Jana lived like “Old School” in college. Brian might submit to be on a reality dating TV show. Our guest Minnie Goode was fired from El Torito in college. Our advice of the week tells us: we should be dating like they do on Netflix’s “Love on the Spectrum.” Our caller asks: She’s looking for a relationship and doesn’t want a situationship. Does she stick to her guns and wait for a relationship? Or does she settle and just get in a situationship like everyone else?

Hosts: Jana Schmieding (@janaunplgd) and Brian Bahe (@brian_bahe)

Guest: Minnie Goode (@therapywithminnie), M.A., AMFT, APCC, CIRT, (she/her), Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist #139743, Registered Associate Professional Clinical Counselor #13920, Supervised by Kellum Lewis, MFT CA lic. #42989, [email protected]

Music: Steve Jenkins (@stevejenkins)

Producer: John Delviscio (@johndelviscio)

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Jana doesn’t want to live with or near sheep again. Brian wants to be talked into it by a drunk guy at a hostel. Our advice of the week tells us (drunkenly): you have to yolo when you’re traveling. Our caller asks: How can he, a Native person, help his wife, a non Native, laugh at Native comedy because she seems too uncomfortable to laugh?

Hosts: Jana Schmieding (@janaunplgd) and Brian Bahe (@brian_bahe)

Music: Steve Jenkins (@stevejenkins)

Producer: John Delviscio (@johndelviscio)

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Jana thinks Native people have a hard time getting abs. Brian does not have abs. Our guest River Butcher met Sleater-Kinney at the Women’s March. Our advice of the week tells us: just because I don’t require much doesn’t mean I deserve the bare minimum. Our caller asks: How, as a trans man, to start dating for the first time?

Hosts: Jana Schmieding (@janaunplgd) and Brian Bahe (@brian_bahe)

Guest: River Butcher (@rivbutcher)

Music: Steve Jenkins (@stevejenkins)

Producer: John Delviscio (@johndelviscio)

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Jana did not feel seen by the show “Girls”. Brian will often run away from community. Our guest Cigi Farmer fell through her mom’s attic. Our advice of the week tells us: being in community with others can be annoying sometimes but it’s the price you pay for community. Our caller asks: How often are you supposed to clean your toilet?

Hosts: Jana Schmieding (@janaunplgd) and Brian Bahe (@brian_bahe)

Guest: Cigi Farmer (@cigi_farmer)

Music: Steve Jenkins (@stevejenkins)

Producer: John Delviscio (@johndelviscio)

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Jana’s credit card got stolen. Brian is done with his tour and happy to be home. Our guest Kaniehtiio Horn (Seeds, Reservation Dogs, Letterkenny) went through a harrowing tale about the pull out method. Our advice of the week tells us how to naturally make breasts larger. Our caller asks: How does a non-Native mom and wife navigate living on a reservation and integrate into the community?

Hosts: Jana Schmieding (@janaunplgd) and Brian Bahe (@brian_bahe)

Guest: Kaniehtiio Horn (@kaniehtiio)

Music: Steve Jenkins (@stevejenkins)

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Jana is in Canada filming a movie. Brian went on a tantric massage retreat. Our advice of the week is a British person recounting Kim Kardashian saying we should “get up off your ass and work.” Our caller gives an update: They had a crush on their neighbor but they were in a relationship. That relationship ended under wild circumstances. They want to know how to deal with being a hopeless romantic?

Hosts: Jana Schmieding (@janaunplgd) and Brian Bahe (@brian_bahe)

Music: Steve Jenkins (@stevejenkins)

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Brian might have ADHD. Jana does not. Emily argues that every comedian suffers from ADHD. Our advice of the week comes from an elderly white who assumes the one choice people have to make in life is between Harvard or Yale. A caller asks how to get the most out of their pop. Another caller needs help managing her frizzy fly-aways.  

Hosts: Jana Schmieding (@janaunplgd) and Brian Bahe (@brian_bahe)

Guest: Emily Heller (@mremilyheller)

Music: Steve Jenkins (@stevejenkins)

Producer: John Delviscio (@johndelviscio)

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Jana did what could be considered identity theft. Brian needs to get in more faces and start engaging in more conflict. Our advice of the week comes from a white woman walking down the street who says: people talk about you because they lost the privilege to talk to you. A millennial caller asks: How to deal with her mom who will say that she is being disrespectful if the caller disagrees with her?

Hosts: Jana Schmieding (@janaunplgd) and Brian Bahe (@brian_bahe)

Music: Steve Jenkins (@stevejenkins)

Producer: John Delviscio (@johndelviscio)

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Jana needs guys to start wiping after going number one (bathroom). Brian is loving being single at the moment. Our guest Emma (founder of Los Angeles Chapter House) forgot to do something for her husband on Valentine’s Day. Our advice of the week comes from a dominatrix who says that the less you do for a man, the more he does for you. A caller asks: How does she stop taking care of her parents and prioritize taking care of herself. Another asks: How to deal with “pretendians.”

Hosts: Jana Schmieding (@janaunplgd) and Brian Bahe (@brian_bahe)

Guest: Emma Robbins (@emmarobbinz)

Music: Steve Jenkins (@stevejenkins)

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Jana made a TikTok while using the bathroom. Brian is into Mystery from VH1’s The Pick Up Artist. Our advice of the week tells us to use charisma in conversation to elicit dopamine. A caller asks: How to make friends in college, settle in, and what we’d say to ourselves when we were in college.

Hosts: Jana Schmieding (@janaunplgd) and Brian Bahe (@brian_bahe)

Music: Steve Jenkins (@stevejenkins)

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