She Said It First

Besties, we're serving HOT TEA and existential crises this week! Jerrilyn Lake (aka Indeskribeabull) and Lynee’ Monae are back with another chaotic episode of the She Said It First podcast where we're discussing why the Instagram algorithm has us in a chokehold, why making friends in your 30s hits different, and how to gracefully ghost a bestie who no longer sparks joy. We're getting vulnerable about becoming our mothers (the audacity!), why our backs hurt from just existing, and how tequila is now our sworn enemy. Plus, we're sharing the tea on what happens when you realize your childhood bestie and you are living in completely different universes - spoiler alert: it's not always messy, sometimes you just... drift. And because we can't help ourselves, we're also dragging certain political figures who think they can buy their way into heaven (sir, this is not a Wendy's). Grab your wine (preferably that Sauvignon Blanc we're still hunting for) and settle in for another episode of your favorite millennials oversharing for your entertainment.

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Episode 66 of She Said It First feels like the ultimate group chat you didn’t know you needed. Jerrilyn Lake (aka Indeskribeabull) and Lynee’ Monae kick things off by blaming all of life’s chaos on “Mercury in Gatorade”—because what else explains bad moods, tangled microbraids, and that one cousin who’s always “just not okay”? The ladies break down what Mercury retrograde actually is and drag it for all the inconveniences of the past three weeks. They even debate if folks are just manifesting messiness once they hear Mercury’s acting up—though Lynee’ insists her life was already headed straight for the toilet bowl, no astrology required.

But the laughs don’t stop there. The duo dives into the “male loneliness epidemic,” clowning the way men avoid deep conversations with their friends—like how you could lose your job and still tell the boys you’re “just chilling.” They challenge men to actually check in with each other (and maybe read past the first line of a text) because “do a little more” applies to everything—convos, hygiene, and yes, even wiping.

The show caps off with pure comedy gold: from people online thinking they can fight gorillas, to Trick Daddy claiming women over 35 are “damaged goods.” The verdict? Sir, you are the damage. 

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This week on The She Said It First Podcast, Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee’ Monae have a special guest this week. Podcast host Kiara “Kiki Said So” Walker joins She Said It First to talk about her new podcast, The xo Man Podcast. Kiara Walker has been the host, along with Medina Monroe, of The CockTales Podcast: Dirty Conversations. Now, Kiara is talking to black men and having in depth conversations that they normally do not have with women. In this interview, Kiara spoke about her experiences with men as well as Jerrilyn and Lynee’.  

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On this episode of The She Said It First Podcast, Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee’ Monae discusses various topics, but before they get into that, they tell the fans What Irritated Them this week. Jerrilyn is irritated that her apartment complex is not giving her security deposit back but has not given a reason or even inspected the apartment to determine. Lynee’ is irritated that people are making executive decisions to not wash their body and just be funky.  

During, Girl, What Happened, Lynee and Jerrilyn spoke about being a wing woman for your homegirl if you have a man already. Is it okay to be outside with another man when you have a man. They also talk about non-sexual turn ons and turn offs. The conversation switched to Victoria Monet’s interview with Michelle Obama and her brother Craig. Monet spoke about people on her team telling her to not have a baby at the time she did. She clearly did not listen, but it did stick with her. Jerrilyn and Lynee’s spoke about choosing their personal lives ahead of their career.  

Hook:
Y'all ain't ready for this juicy girl talk! Geraldine and Lake get real about stinky men, cheating friends, and whether motherhood will ruin their careers. You'll be laughing out loud and yelling "Preach!"

Timestamps and Key Takeaways:

12:45 - To wingwoman or not to wingwoman? The cheating friend dilemma
Takeaway: Don't enable a friend to cheat on a good man, but all bets are off if he's not treating her right!

23:10 - Do men only want kids to control women? Geraldine and Lake's controversial views
Takeaway: Men pressure women about "settling down" and having babies because they want to control them, not because they care about the kids.

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During “Girl Talk” Jerrilyn and Lynee’ have a riveting conversation about some of the things women, particularly black women, express themselves by their appearance. But what about in the workplace? What are some things you should and should not do regarding your appearance in the workplace.  

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This week on The She Said It First Podcast, Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee’ Monae discusses various topics, but before they get into that, they tell the fans What Irritated Them this week. Jerrilyn hates a mean girl and wants all of them to stay away from her. As for Lynee’, please do not tell her about her hair, nails, or makeup if you are not paying for it. You pay to build-a-bear, you must pay to build-a-b%$ch.  

