🎙Episode 137: Illuminaughty Sex Party Stories with Holly @thebluebiwife WARNING - THIS episode is not meant for children

This episode is sure to make you wet… I have Holly on today, the Blue Bi Wife that I met at a Sex Party called Illuminaughty. In this episode, I share going to a sex party single and not knowing anyone or what to expect, how we met, and share some naughty and juicy stories and I ask her how it is being in the “lifestyle” as a wife and mother of 3. She went from growing up mormon and never thinking she’d be bi or like women to full blown bi and open!

She always gets lots of questions about being in the lifestyle as a mom and wife and we are going to get into it, what it's like, and what these sex parties are like. It may be different than you think, so dip your toes in with this episode.

We cover jealousy, swinging, threesomes, compersion and an inside scoop of going to play parties.

How she got started in the lifestyle?

How she went from being jealous and never thinking she could handle her husband being with another woman to being in the lifestyle and being open and poly?

We go into the spicy details of the event and how it was for me going single and not knowing anyone.

If you’ve ever thought of going to a play party, exploring or dipping your toes in to the naughty side this episode is for you. We did this episode in person so if you want to check out some fun reels and videos check us out on IG and YouTube - @sexybizbabe and @thebluebiwife

🎙 Episode 136: Breaking Free from Church Shame and have better Sex

We have all been raised around judgement and shame around sexuality whether it’s from religion, society, or the media. This episode not only dives into freedom of shame but also on church shame and the shame around being different whether it’s being gay, bisexual, or just being different and not accepted.

Eric Feltes is a Life Coach who helps gay men free themselves from Church-shame, he’s coach and actor and lives in Los Angeles with his dog Cadence and his wonderful 20 house plants. He grew up catholic and didn’t come out of the closet until he was… 25!

Oh wow! Listen into how he went through though of believing he isn’t gay and he can just get the gay out of his system because he was raised thinking being gay was wrong according to the church. No, you don't have to pray the gay away...

Follow Eric on IG @ericfeltes or me @sexybizbabe and let us know what you thought of this episode and share it with your friends to help them break free from shame -

Episode 135:  How to Attract your Soulmate with Gianna Rackham Love Coach

She’s back again, my favorite love coach, Gianna Rackman is here to tell us how to attract a soulmate and the energetics behind it. She is a love and Relationship coach helping spiritual women live in alignment with their soul and attract deeply satisfying soulmate love.

Now some of the tea, she just got out of a long soulmate relationship and is now with Dustin who I have also had on my show and was the self proclaimed F boy and party boy, but what??? How did that happen? We talk about how she didn’t tame him but how things just worked out and how.

These are the same things that need to shift or work on when attracting your soulmate and future partner to have a healthy secure relationship.

We talk about how to handle feeling anxious

Where to attract quality people

How she didn’t “tame” the party boy

How to regulate yourself and your nervous system to be healthier and secure in relationships. How to be safe in relationships and not depend on your partner to be happy.

🎙134: Burning Man Tips and Transformational Stories PART TWO with Corissa, Salma, & Felipe

Listen to this 2 part series, for the best tips for burning man and camping festivals and some amazing stories and transformations that come when being away from society for a good duration of time.

I interview 4 people who attended burning man or an epic camping festival that had amazing experiences and also some struggles that brought them to EPIC transformations.

We cover struggle, stories, chaos, and transformational stories and how it shifted their lives and mindset in the real world.

I also ask for tips for Burning Man for newbies, first timers, and even veterans.

I want everyone to walk away with some insight into the festival world, burning man, and some amazing tips and stories to bring into your life. So definitely tune in if you want to make your next festival or burning man experience even that much better!

Let me know if you have any epic tips, transformations you'd like to share from Burning Man, and maybe someday I get to see you on the playa for my first Burning Man! :D DM me on IG or tag me on your story with fun feedback or message @sexybizbabe

🎙 Episode 133: Burning Man Tips and Transformational Stories PART ONE with Emily Otto

I interviewed 4 people who attended burning man or a camping festival that had an amazing experience and also some struggles that brought them to EPIC transformations.

After attending a week long festival called Oregon Eclipse which was no walk in the park and one of the most challenging experiences I've had, it taught me so many lessons and helped me so much after returning to the real world. It led me to massive transformation and great mental shifts that impacted my life for years to come. I've been wanting to go to Burning man and thought I'd do more research to prepare and also share with my audience some great tips and transformational stories.

We cover struggle, stories, chaos, and transformational stories and how they shift their lives in the real world that taught us amazing life lessons.

I also ask for tips for Burning man for newbies, first timers, and even veterans.

I want everyone to walk away with some insight into the festival world, burning man, and some amazing tips and stories to bring into your life.

Emily Otto is an Intuitive Business Coach for healers, witches and other spiritual entrepreneurs. After 15 years in Corporate America and crying at every job she ever had, she finally quit and started her own (now multiple six figures) business helping healers heal their businesses. She lives in Ann Arbor Michigan with her family and adores running away into the woods on the weekends.

Favorite Quote of this episode - “Follow your inspiration and shiny object in the playa.”

What brings you back to burning man year after year?

“It’s the people, the possibility, the magic, chaos, creativity, container, it’s quantum leaps in evolution of the soul again and again and it’s different every freaking time.

It feels like everybody who attends is there to make magic.”

🎙 Episode 132: My Naughty Erotica BDSM Story of Surrender and Submission

WARNING: This episode is NOT meant for children, family, so don’t listen. NR 17+

This solo episode is all about my deep desires and fantasies and sharing an erotic story about having one of my submissive fantasies come true.

