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  • 6 Steps to Navigate Major Life Changes with Less Pain | Leann Rose Crook

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    Stories, Sourcing & Styling at Château de Brives:

    Join Wendy Harrop and Sarah & George Haslett for an intimate French antique experience at Château de Brives, November 17–23, 2026. Spend six nights at the château, source alongside the experts at local brocantes and Bordeaux’s renowned Quinconces Antique Show, cook and gather around the table, and experience France through the lens of the collector. Limited to just six guests.

    → Learn more and reserve your place: wendy-harrop.com/experiences-cart/p/antique-experience-france

    A French Christmas with Chef Eric Duvin:

    Join Wendy Harrop and Chef Eric Duvin for an intimate French Christmas culinary experience, December 4–11, 2026. Cook alongside Chef Eric at The Walnut Grove Cookery School, explore Brittany at Christmastime, and enjoy three fabulous nights in Paris filled with incredible meals and chef-led culinary experiences. Limited to just six guests.

    → Learn more and reserve your place: thewalnutgrove.fr/christmas-in-france-experience

    When life changes, our first instinct is often to do something, but Leann Rose Crook says making the bold move is step four, not step one. Drawing from the eight years it took her to regain stability after her first husband left, Leann shares the six-step process she developed to help women move through major transitions with greater clarity and less pain. She and Wendy explore what it means to identify the true shift taking place, own your story, stand in your strength, and intentionally build the routines of your new life. This conversation offers a grounded approach to moving forward without rushing past the inner work that makes lasting change possible.

    In this episode, they discuss:

    • The six steps Leann uses to help women navigate major life changes
    • Why making the bold move is step four, not the place to begin
    • How journaling, creativity, and other physical practices can move an experience out of your head and help you understand what is happening within you

    Major changes may be difficult, but we don’t have to move through them unconsciously. This conversation is an invitation to slow down, identify the real shift taking place, and build your next chapter with greater intention.

    Connect with Leann:

    LangoLiving.com

    Instagram: instagram.com/lango_living

    Facebook: facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578865221642

    YouTube: youtube.com/@LangoLiving

    Referenced in this Episode:

    The Guided Gap Year with Wendy: wendy-harrop.com/experiences-cart/p/12-month-mentorship

    A Course in Miracles:

    • https://apps.apple.com/us/app/acim-remind/id737568020
    • https://www.amazon.com/Course-Miracles-Combined-Quality/dp/1883360242?tag=syty-20
    • marianne.com/acim/

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    Connect with Wendy:

    Linkedin
    Instagram: @wendy.harrop
    Facebook: Phineas Wright House

    Website: Phineas Wright House
    PWH Farm Stays
    PWH Curated Experience and Travel

    Interested in being a guest on the show?
    Send your pitch to [email protected]

    Podcast Production By Shannon Warner of Resonant Collective
    Want to start your own podcast?
    Let's chat!

    If this episode resonated, follow Say YES to Yourself! and leave a  5-star review. It helps more women in midlife discover the tools, stories, and community that make saying YES not only possible, but powerful.

    37 min
  • Breaking Generational Cycles and Reclaiming Self-Trust | Chanchal Garg

    Fan Mail: Tell Wendy how you're saying yes to yourself!

    Stories, Sourcing & Styling at Château de Brives:

    Join Wendy Harrop and Sarah & George Haslett for an intimate French antique experience at Château de Brives, November 17–23, 2026. Spend six nights at the château, source alongside the experts at local brocantes and Bordeaux’s renowned Quinconces Antique Show, cook and gather around the table, and experience France through the lens of the collector. Limited to just six guests.

    → Learn more and reserve your place: wendy-harrop.com/experiences-cart/p/antique-experience-france

    A French Christmas with Chef Eric Duvin:

    Join Wendy Harrop and Chef Eric Duvin for an intimate French Christmas culinary experience, December 4–11, 2026. Cook alongside Chef Eric at The Walnut Grove Cookery School, explore Brittany at Christmastime, and enjoy three fabulous nights in Paris filled with incredible meals and chef-led culinary experiences. Limited to just six guests.

