Richard was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2015, and Stuart was diagnosed in 2005 and now lives with secondary breast cancer.

They are both involved with the Men’s VMU, an online group aimed at supporting men with a breast cancer diagnosis, promoting research into breast cancer in men, and raising awareness of the signs and symptoms.

Only around 400 men are diagnosed with breast cancer in the UK each year.

Richard and Stuart talk about how their diagnoses took them by surprise, and share their work in the Men’s VMU trying to get the message to as many people as possible.

Find out more about the Men's VMU.

Find out more about Breast Cancer Now's support service Someone Like Me.

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Key Topics:

2:15 Richard's breast cancer diagnosis

5:38 Stuart's breast cancer diagnosis

7:56 Campaigning to receive Herceptin as a man

13:13 Stuart's secondary breast cancer diagnosis

15:51 Looking out for the signs and symptoms of secondary breast cancer

16:32 Living with secondary breast cancer

20:32 The Men's VMU – support for men with breast cancer

24:22 The use of tamoxifen in men

27:58 The "pinkness" and femininity of breast cancer

31:44 The erosion of male identity after a breast cancer diagnosis

36:10 How the Men's VMU encourages talking about difficult topics

37:11 Find out more about the Men's VMU

37:49 Someone Like Me service from Breast Cancer Now

39:01 The accessibility of resources and support to men with breast cancer

43:51 The importance of family support

45:39 Richard and Stuart's tips for a man just diagnosed

46:39 Getting involved with fundraising and awareness events

47:57 What it means to Richard and Stuart to live well

51:01 How to get in touch with the Men's VMU