The Guilt Girl

Scars, Like Diamonds, Are Apparently Forever: Shame Around Suicide And Self Harm


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In this episode, Grace Bithell delves into the complex emotions surrounding suicide and self-harm, addressing the guilt and shame often associated with these experiences. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying purposes of suicidal thoughts and self-harm, exploring the neurobiological factors that contribute to these feelings. Grace advocates for a compassionate approach to mental health, encouraging listeners to redefine their identities beyond their struggles and to recognize the resilience within themselves.


takeaways

  • Guilt and shame around suicide are common but unhelpful.
  • Suicidal ideation often serves as a means of escape.
  • Self-harm can be a way to manifest inner pain.
  • Understanding the neurobiology of suicidal thoughts is crucial.
  • Blame can provide a false sense of control after a suicide.
  • We should not define ourselves by our worst moments.
  • Mental illness is not a choice; it happens to us.
  • Compassion towards oneself is essential in healing.
  • Everyone has their own coping mechanisms, which may not be healthy.
  • Redefining identity beyond mental health struggles is empowering.
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