In this week’s episode of The She Said It First Podcast, Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee Monae, started the show with What Irritated them this week. They mention the passing of DJ and musician Fatman Scoop over Labor Day Weekend. The conversation touches on the importance of taking care of one's health, especially for black men. Jerilyn and Lynee’ talk about a video that is going around on social media from licensed therapist explaining how she feels woman do not take accountability and do not say sorry. They share their personal experiences and perspectives on apologizing and taking responsibility. The conversation revolves around the themes of accountability, relationships, and dealing with toxic behavior.  

Jerrilyn and Lynee also discuss the recent news about Judge Mathis' divorce from his wife of 39-years and reflect on the importance of putting your spouse first in a relationship. They share personal stories of doing foolish things for men who didn't deserve it and emphasize the need for self-respect and boundaries. During Sista to Sista, Jerrilyn and Lynee' were asked a question about the challenges of long-distance relationships and the importance of co-parenting effectively. They end the episode by inviting listeners to share their own stories and seek advice through the Speakpipe platform. 

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This week on The She Said It First Podcast, Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee’ Monae discusses various topics. With Lynee’ being from the DMV area, she had to discuss Keith Lee’s food review or lack thereof in her area.  During Girl, What Happened, Jerrilyn and Lynee’ spoke about Dr. Cheyenne Bryant’s appearance on Cam Newton’s podcast. Newton, who has eight children by three women, says that he wants more children, but does not want to be married. Dr. Bryant held back no punches and neither did Jerrilyn and Lynee’. They discuss the importance of being intentional about parenthood and the impact of having multiple children with different partners. 

Jerrilyn took a trip to Chicago for the DNC. Lynee’ and Jerrilyn discussed the DNC, and they emphasized the importance of not voting based on identity alone and the need to make informed decisions. They also discussed the political pandering from both sides, and the importance of doing research before forming opinions. They also explore the impact of growing up with or without a father in the household and how it can shape one's perspective on relationships. The conversation then shifts to the controversy surrounding Russell Simmons and his request for forgiveness despite the allegations against him. They discuss the power dynamics at play and the need for accountability.  

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In this episode of The She Said It First Podcast, Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee Monae discuss Big Sean and Jhene Aiko's relationship. Big Sean did an interview with Charlamange Tha God, and they talked about Big Sean getting married to his longtime girlfriend and mother to his child, Jhene Aiko. This led to Jerrilyn and Lynee’ speaking about men having many reasons for not getting married but can have a baby. Also, they spoke about Yung Miami's relationship with Diddy. Yung Miami sat down on her podcast, Careesha Please with her best friend, Saucy Santana. The conversation covers themes of relationships, commitment, and societal expectations. In this part of the conversation, the hosts discuss Young Miami's response to Diddy's abuse allegations. They explore the criticism Young Miami received for not speaking out against Diddy's alleged abuse, highlighting the difficulty victims face when they have a positive public image. 

 A social media scammer is charging people to attend his wedding. Jerrilyn and Lynee’ talk about the absurdity of charging $450 to attend a wedding and the entitlement behind such a request. The conversation then shifts to the Olympics, specifically the controversy surrounding Jordan Childs' bronze medal being taken away due to a challenge technicality. They question the fairness of the decision and the potential role of racism in the judging process. On “Sista 2 Sista” Jerrilyn and Lynee’ also answer a listener's question about maintaining a long-distance friendship. Subscribe and check us out every Thursday. 

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This week on The She Said It First Podcast, Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee’ Monae discuss many different topics. But first, we must congratulate Lynee's recent move from her apartment to her house. Jerrilyn and Lynee began to talk about a video that went viral on social media about “Scammy Sammy,” a young lady who scammed her former friend out of hundreds of dollars for a trip. But, if you were cool with the scammer and their ways before they got you, should you be upset now that the tables have turned. Also, Jerrilyn and Lynee’ discuss Donald Trump being interviewed by three black women during the National Association of Black Journalists Convention. They also react to a controversial statement made on a podcast about dying for one's wife. The conversation touches on themes of personal experiences, friendship, trust, beauty, politics, and accountability. In this conversation, Jerrilyn and Lynee discuss various topics related to relationships, protection, and the challenges faced by women. They touch on the importance of men providing protection and support, the changing dynamics between men and women, and the need for mutual respect and understanding. They also discuss Cardi B filing for divorce from her husband. Offset, while being pregnant with her third child. and the importance of keeping personal matters private. The conversation ends with a segment called 'Sista to Sista' where they answer questions and provide advice to listeners. 

