a team. We also share our personal fitness journey, including Dre’s football background and Bre’s cheerleading experience, plus practical tips on:

✅ How to eat for better health
✅ How to work out effectively as a couple
✅ How to stay consistent and build a system that works for YOU

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In this deeply personal episode, we share our experience with pregnancy and miscarriage, hoping to offer support and a sense of community to anyone who has gone through something similar. From the excitement of starting our journey and finding out we were pregnant, to the heartbreak of learning there was no heartbeat during our first appointment, we open up about the emotional challenges we faced, the decisions we made, and how we’re healing. We reflect on why we waited to start a family, the lessons we’ve learned, and our hopes for the future. Thank you for listening to our story—if you’re navigating a similar experience, know that you’re not alone, and we’re sending you love and strength. Together, we can move forward with hope for brighter days ahead.

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Making the decision to close our business was one of the hardest choices we’ve ever had to make, but it also became one of the most transformative. In this video, we share the emotional and practical journey behind shutting down our business and trusting each other to lead the way for our future.

From the fears and doubts to the lessons learned about partnership, faith, and love, this story is about more than just business—it’s about the power of trusting your partner and embracing a new chapter together.

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Navigating the topic of waiting until marriage while dating can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be! In this video, we share practical tips and strategies to help you approach this sensitive conversation with confidence and intentionality. Whether you’re dating someone new or deepening an existing relationship, learn how to communicate your values and set the foundation for a healthy, open dialogue.

💬 In This Video, You’ll Discover:
• How to confidently introduce the topic of waiting until marriage. 
• Tips for creating a safe and respectful environment for discussion.
• Ways to align your values with your relationship goals. This conversation is about more than just setting boundaries—it’s about building trust, understanding, and mutual respect. Watch now to feel empowered to navigate love and abstinence with grace! 

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