The First Draft Club

S09 E08 Thoughts on Long-Term Goals, Fatigue, and Mindset


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How do you motivate yourself to work toward big, overwhelming goals when gratification feels impossibly far away? In this episode, Mary shares her summer reality check: facing an entire house to organize, French lessons to restart, and a secret new watercolor hobby—all while running a business and raising a kid.

Drawing from her experience writing five books, Mary reveals the counter-intuitive secret to achieving long-term goals. She shares how she went from writing zero short stories to publishing her first novel, why she's skipping watercolor exercises to paint portraits, and what her French tutor taught her about the futility of "homework."

If you've ever felt overwhelmed by the sheer scope of your writing goals, this episode offers a refreshing perspective on how to stay motivated when the finish line is nowhere in sight.

🎧 What you’ll learn:

✅ Why willpower alone isn't enough for long-term goals

✅ The mindset shift that makes big projects sustainable
✅ How to find motivation when gratification is months away
✅ Why skipping the "basics" might be exactly what you need
✅ How to let your mood guide your writing choices
✅ The overlap between "hard" and "fun" in creative work
✅ Real strategies for staying excited about your writing process

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