In this powerful and deeply moving kōrero, we sit down with Matua Phil Paikea, a true example of a changed man. Raised around violence and once walking that same path himself, it was a wairua encounter and the unwavering love of his wife that shifted everything.

Now, matua Phil has devoted his life to supporting tāne reintegrating from prison back into society through his kaupapa Safe Man, Safe Families. He shares practical wisdom and spiritual insight, helping men understand the difference between knowledge, comprehension, and wisdom.

We dive into:

✨ Phil’s upbringing and walk through violence

✨ The moment that sparked change

✨ The role of his wife and wairua in his healing

✨ Nuggets of wisdom for tāne on the journey of change

✨ A raw and powerful story of healing through consent and intimacy

This is one of my favourite episodes, not just because of the depth of Phil’s journey, but because of the hope and healing it offers to others.

BIG mihi to Phil, his whānau and to Hui Tāne for making thi spossible.

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