Sex With Emily

Today I’m talking with certified sexuality coach Shani Hart about how to keep yourself satisfied while you take care of your partner. Shani also gives us her helpful oral sex philosophy, tips for using toys together and talks about the importance of representation in the sex industry.

I also talk to psychological astrologer Dr. Jen Freed, who joins us with her monthly astro-sex forecast for each sign. We dive deep into what IS sexy, why it’s necessary to be with someone who brings out the best in you and non-negotiables when it comes to self worth and self pleasure.

For more information about Shani Hart, visit: hartsdesires.com

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Ever wonder what the world would be like if we all felt comfortable talking about sex? We’d have way more pleasure, less shame and much healthier relationships. Not to mention that talking about sex increases desire and leads to a more satisfying life all around.

In today’s episode I also cover how to plan a sexy staycation. It’s possible even if you’re stuck at home! I advise the best way to bring toys into the bedroom, why you should consider a lube shooter and the best time to communicate your needs to a partner.

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When it comes to relationships, it’s not unusual to get into unhealthy patterns—so I'm going to help you identify some of the warning signs you might be ignoring. Whether you’re dating a perfectionist or a partner who is emotionally unavailable, there are some red flags that will never turn green.

I also address why words are just as important as actions, how to spot if someone is emotionally detached and you’ll learn when and how to communicate difficult feelings with the people we love most.

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Today I bring you a special combination of guests, to give you a unique perspective on the porn industry. I talk to legendary porn star and sex educator Nina Hartley, sex addiction specialist Dr. Marnie Breecker and ethical porn director Erika Lust.

Nina Hartley shares her insights on her decades long experience in the porn industry, her personal relationships and advice on figuring out what kind of relationships work for you. Then, Dr. Breecker and I take a deep dive into the complexities of sex addiction. Dr. Breecker is a therapist who specializes in sex addiction and she has advice for people who are struggling to break free.

I also talk with erotic filmaker Erika Lust about her mission to create ethically minded films for all genders. Erika has been writing and directing for years so she’s full of insights about intimacy both onscreen and off.

For more information about Nina Hartley, visit nina.com

For more information about Dr. Marnie Breecker, visit marniebreecker.com

For more information about Erika Lust, visit erikalust.com

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Today’s show is all about you and answering your questions. One couple wants to know how to prepare for a threesome, another wants their partner to experiment with cuckolding. However you want to explore an open relationship, I cover the topics everyone should think about before pulling the trigger.

Also, how to overcome anxiety in the bedroom whether it’s you or your partner with the distracting thoughts. Take a deep breath and listen in.

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Ever wonder what to do about the sexual side effects of your antidepressants? It can be super frustrating to have an improved mood but a decreased libido. In this episode, I cover how to know if you’re experiencing unwanted side effects and what to do about them.

Anyone else’s sex life taken a nose-dive in the past few months? Well, there could be a lot more going on than just mismatched sex drives. Starting with healthy communication can help you sort out those pesky resentments. I also dissect what we can learn (and not learn) from Cardi B’s WAP video featuring Megan Thee Stallion.

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For months now, the most popular blog post on SexWithEmily.com has been “Is it normal (or safe) to eat your own ejaculate?” I’m excited to finally be answering that on today’s podcast. Join me and my callers as we explore the curiosity and appeal around this popular question.

I advise a woman on how to overcome feeling insecure around her partner, because we all suffer from self-doubt from time to time, especially in the bedroom. I also tackle how porn can impact your relationship and ways to safely explore your fantasies.

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Did you grow up with a loud family? So did today’s guest. Adam Ferrara is a comedian, actor and recovering loudmouth. He and I talk about how important it was for his marriage to learn to listen. We get into control issues and the work required to undo the damage caused by childhood trauma.

Before that, I take a call from a young woman who has great sex when she’s tipsy but wants to find that same fun mentality without a drink. Another woman wants to know why she can squirt with one partner but not others. I also talk to Brooke from Pennsylvania who needs help getting comfortable receiving oral from her husband. All of these issues are more common than you’d think. Don’t miss the lively discussion with my team about what to do with your sex toys after a breakup!

For more information about Adam Ferrara, visit: adamferrara.com

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Answering your questions about how to have more pleasure is my jam and this episode is no exception. Alongside my friend and sex educator Elle Chase, I cover sex without penetration, summer sex tips and mindfulness. Elle and I get right down to business taking a call from Mike in Arizona who wants to have a threesome (shock!) with his girlfriend, but wants to make sure he sets it up for success. Later, we answer your questions about sex positions for curvier people and what to expect after a hysterectomy.

First off, though, is Dr. Jennifer Freed’s monthly astro-sex forecast! Jen is a renowned psychological astrologer who has been helping people realize and reach their potential for over thirty years. To go even deeper this month, Jen takes questions from the Sex With Emily team about the relationship between our moon and sun signs and what we can expect during the next full moon.

For more information about Elle Chase, visit: ellechase.com

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Alternative relationships are more popular than ever so today I’m talking to Miley Manliguis from #OPEN, a new dating app that’s designed for modern relationships - essentially, anything other than monogamy. Maile shares the intimate details about opening up her relationship with her husband after they had a child. She talks about juggling parenting and dating, her boundaries with her husband and how giving birth empowered her to embrace her sexuality more than she ever had. Maile’s an amazing woman. You’re going to love her perspective.

I also talk to our content coordinator, Amanda, about her first experience being a unicorn (that’s slang for a third in a threesome). We get into how she felt going into it and what she learned about herself from the experience. Talk about getting to know your team on the job! Have you ever wondered how you’d feel going into a threesome? Amanda walks me every step of the way through her worries leading up to it and the things that helped her be present and have a fun, relaxed experience throughout.

For more information about Maile Manliguis, visit: hashtagopen.com

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