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In this episode of The She Said It First Podcast, Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee Monae discuss Derrick Jaxn’s ex-wife, Da’Naia, and her mom’s impact on her life. This leads to a deeper discussion about breaking cycles of trauma and keeping some things to yourself. They emphasize the importance of mental health and therapy, and the need for unity within marginalized communities.  

Jerrilyn and Lynee’ also address the criticism of Vice President Kamala Harris as a DEI hire and the need for women to support each other. The conversation then transitions to the senseless unaliving 36-year-old Sonya Massey. They discussed the importance of standing up for what you believe in, the need for better support and unity among women, the impact of politics on women's rights, and the issue of police brutality. They also touch on a viral video of a woman discussing her multiple baby daddies and the challenges of single motherhood.  

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This week on The She Said It First Podcast, Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee’ Monae discusses what irritated them the most this week. They then began to talk about this ballon game, and when will it stop. Jerrilyn and Lynee’s discussed this video of a man criticizing a woman for having multiple baby fathers during this game. They share their thoughts on the man's comments and their own preferences when it comes to dating someone with children. The conversation shifts with a discussion about recent allegations against Diddy and him threatening to take the like of the editor-in-chief of Vibe Magazine in 1997.  

Jerrilyn and Lynee’ also spoke about Dwayne Wade and other men wearing nail polish. They also touch on the importance of personal preferences and boundaries in relationships. Do not forget, Sista 2 Sista as well. This week is an interesting question.  

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In this episode of The She Said It First Podcast, Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee’ Monae dive into some hot topics in the entertainment world. They discuss Atlanta rapper Latto's decision to get a BBL at a young age when she first secured her record deal. The hosts also address comedian Aries Spears' controversial comments on black women and the use of eyelashes, sparking a conversation about beauty standards and cultural critiques. 

Additionally, the episode discusses actor Columbus Short's recent statements on why black men date outside their race, which included negative remarks about black women. Lastly, they touch on Keke Wyatt's ending her third marriage while managing the responsibilities of being a mother to eleven children. Do not forget, Sista 2 Sista as well. This week is an interesting question.  

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This week on The She Said It First Podcast, Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee’ Monae discusses the assassination attempt on former president, Donald Trump, during a rally in Pennsylvania this past week. A life was lost, so we are sympathetic to that, but something does not seem right. Also, Jerrilyn and Lynee’ review Tyler Perry’s new movie, Divorce in the Black, starring Meagan Good and Cory Hardrict.  

Speaking of Meagan Good, Jerrilyn and Lynee’ talk about the hug that was given to her by actor Michael Ealy, in front of her new love, Jonathan Majors. Was that an appropriate hug for a woman in a relationship, they discuss. Also, they talk about if there are unrealistic expectations from women in relationships with men. Do not forget, Sista 2 Sista as well. This week is an interesting question.  

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In this episode of The She Said It First Podcast, Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee’ Monae discussed Nigerian singer/songwriter Tems and her recent comments about going to the studio working with men. Tems said that she wears baggy clothes to the studio to not entice the men she works with sexually. Jerrilyn and Lynee’ also talk about Pornhub being blocked in twelve states in the US due to age restrictions. 

Jerrilyn and Lynee’ talk about the tragic news of a white couple in West Virginia adopting five black children and enslaving them to work on their farm. Shannon Sharpe was recently in Atlanta, for the RenderATL festival and he spoke about the role models in his life. Jerrilyn and Lynee’ gave us who their role models are. And Sista to Sista this week, is Sista to Mista. 

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This week on The She Said It First Podcast, Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee’ Monae discusses the comments that singer and songwriter, Vedo, made on Young Joc’s radio show. Vedo said that a woman has to show him that she is a good mother before he could marry her because if she is a good mom, she will be a good wife. Young Joc, Jerrilyn and Lynee’ do not agree with Vedo at all. Speaking of having a baby, Jerrilyn and Lynee’ speak on media personality and lawyer Eboni K. Williams announcing she is having a baby girl. Williams is a single forty-year-old woman who decided to have a baby via IVF and social media has had a lot to say about it.  

If you are one of those people that are going to brunch every weekend with bottomless mimosas, you want to hear what Jerrilyn and Lynee’ have to say about all of you. Also, Chris Brown is breaking up happy homes with his Meet & Greets during his current tour. Jerrilyn and Lynee’ discuss how they feel about men going to the Meet & Greets. And Sists 2 Sista this week was interesting.  

 

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