Exploration is sexy. You don’t have to know everything about sex to be hot in bed, but if you’re curious? That’ll blow their mind. So let’s look at some less talked-about pleasure acts and how you can incorporate them into your sex life. From nipples to the labia, what unexplored erogenous zones and tools can enhance your orgasms? When your partner’s got a large penis, how do you explore anal without hurting yourself? Plus, how do you find friends and community when you’ve just entered the BDSM lifestyle? And how do you maximize your partner’s pleasure? All this and more on today’s pleasure points show.
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Why is it that vulva owners are the ones tasked with preventing pregnancy? That’s the burning question we’ve all been thinking about since 2017. 
On today’s throwback show, we’re diving into this hot topic with Gabrielle Stanley Blair, the mastermind behind a viral thread and the book, Ejaculate Responsibly. Joining us is my dear friend, anthropologist, and author, Dr. Wednesday Martin, to help unpack this loaded discussion. In our post-Roe world, Gabrielle—mother of six and a devout Mormon—is fiercely advocating for the importance of women’s lives and their pleasure. Get ready for an eye-opening conversation!
In this episode you’ll learn: 

How society pressures vulva owners to become mothers

Why MORE sex ed leads to LESS unwanted pregnancies

How to talk to young penis owners about ejaculating responsibly


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Ejaculation Education w/ Gabrielle Blair

Let's face it: sex isn't just a switch you can flip on and off. It's more like a whole playlist of tension, arousal, body exploration, playful antics, and steamy teamwork — there’s a lot more than just the main event. So, what do you do when you're ready to get it on, but your body keeps hitting snooze? In today’s show, I’ll show you my favorite tips and tricks and address even the most perplexing arousal questions. 
In this episode you’ll learn:

My special trick for giving oral sex with a gag reflex

How to deal with vaginismus

Why communication can fix (almost) every sex problem


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Best Of: Ready to Get Naughty?

Imagine: You've got that special someone who makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside. The trust is there, the connection is solid. But sometimes the fire just fizzles out when it comes to sex. I get it. When the routine starts feeling a bit too...routine, it's time to switch things up and rediscover what really gets your engine revving (and sometimes, it’s not your partner!).
On today’s throwback we're diving deep into the world of sexual attraction - what it is, how it's different from romantic love, and most importantly, how to use that knowledge to keep the spark alive in your relationship. Because at the end of the day, switching it up never hurt anybody. 
In this episode you’ll learn:

Why sexual attraction can feel so distinctly different than long-term love

What to do when you and your partner are both submissive

When you should hang onto your friend with benefits – and when to let them go


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The Science Behind Sexual Attraction

In today’s throwback show, I talk to the one and only Shaun T, host of the podcast “Trust and Believe,” a world renowned fitness trainer, and a professional dancer. Not to mention a wonderfully sex positive man, but, as you’ll learn in the episode it took a journey – I repeat, a JOURNEY – to get there. But hey, if he can do it, you can too. Trust me: if you’ve been looking for inspo to feel yourself in the bedroom, this convo is an absolute must. 
In this episode you’ll learn: 

How Shaun and his partner keep things interesting after 12 years and two kids

Why you have to do the work to heal from trauma – and why it’s so rewarding

Shaun’s genius sex and arousal hacks


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What’s Your Arousal Type?


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Self Love is Sexy w/ Shaun T

Let’s face it: casual sex often gets a bad rap. It’s thought of as just another swipe, a fleeting moment, a reflection of society’s current hookup culture, or something disposable. But hold up! It doesn't have to be that way. When you bring a little intention and mindfulness into the mix, casual sex can be the spark that reignites your erotic energy. In my opinion, the secret sauce is all about knowing yourself and being crystal clear about what you want from your casual encounters. This episode, I’ll be teaching you how to dive into casual sex with purpose and channel your inner Samantha Jones.

In this episode you’ll learn: 

All the different types of casual sex out there

How to know if casual sex is right for you (because it isn’t for everyone!) 

When it’s best to turn down a potential partner


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7 Myths of Non Monogamy

Friends With Benefits: A Guide


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