A powerful and deeply personal follow-up to episode 224 ("Together in Process"), this conversation invites listeners into the real-time journey of healing, restoration, and redemption. Mike Erre returns to share openly about his months-long process of owning his failures, confronting entrenched patterns of shame, and embracing the hard work of inner transformation. With contributions from co-hosts Bonnie and Tim, this episode models courageous vulnerability, celebrates emotionally healthy spirituality, and illuminates what it means to be pursued—even when exposed.

Hear how Mike’s journey has been shaped through therapy, spiritual direction, tools like the Enneagram, and a deeply impactful experience at Onsite—a secular therapeutic program that helped reveal the sturdy presence of Jesus in unexpected spaces. The team reflects on the role of shame, the difference between sharing wounds and scars, and the powerful grace of being sung back into wholeness by a supportive community.

This episode is for anyone navigating failure, hiding in shame, or yearning to believe redemption is possible—even in ministry spaces. It’s a story about how the grace of Jesus finds us in the dark and how true community helps us walk in the light.

Key Takeaways: • Healing Requires More Than Behavior Management – True transformation isn’t about quick fixes but uncovering deeper wounds and habituating new patterns of living. • Holistic Growth Through Unlikely Tools – From the Enneagram to secular therapy, Mike shares how unexpected resources aligned with the gospel to bring genuine change. • Vulnerability and Boundaries – The wisdom of sharing scars, not open wounds, and how premature vulnerability can masquerade as authenticity. • Pursued in Our Shame – A reassuring reminder that Jesus doesn’t recoil from our brokenness. Instead, he meets us there—with grace. • Doing the Inner Work in Community – How friendships, relational accountability, and being truly known create the space for sustainable growth.

Resources Mentioned: • Episode 224 – “Together in Process” • Onsite Workshops (Residential Therapy Programs) – onsiteworkshops.com • The Wisdom of the Enneagram by Don Riso & Russ Hudson • Poem: “Autobiography in Five Short Chapters” by Portia Nelson • Spiritual Direction info – voxologypodcast.com/resources • Dallas Willard’s Teachings on Formation • VOXOLOGY TV – YouTube

Join our evolving, grace-filled conversation and help us cultivate spaces where honesty, healing, and discipleship grow together. Don’t forget to rate and review, subscribe, and follow us on social media—we’d love to hear your story and walk alongside you.

As always, we encourage and welcome discussion. Email us at [email protected] or engage with us on Facebook and Instagram.

Support the Voxology Podcast on Patreon

Listen on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

Check out our Merch Store: Etsy

Follow us on Instagram: @voxologypodcast Like us on Facebook: Voxology Podcast

Music by Timothy John Stafford Instagram & Twitter: @GoneTimothy



As always, we encourage and would love discussion as we pursue. Feel free to email in questions to [email protected], and to engage the conversation on Facebook and Instagram.

We're on YouTube (if you're into that kinda thing): VOXOLOGY TV.

Our Merch Store! ETSY

Learn more about the Voxology Podcast

Subscribe on iTunes or Spotify

Support the Voxology Podcast on Patreon

The Voxology Spotify channel can be found here: Voxology Radio

Follow us on Instagram: @voxologypodcast and "like" us on Facebook

Follow Mike on Twitter: www.twitter.com/mikeerre

Music in this episode by Timothy John Stafford

Instagram & Twitter: @GoneTimothy