What do you do when something doesn’t sit right, but addressing it feels risky? In this episode of Hello Hayes, I’m answering three advice letters that circle around one big question: Should I speak up, or move on? We’re talking about backhanded compliments, financial secrets, flaky friendships, and the moment you start to wonder if you’re asking too much — or just finally seeing things clearly. If you’ve ever questioned whether to confront someone or let it go… this one’s for you.

0:00 Introduction

2:35 Letter 1: "He Says the Wrong Thing About My Body"

22:04 Letter 2: "I Don't Trust My Fiance With Money"

35:18 Letter 3: "This Friendship Feels One-Sided"

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