    → Learn more and reserve your place: thewalnutgrove.fr/christmas-in-france-experience

    What if the beliefs shaping your life were handed to you—and were never truly yours?

    In this episode, Wendy sits down with executive coach and author Chanchal Garg to explore self-trust, self-compassion, and what Chanchal calls “the inheritance of daughterhood.” Chanchal shares how writing her memoir about spiritual and sexual abuse became part of reclaiming her story, changing the narrative for her children, and showing up more unapologetically in her life and work. Together, they examine what it means to honor the past without allowing it to define who you are becoming.

    They explore:

    • Why a growth mindset without self-compassion can leave us feeling stuck
    • How to trust your growth instead of assuming you’ll repeat your past mistakes
    • What it means to interrupt inherited patterns while allowing yourself and your children to have different experiences

    If you’re questioning the stories you inherited or learning how to trust yourself after years of doubt, this conversation offers a compassionate reminder that your identity is not static, and you are allowed to keep growing into yourself.

    Connect with Chanchal:

    Get her book, Unearthed: The Lies We Carry & The Truths They Bury: amazon.com/Unearthed-Lies-Carry-Truths-They/dp/B0F8LLD48L?=syty-20

    ChanchalGarg.com

    LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/chanchalgarg22

    Referenced in this Episode:

    Florence Scovel Shin Your Word is Your Wand: amazon.com/dp/0875162592/?=syty029

    Episode 237: You Story Matters | Laura Patac: buzzsprout.com/1872382/episodes/17932465

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    Connect with Wendy:

    Linkedin
    Instagram: @wendy.harrop
    Facebook: Phineas Wright House

    Website: Phineas Wright House
    PWH Farm Stays
    PWH Curated Experience and Travel

    Interested in being a guest on the show?
    Send your pitch to [email protected]

    Podcast Production By Shannon Warner of Resonant Collective
    Want to start your own podcast?
    Let's chat!

    If this episode resonated, follow Say YES to Yourself! and leave a  5-star review. It helps more women in midlife discover the tools, stories, and community that make saying YES not only possible, but powerful.

    44 min
  • Why Leadership Alignment Comes Before Business Strategy | Tricia Stover

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    As we move into the final months of 2026, Wendy wants to hear from you: How are you choosing to finish this year, and what intentions are you setting for 2027?

    Send Wendy an email at [email protected] or DM her on Instagram and share what you’re calling in, leaving behind, or saying yes to next.

    What if the reason you feel stuck isn’t a lack of effort, but a lack of alignment?

    In this episode, Wendy sits down with leadership strategist Tricia Stover to explore the connection between personal alignment, radical ownership, and sustainable success. Tricia shares how losing her husband unexpectedly changed the trajectory of her life and eventually led her into finance, leadership development, and entrepreneurship. She also introduces the High Noon Operating System, a framework designed to help leaders and organizations understand where they are before deciding where to go next.

    They explore:

    • Why alignment must come before strategy, and how to recognize when you’re operating reactively
    • How pausing to assess where you are can prevent burnout and ultimately shorten the path forward
    • What a season of saying no taught Tricia about boundaries, values, and recognizing the right yes

    Whether you’re leading an organization, building a business, or navigating a transition in your personal life, this conversation offers a powerful reminder: you don’t have to force your way forward. Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is pause, reconnect with your why, and choose your next step from alignment.

