In this deeply moving episode of Start Here, I answer a heartfelt question from Vicki. A woman in her mid-50s who found herself carrying unexpected debt after a marriage breakdown. Despite earning a good income and having a solid super balance, she feels overwhelmed, stuck, and exhausted, battling 17.5% interest debt with no clear way forward.

This isn’t just about numbers, it’s about resilience, validation, and finding light in what feels like complete darkness. Together, we talk through:

• Why her situation is not her fault and how to acknowledge the unfairness of it.

• Practical ways to protect her mental health while tackling her debt.

• How to reframe her journey by finding “7 hidden blessings” in this experience.

• Creating an estimated debt-free date to give her a sense of hope and motivation.

• Why her gut feeling about her financial planner matters, and how she has every right to seek a supportive, non-judgmental advisor.

• How she can gently prepare for her financial future, including exploring her $1000 Project and shaping her investment style for when she’s ready.

Most importantly, this episode is about compassion. Vicki, and anyone walking a similar path, needs to be reminded of their strength, their progress, and the exciting future that lies ahead once the weight of debt is lifted.

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✨ Key Takeaways

• This is not your fault  - being left with hidden debts is painful, unfair, and damaging. Acknowledge it, grieve it, and know you are stronger than it.

• Mental health comes first - finding joy and hope is just as important as making repayments.

• Reframe your experience - identify at least seven blessings you’re building through this challenge (discipline, resilience, budgeting strength, financial clarity, etc.).

• Put a date in your diary - calculate when the debt could be gone, and plan a celebration for that milestone.

• You deserve support - if your current planner makes you feel judged, you have every right to change advisors.

• Look ahead with excitement - use this time to learn, plan, and design how you want to grow wealth once the debt is gone.

⚖️ Additional General Advice Warning

While we discuss financial topics, everything shared here is general information only - never personal, product, or investment advice. Always:

• Do your own research.
• Weigh up the pros, cons, fees, caps, taxes, and risks.
• Seek professional advice before making financial decisions.

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