February 08, 2023

Solo Episode: Turns Out You Can't Be Friends With Your Ex

38 minutes

Today I recap a call I had with my ex-boyfriend from 6 years ago, my trip to NY and what the differences are between NY and LA. Then I get into the meat of the episode where we discuss how I learned I can no longer be friends with my ex. Hopefully further down the line when we both have partners we can be friends, but it's not in the cards for me right now.

(16:00 mark) Reasons why you can’t be friends with your ex:

There are a multitude but here are some that I boiled it down to in this episode.

Energetically, you have to let go of stale old energy to let new energy in.

Someone always gets hurt. 1 person moves on first; that’s just the laws of the land. Allowing someone access to you while they’re entertaining other options just hurts your heart. .

It prolongs your healing process and healing journey. You have to experience being alone to grow in dating. If you’re leaning on an old relationship that is no longer serving you, that is just prolonging your ability to move forward.

Would you date someone who was still talking to their ex? Don’t be that person. It just looks messy and confusing if you’re going on dates not being the most evolved version of yourself.

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By Julia Mazur

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