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Episode #1089
We're revisiting this conversation because it keeps coming up. A lot of men struggle with how to ask for what they want in their relationship without feeling weak or sounding needy. The truth is, it's not about the words you use. It's about how you show up when you say them.
In this episode, Doug and Chris break down why hesitation kills trust, how your energy shifts the way your wife hears you, and what to do when you're afraid of her reaction. They walk through a simple way to speak clearly, ask directly, and stay grounded even if she pushes back.
You'll also hear what most men get wrong when they try to "get it right," and how to stop putting pressure on her to fix what you haven't owned yet.
If you've been biting your tongue, playing it safe, or hoping she'll read your mind, this is your reminder to lead the conversation.
Want a real plan to start shifting your marriage? Get the free training How to Fix Your Marriage Without Talking About It at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales and learn the first steps to lead with calm, clear action.
By Tim Matthews & Doug Holt4.9
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Episode #1089
We're revisiting this conversation because it keeps coming up. A lot of men struggle with how to ask for what they want in their relationship without feeling weak or sounding needy. The truth is, it's not about the words you use. It's about how you show up when you say them.
In this episode, Doug and Chris break down why hesitation kills trust, how your energy shifts the way your wife hears you, and what to do when you're afraid of her reaction. They walk through a simple way to speak clearly, ask directly, and stay grounded even if she pushes back.
You'll also hear what most men get wrong when they try to "get it right," and how to stop putting pressure on her to fix what you haven't owned yet.
If you've been biting your tongue, playing it safe, or hoping she'll read your mind, this is your reminder to lead the conversation.
Want a real plan to start shifting your marriage? Get the free training How to Fix Your Marriage Without Talking About It at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales and learn the first steps to lead with calm, clear action.

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