It’s a fun solo episode where I catch you up on my dating life and share some personal experiences and also share why I’m into BDSM and really love the submission and surrender.

As I was nervous to share this episode I shared the story personally with friends and every one of them just loved it and urged me to share so here it is.

Your fantasies and desires are not wrong and hiding them from yourself and your partner doesn’t do you any good.

I urge you to explore with yourself or solo or even share your fantasies with your partner but in a safe space and without expectation. This is something I go over in my signature Sexy Goddess Course or coaching 1:1 with me!

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130: How to Build a Six Figure Business with Pleasure

[Solo Episode] Hellll yeah!! I surpassed six figures in working for myself and growing my businesses full time! I did it with pleasure, purpose, and fun!

You do not need to build a business in a way that you HATE, there’s so many different ways to build a business and if you want to enjoy it and do what lights you up this podcast episode is for YOU.

Learn some HUGE impactful lessons I learned in how to grow my business and if you want to work with me dm me and let’s chat, I’m doing a end of year deal to work with me or get a BUNDLE end of year Blowout SALE for all my courses!!

Some Lessons I learned:

* Fuck the Rules and trying to do what all the “successful” coaches say

* Double Down on what works

* Stop doing it alone

* Hire and find support

* Detach from the goal and expectations on how to do it

* Don’t push uphill

* Prioritize yourself, your pleasure, breaks, community and support

* Find purpose and pleasure in your work, connect to the joy

* Be yourself in your business and your content, people buy from YOU that is what makes you stand out

* The parts of yourself you’re scared to share are the parts that your soul clients love and can’t wait to hire you

Listen to my examples and lessons I learned and if you want help growing your business, connecting to your purpose, and having more fun in your business while increasing profit, I’d LOVE to work with you. Let’s see if we are a good fit.

If you want to break out of shame, own your sexy, increase your pleasure, explore your deep desires and fantasies and try new things to have the best sex of your life.. that is what I help my clients with!!!!

DM me and let’s chat or I can send you some options! Screenshot, share on IG and tag me @sexybizbabe for a free bonus gift!!! I'm sharing one of my paid workshops for FREE

🎙Episode 129:  Recovering from Purity Culture with Erica Smith

We also cover taboo topics like Sex Education and Roe vs Wade

Wow oh wow! This episode had so much great value, quotable quotes and amazing discussion. I’m so happy to have Erica Smith on my podcast to talk about purity culture, what it is, and how it can affect us in adulthood.

We also dive into sex education and talking about sex with kids and how our sex education growing up or lack thereof affects us.

Topics covered in this episode:

💜 Sex education or lack thereof

💜 Sex education for kids, when to bring it up, how

💜 What is purity culture

💜 Masturbation and sex addiction

💜 Roe vs. Wade

💜 Womens empowerment

Episode 129: Exploring my Sensual Desires through Tantra

Tantra, Pythons, and Sybians.. Oh my!

Oh my sexy goddesses I’m back, I took a long break to rest, go inward, prepare for the holidays while staying sober and abstinent. Along this journey I decided to go to not one but TWO play parties, but without penetration and focusing on being in the present and enjoying every small pleasure and connection… what a fun challenge?!

One was a Conscious, Tantric Play Birthday party which got me in touch with my body, mind, and filled me up with love, connection, touch, and intimacy.

It felt so amazing to slooooowwww down and be really intentional and connected to people without any expectations or stress on sex.

I’m a go, go, go personality, super fiery Aries that goes non stop at 100 mph so this is just what my body, mind, and heart needed. Plus NO PENETRATION was one of the rules for this play party.

Listen to this episode to learn more about tantra and how to connect more to your body, heart, and mind and be more in the present and bring these practices into your every day life.

This party was amazing and I take you on my journey through this party and exploration going from eye gazing, pythons, to Syrians….

Episode 128: How to be a Great Podcast Guest - Before the Show | SOLO EPISODE

This episode is gonna be a little different and I will share a little bit of updates on what I’ve been up to and what is to come and then we are going into a specific and educational topic.

I may be preaching to some past experiences and I could have definitely used these tips years ago! I definitely got carried away talking and talking without those pauses.

So you are not alone and you get better with practice. I deliver a little over 5 tips to really help you be the best podcast guest and help create a better show!

Here are some of the notes:

Breathe, go slower, take pauses

Research the podcast, the style, show, and know what to expect

Stop Being a Narcissist on someone else’s show - there’s a time to sell and it’s not the whole show! Allow all the people on the show to talk equally or share the mic based on the style of the podcast.

Filler Words - practice pausing

Give flowers to the interviewer, show praise, talk about their podcast, pump them up, show your appreciation.

This episode is gonna be a little different and I will share a little bit of updates on what I’ve been up to and what is to come and then we are going into a specific and educational topic.

I may be preaching to some past experiences and I could have definitely used these tips years ago! I definitely got carried away talking and talking without those pauses.

So you are not alone and you get better with practice. I deliver a little over 5 tips to really help you be the best podcast guest and help create a better show!

Here are some of the notes:

Research the podcast, host, the style of the show, and know what to expect, what you like

Stop Being a Narcissist on someone else’s show - there’s a time to sell and it’s not the whole show!

Filler Words

Give flowers to the interviewer, show praise, talk about their podcast, pump them up, show your appreciation. Share the episode after!