    Connect with Tricia:

    LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tricia-stover-bfa

    performance-masters.com

    Referenced in this Episode:

    Saying YES to Living Life by Design with Gina DeVee: buzzsprout.com/1872382/episodes/15316784

    Gina DeVee's Book, The Audacity to Become Queen: amazon.com/Audacity-Be-Queen-Unapologetic-Manifesting/dp/0316458805?tag=syty-20

    A Course in Miracles:

    • https://apps.apple.com/us/app/acim-remind/id737568020
    • https://www.amazon.com/Course-Miracles-Combined-Quality/dp/1883360242?tag=syty-20
    • marianne.com/acim/

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    Connect with Wendy:

    Linkedin
    Instagram: @wendy.harrop
    Facebook: Phineas Wright House

    Website: Phineas Wright House
    PWH Farm Stays
    PWH Curated Experience and Travel

    Interested in being a guest on the show?
    Send your pitch to [email protected]

    Podcast Production By Shannon Warner of Resonant Collective
    Want to start your own podcast?
    Let's chat!

    If this episode resonated, follow Say YES to Yourself! and leave a  5-star review. It helps more women in midlife discover the tools, stories, and community that make saying YES not only possible, but powerful.

    56 min
  • How Radical Self-Love Helps You Rebuild Your Life | Romy Limenes

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    Ready to Say YES to What’s Next?

    • Space to Dream Global Workshops Join Wendy in cities around the world for an intimate workshop designed to help you create space, reconnect with what you want, and dream about what comes next.  wendy-harrop.com/experiences-cart/p/space-to-dream-global
    •  Space to Dream Solo Retreats at the Phineas Writh House Give yourself three uninterrupted days to rest, reflect, and reconnect with your vision during a private retreat that includes accommodations, meals, guided tools, and one-on-one coaching with Wendy.  phineaswrighthouse.com/the-shop/p/solo-retreat
    •  Coaching with Wendy Ready for personalized support as you navigate your next chapter? Explore ways to work one-on-one with Wendy. wendy-harrop.com/coaching


    What does radical self-love look like when it becomes something you practice, not just something you say?

    After experiencing divorce, assault, the loss of her nursing career and business, and a near-fatal accident involving her children, Romy Limenes found herself rebuilding nearly every part of her life. In this conversation, she shares how breathwork, movement, self-acceptance, and what she calls her “lifelines” helped her reclaim her voice and create a life that feels more authentically hers. Wendy and Romy also explore how small, intentional practices can help us meet ourselves in real time instead of waiting until we have the time or capacity for a complete reset.

    They explore:

    • How radical self-love becomes an intentional practice through self-talk, grace, and reparenting yourself
    • Why breathwork does not need to produce a dramatic emotional release to be meaningful
    • How Romy began viewing devastating loss as a catalyst to reclaim her voice and reinvent her life

    If life has brought you to your knees, or you’re ready to stop living on autopilot, this conversation offers a compassionate, practical invitation to return to yourself one moment at a time.

    Connect with Romy:

    Coffee Chat with Romy: youtu.be/16K04MdxTJc

    Get her book, Broken to Breathful: Simple Breathwork and Daily Rituals for Emotional Healing, Resilience and Nervous System Regulation: amazon.com/dp/B0FLLHNGS2?tag=styt-20 

    Instagram: instagram.com/breathscapeswithromy

    breathworksimple.com

    Referenced in this Episode:

    Saying YES to Living Life by Design with Gina DeVee: buzzsprout.com/1872382/episodes/15316784

    heartmath.com

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    Connect with Wendy:

    Linkedin
    Instagram: @wendy.harrop
    Facebook: Phineas Wright House

    Website: Phineas Wright House
    PWH Farm Stays
    PWH Curated Experience and Travel

    Interested in being a guest on the show?
    Send your pitch to [email protected]

    Podcast Production By Shannon Warner of Resonant Collective
    Want to start your own podcast?
    Let's chat!

    If this episode resonated, follow Say YES to Yourself! and leave a  5-star review. It helps more women in midlife discover the tools, stories, and community that make saying YES not only possible, but powerful.

    55 min
  • Self-Care Is Not One More Thing on Your List | Dori Martin

    Fan Mail: Tell Wendy how you're saying yes to yourself!