During Girl, What Happened, Jerrilyn and Lynee’ spoke about being able to be with a partner who does not take care of their health. Is it a red flag if they do not do the things that they are supposed to do for their health, like drink water, exercise, or go to the doctor. The host also spoke about the wave of “ratchet” women rappers like Sexyy Red, Pluto, and others. They talk about how their music is impacting people and will it last.  

The conversation transitioned to Girl Talk, Jerrilyn and Lynee’ spoke about attire in the workplace, especially for black women. They spoke about while black women like to express themselves with their hair, makeup, etc... but what should not be worn in the workplace. Also, it is vacation time. And if you have that special person, who is paying for this baecation?  

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This week on the She Said It First Podcast, Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee’ Monae are live in Cleveland, OH, at the National Urban League Conference. Jerrilyn and Lynee’ are taking in all of what the National Urban League has to offer them, like the Women’s Empowerment Brunch and so much more. But they had to stay true to themselves and let the people know What Irritated Them This Week. Lynee’ said those knees do not work like they used to. While Jerrilyn is fed up with her son (dog), Toto.  

After they told fans what irritated them, they told you Girl, What Happened. Jerrilyn got an email recently to work with one of her exes. This led her to ask if you could work with your exes. Listen to what Lynee’s answer is and what Jerrilyn answered in the email. Jerrilyn and Lynee’ also spoke about having a relationship with someone who thinks completely opposite of yourself. With Jerrilyn and Lynee’ being content creators and seeing so many young people at the National Urban League, they gave some advice on being a content creator and what to expect in that space.  

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This is a special episode of The She Said It First Podcast. Comedian, actor, director, producer, content creator, filmmaker, and author KevOnStage joined host Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee’ Monae. KevOnStage was on to promote his new book, Successful Failure: Lessons Learned Flat on My Face out on July 23rd. Kev spoke about his ability to learn from his mistakes and failures. He also looked at his failures differently and turned them into successes. Jerrilyn and Lynee’ gave KevOnStage his flowers for all of his extraordinary accomplishments. But Kev never stops to rest on his laurels because the next project is coming. Kev spoke about promoting his book differently than his last book. One thing that KevOnStage is grateful for is that he was able to build slowly. Make sure KevOnStage’s new book, Successful Failure: Lessons Learned Flat on My Face becomes a New York Time’s Best Seller.  

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This week on The She Said It First Podcast, Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee’ Monae discusses various topics, but before they get into that, they tell the fans What Irritated Them this week. Lynee talks about how she does not like non-funny people at all. Like why you cannot laugh at all. This week, Jerrilyn and Lynee have a special guest, sex therapist and intimacy coordinator Zuri Pryor-Graves joins She Said It First this week. Before Zuri talked about what it means to be an intimacy coordinator, they talked about What Happened. They spoke about to the controversy surrounding Nelly and Ashanti and people calling Ashanti a single married mother. Nelly told Ashanti on their new reality show “We Belong Together,” that he was not going to take care of their baby until he can walk and talk but he would provide as many resources as possible for her. They talk about if they would be willing to do that for a man who is rich. They also spoke about what they would do if they had a rich partner that wanted to take care of them and treated them right. Would they be okay with that.  

During Girl Talk, Jerrilyn and Lynee got some advice from Zuri about the bedroom. They spoke about being able to tell your partner what you like in the bedroom. What is the best way to handle a situation like that. Jerrilyn then spoke to Zuri Pryor-Graves about her jobs as a sex therapist and intimacy coordinator. Zuri speaks about how she got into the business and what is the importance on having an intimacy coordinator on a television and film set. They also spoke about the obsession with “Love Island” and them kissing all of the damn time.   

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It is 4th of July and Jerrilyn Lake aka Indeskribeabull and Lynee’ Monae are off for the holiday. But listen to some of the best moments of the She Said it First Podcast.  

Lynee’ and Jerrilyn also talk about Shiloh Hendrix, a white Rochester, NY woman, who called a 5-year-old black boy with autism the N-word. Hendrix said she started getting death threats and must move so now she has raised over a half a million dollars through crowd funding. But a black woman in tech made sure she cannot get that money. 

Jerrilyn and Lynee’ speak about Nottoway Plantation in Louisiana burning down to the ground. There have been mixed feelings because the owners of the plantation have turned it from a mansion of slavery and torture to a resort where people get married. 

Actress and content creator Givonnie Samuels joins Jerrilyn and Lynee’ on the She Said It First Podcast. Jerrilyn and Lynee’ spoke with Giovonnie about embracing your femininity and how Giovonnie found her femininity. Giovonnie opens about her divorce and being single as well as navigating in this new content creator space. Samuels also talks about being a child actor and having to make that transition and how it is different in this social media space. Last, but not least, Giovonnie stayed to help Jerrilyn and Lynee’ give some advice as Unlicensed Professionals.   

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