In this conversation, Kelsie Olds shares their journey as an occupational therapist and a parent, discussing the importance of understanding children's needs and the role of occupational therapy in education. They emphasize the need for empathy towards children and the systemic challenges faced by both parents and educators. Kelsie advocates for a balanced approach to parenting and education, recognizing the uniqueness of each child while navigating societal expectations. The discussion also touches on the impact of online advocacy and the importance of communication between parents and teachers. In this conversation, Kelsie discusses the importance of addressing distress and dysfunction in children, advocating for their needs in therapy, and the significance of play in learning and development. They emphasize the need for empathy towards parents and the importance of self-advocacy in children. Kelsie also introduces their book, 'Your Child's Point of View,' which aims to provide insights into child behavior and development. The discussion highlights the connection between the inner child and parenting, as well as the value of embracing individuality and self-expression.

Follow Kelsie Online

• https://www.instagram.com/occuplaytional/
• Their Book: https://www.amazon.com/Your-Childs-Point-View-Understanding/dp/B0DBLJXJS2

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Takeaways

• Kelsie is focusing on growing their children and healing from surgery.
• Occupational therapy is about helping individuals with their daily occupations.
• Understanding sensory processing is crucial for both children and adults.
• The school system often struggles to accommodate diverse needs.
• Parents should advocate for their children's needs, even if they seem fine at school.
• Children's behaviors are often misunderstood by adults.
• The importance of authenticity in online advocacy cannot be overstated.
• Navigating parenting styles can be complex and challenging.
• Communication between parents and teachers is vital for children's success.
• Embracing children's uniqueness is essential for their development. Any kind of distress or dysfunction is a valid sphere to explore.
• Advocacy is crucial for ensuring therapy recommendations are followed.
• Children's development is a gradual process from core strength to fine motor skills.
• Incorporating play into therapy makes learning more engaging for children.
• Parents need to be empathetic towards their children's challenges.
• Self-advocacy is an essential skill for children to learn.
• Kelsie's book is designed for everyone involved with children.
• Understanding the inner child can improve parenting approaches.
• Embracing individuality in appearance can enhance self-acceptance.
• Children's behavior often reflects their developmental needs, not moral failings.

Chapters

• 00:00 Growing and Healing: Kelsie's Journey
• 03:00 Understanding Occupational Therapy
• 06:02 The Role of Occupational Therapy in Education
• 08:56 Navigating the School System: Challenges and Solutions
• 11:59 Assessing Children's Needs: When to Seek Help
• 14:48 The Importance of Adult Perspectives in Child Development
• 17:59 Balancing Expectations: Kids, Adults, and the System
• 21:03 The Impact of Parenting Styles on Child Behavior
• 24:05 Finding Authenticity in Online Spaces
• 26:55 The Journey of Internet Fame
• 29:56 Weird Kids: Embracing Uniqueness
• 33:12 Advocating for Children: The Parent's Role
• 36:04 Creating a Supportive Environment for Kids
• 39:15 Navigating School Transitions and Expectations
• 41:57 The Importance of Communication Between Parents and Teachers
• 45:02 Conclusion: Embracing the Journey Together
• 46:19 Exploring Distress and Dysfunction
• 47:12 Advocating for Children in Therapy
• 50:44 Understanding Child Development and Learning
• 54:31 Incorporating Play into Therapy
• 58:04 Empathy for Parents and Their Challenges
• 01:01:29 The Importance of Self-Advocacy in Children
• 01:09:01 Introducing 'Your Child's Point of View' Book
• 01:14:15 Connecting Inner Child to Parenting
• 01:19:02 Embracing Individuality and Self-Expression