    Stories, Sourcing & Styling at Château de Brives:

    Join Wendy Harrop and Sarah & George Haslett for an intimate French antique experience at Château de Brives, November 17–23, 2026. Spend six nights at the château, source alongside the experts at local brocantes and Bordeaux’s renowned Quinconces Antique Show, cook and gather around the table, and experience France through the lens of the collector. Limited to just six guests.

    → Learn more and reserve your place: wendy-harrop.com/experiences-cart/p/antique-experience-france

    What happens when a lifelong caregiver finally includes herself in the circle of care?

    In this episode, Wendy sits down with functional diagnostic nutrition practitioner Dori Martin to explore caregiving, burnout, self-trust, and the connection between joy and well-being. Dori shares how her partner’s terminal diagnosis—and her own experience of losing herself while caring for everyone else—changed the way she understands healing. Together, they consider what becomes possible when you stop carrying everyone else’s bags and start choosing what lights you up.

    They explore:

    • How lifelong caregivers can stop carrying everyone else’s burdens and begin listening to their own needs
    • Why caring for yourself is not another task on your list, but the foundation that supports everything else
    • What it means to trust yourself, receive support, and choose what brings you joy

    If you’ve spent years taking care of everyone else while quietly losing touch with yourself, this conversation is an invitation to put down what was never yours to carry—and say yes to the life that lights you up.

    Connect with Dori:

    Instagram: instagram.com/midlifeenergy.dori

    Her website: dorimartin.com

    YouTube: youtube.com/@MidlifeEnergy_Dori

    Case Study: dorimartinwellness.kit.com/casestudy

    Referenced in this Episode:

    The Manifestation Practice That Built a $37 Million Business | Max Lewis: buzzsprout.com/1872382/episodes/18893956 

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    Connect with Wendy:

    Linkedin
    Instagram: @wendy.harrop
    Facebook: Phineas Wright House

    Website: Phineas Wright House
    PWH Farm Stays
    PWH Curated Experience and Travel

    Interested in being a guest on the show?
    Send your pitch to [email protected]

    Podcast Production By Shannon Warner of Resonant Collective
    Want to start your own podcast?
    Let's chat!

    If this episode resonated, follow Say YES to Yourself! and leave a  5-star review. It helps more women in midlife discover the tools, stories, and community that make saying YES not only possible, but powerful.

    56 min
  • Life Is Happening for You, Not to You | Amber RichBook

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    Ready to Say YES to What’s Next?

    • Space to Dream Global Workshops Join Wendy in cities around the world for an intimate workshop designed to help you create space, reconnect with what you want, and dream about what comes next.  wendy-harrop.com/experiences-cart/p/space-to-dream-global
    • Space to Dream Solo Retreats at the Phineas Wright House Give yourself three uninterrupted days to rest, reflect, and reconnect with your vision during a private retreat that includes accommodations, meals, guided tools, and one-on-one coaching with Wendy.  phineaswrighthouse.com/the-shop/p/solo-retreat
    • Coaching with Wendy Ready for personalized support as you navigate your next chapter? Explore ways to work one-on-one with Wendy. wendy-harrop.com/coaching

    In this episode, Wendy sits down with Amber RichBook, a Forbes-featured transformational speaker, author, and personal mastery guide who helps individuals and organizations develop greater clarity, emotional intelligence, and self-trust. Amber shares how she models self-love and emotional responsibility for her three daughters, why she ultimately stepped away from corporate life, and what it means to build a life around your own alignment rather than someone else’s expectations. She also opens up about the experiences behind her TEDx Talk, Life Isn’t Happening To You, It’s Happening For You, and the practices that have helped her meet profound challenges with compassion, sovereignty, and trust in herself.

    They explore:

    • Why saying yes to yourself often requires saying no to others and accepting that they may be disappointed
    • How radical self-responsibility can restore your sense of agency without absolving others of their actions
    • What it means to honor your emotions, trust your inner guidance, and choose what is aligned for you now

    This is a conversation about choosing yourself without requiring your life to resemble anyone else’s, remaining open to change, and meeting each new season with intention.

