Snow day’s got nothing on this episode. Kail and Becky kick off this week's episode with real-life mom chaos: sleep deprivation, jet-lagged babies, fever dreams that feel way too real, and the whiplash of going from “easy baby” to “I’m about to lose my mind.” From there, they get honest about how parenthood can shift friendships, identity, and even your relationship with your partner; these are the parts people don’t always say out loud, especially during the holidays.

They also dive into building traditions, navigating the guilt of not showing up the same way for friends once kids enter the picture, and why the “village” feels harder to find than ever.

To wrap it up, Kail and Becky tackle a wild “Karma or Chaos” submission from a veterinary nurse facing a moral dilemma: protect a brand-new business or report a vet for questionable (and potentially illegal) practices. It’s messy, funny, empathetic, and very Karma and Chaos.

Listen now for relatable motherhood talk, unfiltered friendship conversations, and a moral debate that’ll have you yelling at your speaker.

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