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Our culture over the years has changed dramatically. The number of people willing to participate in an affair continues to grow. More men and women are willing to participate in unfaithfulness because the thought is, "This makes us both happy. And even though I know that you're married to someone else, this was meant to be because it makes us feel good at the moment." And when you live in a culture where it's acceptable to be unfaithful to your spouse, the temptation to do so becomes much, much stronger. 

Not every single person is like that. But some single people feel so lonely and abandoned that if someone came along, that appears to fulfill their needs, they will choose to engage, even if it isn't healthy to do so. Marriage doesn't solve this problem. Even if a person is married, they might believe at the moment, "This person is just right for me." So it becomes irrelevant that either person is married. And, if the spouse involved in this wants to be involved, they're likely to lie. 

In this episode, we cover: 

• The three different types of affairs 
• What limerence is and how long it lasts
• Why do some people have affairs 
• Free Resources to save your marriage 

At Marriage Helper, we believe in helping marriages last a lifetime. Let's face it: nothing is perfect, especially not marriage. Unfortunately, 1 out of 3 marriages fails because couples wait an average of six years before seeking marriage help. We have helped save thousands of marriages, and we believe that if anything works, this will.

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We exercise compassion and understanding to all couples and individuals we meet. We know no one is perfect, and people make mistakes. The best thing you can do is become better for yourself and the people who care. 

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It never feels good to suspect your spouse is cheating on you. Cheating is a form of betrayal to your marriage and your family life. It's such a severe accusation it could disrupt the trust and foundation of your marriage, so it's essential to be 100% sure before you start raising suspicions toward your spouse. If you believe your spouse is cheating on you, pay attention to the signs before you start snooping around their things. There are signs and ways to expose infidelity without incriminating yourself to turn everything around on you. Cheating is frightening and frustrating, but if you pay attention to the changes in your relationship, it may help you determine where your marriage stands. 

In this video, we cover:

-The roadmaps to cheating

-Gaslighting

-The missing signs

-Reasons for cheating

-Behavior changes to watch out for 

-Hard conversations

-Free resources to save your marriage 

Cheating is never okay, but there may be a deeper issue involved. At Marriage Helper, we have a strong support system of coaches, ebooks, workshops, and free resources like our mini-course to point out signs and offer advice in a broken or troubled marriage. 

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Learning that your spouse had an affair is an earth-shattering feeling. It leaves open-ended questions like, "where did we go wrong?" Or "What could I have done differently?" Infidelity happens for numerous reasons, and we all play a part in our marriages. Sometimes cheating happens because of internal traumas, resentment, fading feelings, and more. There's no way to go back in time and figure out what went wrong, so forget about trying to change the past. 

Reflection is essential, but dwelling on your spouse's actions worsens the feeling and leads you down a rabbit hole. If your marriage feels torn apart by an affair, there are ways to heal and even better ways to forgive your spouse for the pain they've caused. We believe that forgiveness is a process, so even if you don't feel ready yet to forgive your spouse, we offer advice on slowly climbing the stairway to reconciliation and ultimately making your marriage stronger than before. 

In this episode, we cover: 

-How to forgive a cheater

-Vengeance Vs. Justice 

-The three steps to Decision-Based Forgiveness

-Expressing empathy 

-Learning to move past the hurt 

-The reconciliation process

-What to do if your spouse doesn't understand your pain

-Free resources to help you heal your marriage

An Affair can make or break your relationship. It takes two people to mend a marriage and a lot of effort to rebuild trust. If you desire to work things out with your partner and fall back in love again, the Marriage Helper team is here to support you. 

Good people make bad decisions, and despite what our friends and family tell us, cheating isn't always black and white. We have worked with couples on the verge of divorce and ones who came back to each other after years of being apart. Our methods work, and we want to share our experiences with you. From our coaches to how-to articles, workshops, and more, we believe if anything works, this will. 

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If you have divorced your spouse or want to file for divorce, watch this video today. Going through a divorce is hard, but it doesn’t have to be the end of your marriage. Couples separate mainly because one person no longer feels liked, loved, or respected in their relationship. We are here to help you figure out where your marriage went wrong and how you can win your spouse back. Divorce is common due to infidelity, losing interest, or lack of communication with your spouse. We offer insight into why you feel this way, the part you played in your marriage, and ways to minimize the actions that hurt your relationship. 