    Connect with Amber:

    Her TedTalk: www.youtube.com/watch?v=NixbVYJLfmQ

    Instagram: instagram.com/a.richbook

    LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/arichbook

    Websites: 

    • arichbook.com
    • amberrichbook.com

    Referenced in this Episode:

    Uplifters Podcast by Aransas Savas: theuplifterspodcast.com/podcast

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    Connect with Wendy:

    Linkedin
    Instagram: @wendy.harrop
    Facebook: Phineas Wright House

    Website: Phineas Wright House
    PWH Farm Stays
    PWH Curated Experience and Travel

    Interested in being a guest on the show?
    Send your pitch to [email protected]

    Podcast Production By Shannon Warner of Resonant Collective
    Want to start your own podcast?
    Let's chat!

    If this episode resonated, follow Say YES to Yourself! and leave a  5-star review. It helps more women in midlife discover the tools, stories, and community that make saying YES not only possible, but powerful.

    54 min
  • How Speaking Your Truth Breaks the Hold of Shame | Candi Rose

    Fan Mail: Tell Wendy how you're saying yes to yourself!

    Ready to Say YES to What’s Next?

    • Space to Dream Global Workshops Join Wendy in cities around the world for an intimate workshop designed to help you create space, reconnect with what you want, and dream about what comes next.  wendy-harrop.com/experiences-cart/p/space-to-dream-global
    •  Space to Dream Solo Retreats at the Phineas Writh House Give yourself three uninterrupted days to rest, reflect, and reconnect with your vision during a private retreat that includes accommodations, meals, guided tools, and one-on-one coaching with Wendy.  phineaswrighthouse.com/the-shop/p/solo-retreat
    •  Coaching with Wendy Ready for personalized support as you navigate your next chapter? Explore ways to work one-on-one with Wendy. wendy-harrop.com/coaching


    Content warning: This episode includes candid discussions of domestic abuse, suicidal ideation, substance abuse, explicit sexual content, and strong language. Please listen with care.

    In this episode, Wendy sits down with author and TEDx speaker Candi Rose for an honest conversation about shame, survival, and the freedom she found in telling the truth about her past. Candi shares how unresolved pain contributed to substance abuse, destructive choices, and an abusive relationship, as well as the moment she realized that visible success had not healed what she was still carrying. Writing her memoir, Naked, became part of facing her past, reclaiming her voice, and releasing the fear that someone else could use her story against her.

    They explore:

    • Why achievement and external success cannot resolve the pain and shame we continue to hide
    • How sharing your story in a safe, nonjudgmental space can loosen shame’s hold and create meaningful connection
    • What it means to stop performing as the person others expect and begin choosing what you genuinely want for yourself

    This is a conversation about confronting the parts of your story you would rather keep hidden, finding support that allows you to speak without judgment, and remembering that transformation rarely happens in a straight line.

    Connect with Candi:

    On Instagram: instagram.com/millionaireflipper

    On Facebook: facebook.com/share/1FwbidKdCq/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    Her TedTalk: youtu.be/AApYIyGW6YQ?si=IyexueFAEyNNzSX3

    Her Book: NAKED: A True Story: Incarceration, Abuse, Shame & Redemption: amazon.com/NAKED-Story-Incarceration-Abuse-Redemption/dp/B0D2JGCTM7?tag=syty-20

    YouTube: youtube.com/@candirose

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    Connect with Wendy:

    Linkedin
    Instagram: @wendy.harrop
    Facebook: Phineas Wright House

    Website: Phineas Wright House
    PWH Farm Stays
    PWH Curated Experience and Travel

    Interested in being a guest on the show?
    Send your pitch to [email protected]

    Podcast Production By Shannon Warner of Resonant Collective
    Want to start your own podcast?
    Let's chat!

