On this episode, I discuss the intriguing influence of nostalgia in BDSM relationships. I unravel the resonant memories of past BDSM partners and how they continue to shape our feelings towards our current dynamics. Exploring the valuable insights gained from previous experiences, we uncover how these lessons contribute to our present BDSM identities. Furthermore, I delve into the concept of "positive schemas" and how embracing nostalgic memories can enhance our connections with current BDSM partners and foster personal growth within the realm of BDSM.

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