In this episode, we discuss:

-Steps to Better Your Relationship

-Behaviors that lead to divorce

-How to avoid pushing your spouse further away from you 

-Using consistency to win your spouse back

-Actions you should avoid to save your marriage

-How to become more attractive for your spouse and yourself 

-Free resources to help you save your marriage

At Marriage Helper, we believe in the light at the end of the tunnel. If you feel like you’re in this alone. We got you. We have worked with thousands of couples just like you. Couples ready to divorce, those who fell out of love, and even teams left their spouses years ago. Hope is always there if you are prepared to accept it. We have the tools to help you succeed and find the happiness you deserve. From our coaches to how-to articles, workshops, and more, we believe if anything works, this will. 

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Should you walk away if your spouse cheated on you? We have the answers here for you in this video. We understand the hurt and frustration you’re feeling right now, and no matter how hard you try, you can’t seem to forgive your spouse for hurting you. At Marriage Helper, we are pro-marriage and believe that long-term marriage is worth it, yet, everyone has their breaking points. Some circumstances call for one person to walk away from the marriage forever, and today we break down the key factors. This episode will help you decide when you should walk away if you’ve caught your spouse in an affair. 

In this episode, we cover: 

-Questions to ask yourself before making your decision

-Conditions where you should walk away from your marriage

-The 10,10,10 rule

-How to avoid making impulsive decisions 

-Ways to boost your mental health 

-Resources if you wish to save your marriage

When it comes to marriage, every situation is different. Some are more complex than others, but our experts will guide you .based on scientific-based principles and foundational research relating to all couples no matter the issue. 

We are here to help you heal and find the happiness you deserve.

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The worst thing about losing your marriage is also losing yourself. Sometimes we've been married for so long that we lose a sense of identity and don't know who we are without our spouse. Today we interview Amanda, a member of our Marriage Helper Community that went through a six-year-long battle with her husband. 

They were on the edge of divorce, they stopped communicating with each other, and over time things just went from bad to worse. Amanda tells us how she stopped focusing on her marriage and instead concentrated on herself. Through her self-reflective efforts to prioritize her happiness and figure herself out, she became a better person not only for her but for her husband, her children, and her future relationships with friends and family. 

In the fight for your marriage, you are never alone. There are people just like you who want to stand for their marriage and fight for the one they love.

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Can You Repair A Marriage After Your Spouse Had An Affair?

The answer to this burning question is yes. You can repair a marriage after an affair for a lasting and even stronger relationship than when you were dating.

According to research at Marriage Helper, 2 out of 3 couples seek marriage counseling services due to their spouse having an affair, teetering on the edge of divorce, or their final attempt to salvage their relationship. If your spouse cheated on you with someone else, you might feel hurt, betrayed, untrusting, suspicious, and maybe even shocked that your marriage has led to this point. If you're asking yourself the question, can you repair a marriage after an affair? We have the answers. In today's article, we uncover reasons for an experience, understand what people or things might draw your spouse away from your marriage, and ways of understanding and rebuilding trust. 

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How can you make your marriage better and stronger?

Research shows that 33% of married couples want to seek help for their relationship. However, Gottman's research shows that couples wait an average of six years after problems begin to occur in their marriage before they get help. One of the biggest reasons people want out of a relationship is that they feel disrespected. The way you communicate with your spouse, the tone, the facial expressions, and the volume demonstrates the respect you have.

Dr. Beam says if you're going to work on anything, work on communication in a way that the other person will most likely hear; that you do communicate respectfully, that you do love them, that you don't like them, and then it'll go a whole lot better if you can do that.

Listen to It Starts With Attraction episode with Dr. John Gottman here.

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It's a fact. Not every marriage is going to make it. However, we wish every marriage would because we are very pro-marriage.

In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes provide points about when it may be the right time to divorce and when it's not the right time. Divorce isn't a decision to take lightly. On the contrary, it's a weighty decision that you don't want to make when other people are persuading you, who are saying things to you like:

"You'd be better off alone."
" Why don't you just go on and divorce."
 "It sounds like this can't ever work."
 "I think you just need to go ahead and file the papers."

Those are people who are probably very well-meaning but should not and do not get to make that decision for you. It is your life. It is your decision, and you should be the one who makes it because you are the one who has to deal with the outcome.  It is your decision.  This episode will give you great insight and get you to think about some things before making a decision too rashly that you may end up regretting later.

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In this episode, Gemma from the Marriage Helper leadership team has a conversation with  Stephen and he shares his brave testimonial about having multiple affairs and still wanting to save his marriage.

This testimonial is about betrayal, heartbreak, self-improvement, and hope.  You'll hear Stephen's truth over the years, where he is at today, and the tools he has used to help move forward.

If you have had an affair or maybe your spouse did, please see the list of resources below and reach out to us.


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Affair Toolkit - For Help In Deciding To End An Affair
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