    If this episode resonated, follow Say YES to Yourself! and leave a  5-star review. It helps more women in midlife discover the tools, stories, and community that make saying YES not only possible, but powerful.

    48 min
  • Stop Forcing Productivity and Start Leading Your Creative Work | Christine Carron

    Fan Mail: Tell Wendy how you're saying yes to yourself!

    Want to come inside La Menarderie? On Saturday, September 19, Wendy is opening the doors (virtually!) for a live tour of the château she and her friend Liz have been bringing to life in the French countryside. Come see the treasures she’s sourced, what they’ve been working on, and this beautiful old property while it’s still very much in progress. The tour is live on Zoom and will not be recorded.

    JOIN THE LIVE TOUR: wendy-harrop.myflodesk.com/lamenarderietour


    In this episode, Wendy sits down with Christine Carron of Good Jelly to challenge the idea that meaningful progress requires more pressure, discipline, or hours spent working. Christine helps highly capable creatives find patterns of progress that honor how they actually work, rather than forcing themselves into someone else’s system. Together, they explore what changes when you stop treating yourself like an assembly line, recognize the wins you usually dismiss, and begin leading your creative work with more spaciousness, self-trust, and delight.

    They explore:

    • Why your creative process is allowed to look different from everyone else’s and change from one project, season, or day to the next 
    • How perfectionism and undefined finish lines keep you working without ever feeling the momentum of what you’ve completed 
    • Christine’s practice of creating “done boosts” by naming your endpoints and becoming flagrantly generous in acknowledging your progress 

    This is a conversation about making room for creativity without running yourself into the ground. If you’re doing meaningful work but constantly focused on what remains unfinished, Christine offers a more sustaining way to recognize your progress and keep moving.

    Connect with Christine:

    Website: https://www.goodjelly.com/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christine-carron

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leagueofgoodjelly/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@goodjelly

    Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/gwb5WONWrI8

    Referenced in this Episode:

    Aransas Savas' Episode, The One Question that Shifts Everything: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1872382/episodes/18652692 

    Episodes with Rachel Jackson:

    • How to Stop Performing and Start Trusting Yourself | Rachel Jackson: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1872382/episodes/18586302
    • Saying Yes To Your New Version With Rachel Jackson: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1872382/episodes/13455977

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    Connect with Wendy:

    Linkedin
    Instagram: @wendy.harrop
    Facebook: Phineas Wright House

    Website: Phineas Wright House
    PWH Farm Stays
    PWH Curated Experience and Travel

    Interested in being a guest on the show?
    Send your pitch to [email protected]

    Podcast Production By Shannon Warner of Resonant Collective
    Want to start your own podcast?
    Let's chat!

    If this episode resonated, follow Say YES to Yourself! and leave a  5-star review. It helps more women in midlife discover the tools, stories, and community that make saying YES not only possible, but powerful.

    55 min
  • A Vision of Mary Magdalene and the Wholeness Within | Aline Ghorayeb

    Fan Mail: Tell Wendy how you're saying yes to yourself!

    Want to come inside La Menarderie? On Saturday, September 19, Wendy is opening the doors (virtually!) for a live tour of the château she and her friend Liz have been bringing to life in the French countryside. Come see the treasures she’s sourced, what they’ve been working on, and this beautiful old property while it’s still very much in progress. The tour is live on Zoom and will not be recorded.

    JOIN THE LIVE TOUR: wendy-harrop.myflodesk.com/lamenarderietour

    And if you’re dreaming of more time in a French château, Wendy is also inviting just six guests to join her for Stories, Sourcing & Styling at Château de Brives, November 15–23.

     EXPLORE STORIES, SOURCING & STYLING: wendy-harrop.com/experiences-cart/p/antique-experience-france


    In this episode, Wendy sits down with Aline Ghorayeb, author of A Change of Heart with Mary Magdalene, to talk about the spiritual vision that changed the direction of her life. Aline shares how the experience and the messages that followed led her to Mary Magdalene, called her to write despite never considering herself an author, and opened a new chapter in her spiritual journey. Her search to understand what she had received eventually led her to A Course in Miracles, the Gnostic Gospels, and a message that continues to guide her: we are not separate, incomplete, or alone.

    They explore:

    •  How Aline discerns between fear-based reactions and choices that reconnect her with love 
    •  What it meant to trust a deeply personal spiritual experience and share its message with others 
    •  Why wholeness is not something we must earn or find outside ourselves, but something we are invited to remember 

    This is a conversation about trusting your inner knowing, remaining open to the ways guidance may arrive, and releasing the conditioning that tells you something essential is missing from who you already are.

    Connect with Aline:

    Get her book, A Change of Heart with Mary Magdalene: Sacred Revelation, Gnostic Wisdom, Inner Alchemy: amazon.com/dp/B0G12DP4H6?tag=syty-20

    VitalitybyAline.com

    Instagram: instagram.com/vitalitybyaline

    Referenced in this Episode: 

    A Course in Miracles:

    • https://apps.apple.com/us/app/acim-remind/id737568020
    • https://www.amazon.com/Course-Miracles-Combined-Quality/dp/1883360242?tag=syty-20
    • marianne.com/acim/

    ________________________________________________________________________________________

    Connect with Wendy:

    Linkedin
    Instagram: @wendy.harrop
    Facebook: Phineas Wright House

    Website: Phineas Wright House
    PWH Farm Stays
    PWH Curated Experience and Travel

    Interested in being a guest on the show?
    Send your pitch to [email protected]

    Podcast Production By Shannon Warner of Resonant Collective
    Want to start your own podcast?
    Let's chat!

    If this episode resonated, follow Say YES to Yourself! and leave a  5-star review. It helps more women in midlife discover the tools, stories, and community that make saying YES not only possible, but powerful.

    47 min
  • How Shame Keeps You Stuck in Relationship Patterns | Jessica Fern & David Cooley

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    Ready for your own pattern interrupt? Explore Wendy’s upcoming experiences in France and discover what becomes available when you step outside your routine, learn something new, and say yes to an adventure that feels good.

    wendy-harrop.com/journeys

    In this episode, Wendy sits down with therapist Jessica Fern and restorative relationship practitioner David Cooley to examine how shame shapes the way we relate to ourselves and the people closest to us. They introduce the “inner shame triangle”: an inner critic that attacks, a shame part that absorbs and believes the criticism, and escaper parts that try to outrun it through over-functioning, under-functioning, busyness, or numbing. The conversation becomes deeply personal as Wendy reflects on her divorce and Jessica and David share how they ended their marriage, continued co-parenting, and created a new relationship structure that better meets their family’s needs.

    They explore:

    •  How the inner critic, shame, and escaper parts reinforce one another and show up during relationship conflict 
    •  Why willingness and capacity are both necessary for couples who want to grow together 
    •  What it means to measure a relationship’s success by whether people’s needs are being met, not simply by how long it lasts 

    This is a conversation about recognizing the internal patterns influencing your relationships, responding to yourself with greater compassion, and allowing relationships to evolve when the old configuration no longer works.

    Connect with Jessica & David:

    Get their book, Transforming the Shame Triangle: amazon.com/Transforming-Shame-Triangle-Using-Parts/dp/199086970X?tag=syty-20

    JessicaFern.com

    RestorativeRelationship.com

    TheAzuriteWay.com

    Ask Jess & Dave Show: www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLGHjbRL3XbZT0ZppTALUwwBUub68uMiij

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    Connect with Wendy:

    Linkedin
    Instagram: @wendy.harrop
    Facebook: Phineas Wright House

    Website: Phineas Wright House
    PWH Farm Stays
    PWH Curated Experience and Travel

    Interested in being a guest on the show?
    Send your pitch to [email protected]

    Podcast Production By Shannon Warner of Resonant Collective
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